ʻO ka manaʻo o ka noho kaʻawale ka mea maʻalahi i nā kānaka a pau,ʻo ka mea hoʻokahi wale nō keʻano o ka laweʻana o kekahi mai kēia wahi o ka pōmaikaʻi, aʻo kekahi ke kaumaha a me ke kaumaha. Pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i ka noho kaʻawale aʻae i kēia? Ma kēia kumuhana, nui nā'ōlelo aʻo a nā loio.
Pehea e hoʻokuʻikahi me ka noho haʻahaʻa i kahi wahine?
ʻO ka loneliness wahine i maʻalahi aʻoi aʻe. He nui nā wāhine i nele i kaʻohana i kahi pōkole iki ma muli o kēia. Eia naʻe, he mea pono e hoʻomaopopoʻia i ka wā hou, ua koho nui nā wāhine i kahi ola olaʻole a hōʻohewa iā lākou no ka mea he mau hoaaloha wale nō. ʻO ka hapanui o lākou e alakaʻiʻia ana e ka hopohopo haʻahaʻa, no ka mea, he mea weliweli ka wahine maleʻole.
Pehea e launa ai me ka loneli wahine - ponoʻoe eʻike i nā mea nui a pau.
Hiki i kekahi ke hoʻopaʻapaʻa e hikiʻole i kekahi makuahine a wahine hemo paha nāna e hānai i nā keiki ke hoʻohana i kēia mau kōkua, no ka mea, ua ikaikaʻo ia e hana ikaika e kākoʻo i nā keiki. ʻO ka nīnau noiʻi -ʻo ka wahine wale nō ka wahine e ola ma ka uku o kā lākou mau kāne? ʻAʻole,ʻo ka hapa nui o lākou e hana ana ma ka home a ma ka hana.
Pehea e hoʻoponopono ai i ka noho haʻahaʻa o ke kanaka?
ʻO nā kāne kāne - he mea nui loa, he pinepine lākou i manaʻoʻia he bachelor,ʻaʻohe pono e hōʻoiaʻia i nā pōmaikaʻi o ko lākou kūʻokoʻa. Akā inā loaʻa nā manaʻo maikaʻiʻole o ke kanaka e pili ana i ka loneliness, a laila'ōlelo nā mea psychologists:
- e lulu a hele aku i kekahi hanana kūikawā, ka hale kiʻiʻoniʻoni, hōʻike, eʻae i kaʻahaʻaina;
- E hoʻololi i kēlā mea i kāu manawa āpau - e hoʻomaka e hoʻoponopono i ke keʻena, aiʻole e hana hou i ke kaʻa;
- e hele i kahi hele heleʻole, no ka laʻana, e hele i nā kuahiwi aiʻole e iho i lalo i ka muliwai.
Ua kūpaʻa ka manaʻo o ke kanaka a hiki i kahi lulu e hāʻawi i kahi manawa e hoʻonui ai i ka kūlana a loaʻa i kona mau pono ma nāʻano hou.