Ua hālāwai pahaʻoe i nā kānaka i hoʻoholo paʻa loa heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kahi huahana ma mua o kekahi, aʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻoia iā lākou i nā manaʻo kū'ē'ē. Hiki paha kēia ma muli o ka maʻi leckling - he hiʻohiʻona maʻamau e kūlana kūikawā i kekahi poʻe. ʻAʻole pono e huikau kēia kumumanaʻo me ka maʻi hānai maʻi. E noʻonoʻo mākou i nā kohoʻelua.
ʻO ke kulekele o kahi kahu kī
ʻO ka maʻi leckling he mea hoʻonāukiuki kahi iʻike ai kekahi kanaka i kahi hou no ia, e hoʻomaka ana eʻike,ʻo ka mea maikaʻi loa ka mea iʻike muaʻia e kona maka. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo ka mea nāna i ho'āʻo mua i Coca-Cola,ʻaʻoleʻo Pepsi-Cola, e maopopo ia heʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kāna aiʻana, aʻo ka hope.
Ua kapaʻia kēia hiʻohiʻona naʻaupili e ka papa mele o nā peke. Ke puka mai ka makuakāne mai kahi hua manu,ʻo ka mea mua iʻikeʻia e hoʻomakaʻo ia e helu i kona makuahine, inā he mea pāʻani, he pipi a he'īlio paha, he kanaka. Pēlā nō,ʻike ke kanaka i kahi mea hou, hiki iā ia ke hōʻoia i kēia ma keʻano maikaʻi loa,ʻaʻole e hoʻolohe i kaʻike i kaʻike. ʻO ka hopena o ka lūlū he mea hoʻopunipuni a hōʻoleʻole ka manaʻo o nā kānaka'ē aʻe.
ʻO Ugly Duckling Syndrome
Paʻi i ka pīhoihoiʻino - heʻano'ē aʻe kēia. ʻO ia ka paniʻana o kekahi lālā o kaʻohana mai ke koena. I ka manawa maʻamau, hikiʻole kēia ma ka hoʻokōʻole a iʻole ma nāʻohana piliʻole, akā, aia kekahi mau manaʻo. ʻO ka mea i lilo i mea malihini, ua uluʻo ia me ka manaʻo haʻahaʻa a me kaʻikeʻole, uaʻikeʻo iaʻaʻoleʻo ia i ola e like me ka manaʻo o kona mau mākua, ua pilikiaʻo ia.
I kēia manawa, he mea nui kaʻimiʻana i ka pilina pili i ka pilina, eʻike i ka poʻe e pili a pili pono paha, nā mea e lawe i kā lākouʻohana. ʻAʻole hiki i ke kanaka ke noʻonoʻo inā huliʻo ia e pani i waho o ke kaiaulu. ʻO ka mea e pono ai,ʻo nā poʻe ke koi i ke kākoʻo o ke kanaka kālaihana, akā he nui ka hakakāʻana me kaʻole.