Heʻano likeʻole ka manaʻo o nā wāhine, akā, uaʻikeʻiaʻaʻole makemake nā kānaka akamai. Ma ke ala,ʻaʻole he kanaka akamai a he wahine akamai. Inā no kēia kanaka he nui o kaʻike ma nāʻanoʻano likeʻole a me ka hiki ke hoʻohana i ia mau mea, a laila aia ka manaʻo o ka wahine i loko o kahi'ē aʻe:ʻaʻole pono iā ia kaʻike like me ke kanaka -ʻaʻole ia he mea nui. Eʻikeʻiaʻo ia he akamai,ʻo ia hoʻi nā kāne, keʻikeʻo ia i ka naʻauao a me ka maʻalea.
No ka wahine iʻikeʻole, ua maʻalahiʻo ia eʻike.
ʻO wai ka wahine i manaʻoʻoleʻia?
ʻO nā hōʻailona nui o ka wahine naʻaupō, penei:
- ʻokiʻo ia i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ka'ōpū "me ka nānāʻole i keʻano o nā kānaka e hana ai;
- ʻike mau i kāna mau hewa;
- e hakakā mau ana me ke kāne, i ka ikaika, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ana i ko lākou pono.
"Loaʻa i nā mea noiʻi o ka wahine wahine" he 10 mau hōʻailona o ka wahine naʻaupō:
- Heʻoiaʻiʻo maoliʻo ia me nā wāhine a me nā kāne, a ua hoʻowahāwahāʻo ia i kekahi waha.
- He mea nui iā ia ke noʻonoʻo i ka pono a lanakila i ka hihia,ʻoiai inā e hoʻopauʻo ia i ka pilina me kona hoa hakakā.
- ʻAʻoleʻo ia makemake e pili me nā kāne, no ka mea, he naʻaupōʻo ia,ʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike pehea e ulu ai.
- ʻO ka wahine naʻaupō, nui kona nānāʻana i nā mea liʻiliʻi, me kaʻikeʻoleʻana i nā pilikia nui aʻe,ʻo ka hopena o ia mea he mea nui loa ia.
- Inā paha he kanaka maʻamau i loko o ka hale, ho'āʻoʻo ia e hana i nā mea a pau nona, e like me ka mea a ke kanaka e hiki ai ke hana, a hoʻoponopono i nā koho a pau, me ka nānāʻole i ka manaʻo o ka wahine.
- ʻAʻoleʻo ia i manaʻoʻo ka pilikia o kona ola ma muli o kāna mau hana a me kou mau manaʻo, me ka manaʻo he "hopena kēlā."
- ʻO ka wahine naʻaupō he mea hōʻailona ia no ka hapalua wahine nāna e haʻi aku i kona mau hoaaloha e pili ana i kona mau pilikia a pau, a kamaʻilio me lākou e pili ana i kāna hana pono'ī i kaʻohana, a hoʻohana i kēia mau'ōlelo aʻo.
- ʻAʻoleʻo ia i ka hana pū me kona mau hoa e "holoi i nā iwi" o kona haku, e hōʻike ana i nā mea pili i kekahi mau mea i hiki ke hoʻololi iā ia iho me ka manaʻoʻole i nā hopena.
- Ke hōʻoia nei nā hōʻailona o kahi wahine naʻauaoʻoleʻo ia iho e noʻonoʻo i nā pilikia no ia iho a hopohopo no ka hikiʻole ke hoʻoholo iā lākou.
- ʻAʻole ia i mākaukau e hoʻololi a huli i kahiʻoluʻolu i ka pilikia e hiki ai iā mākou ke puka i waho o ka pilikia me ka pilikiaʻole o ka haʻaheo o nāʻaoʻao i ke kaua.
Hōʻikeʻo Practiceʻaʻole pono ka wahine e maʻalahi, e like me ka naʻauao, a heʻoi aku kaʻoi aku o kēia iʻoi aku ka waiwai no ka wahine.