No ke aha mākou e makemake ai i nā keiki?

"No ke aha mākou e makemake ai i nā keiki?" He nīnau paʻakikī loa a heʻano paʻakikī ka nīnauʻana o nā kāne'ōpio kekahi i kekahi. ʻO ka hapanui o nā mākua i ka wā e hiki mai ana ke hānau keiki, me ka noʻonoʻo ole i ka mea e pono ai lākou. Eia naʻe,ʻo kekahi mau hoa e hoʻoheiʻia e kekahi mau pahuhopu, a mākou e haʻi aku iāʻoe i loko o kā mākouʻatikala.

No ke aha e loaʻa ai iaʻu nā keiki?

A laila, hāʻawi mākou i nā pane maikaʻi loa i kēia nīnau, a hiki ke loheʻia e nā wāhine'ōpio a me nā kāne:

1. ʻO ka hapanui o ka wahine i nīnauʻia no ke aha i makemake ai lākou i nā keiki i loko o ko lākouʻohana ,'ōlelo lākou: "He aha keʻano o kaʻohana me kaʻole keiki?" Nā mākua e hoʻoholo i kahi keiki no ka mea he mea pono eʻaʻaʻoleʻia kekahi, a no nā kumu likeʻole. ʻO ka mea pōʻino, i kekahi manawa,ʻaʻole i mākaukau nā mākua a me nā mākua'ōpio no ka hānauʻana o kā lākou hoʻomauʻana, aʻaʻole hoʻi e lawe pono i ka hānauʻana o ka pēpē. I kēlā manawa i kēia manawa, hānaiʻia ke keiki e nā kupuna wahine, aʻaʻole mālama pono nā mākua i kā lākou keiki.
2. I ka wā e aʻoʻia ai ka nīnau, no ke aha e makemake ai nā keiki i kahi kanaka,ʻo ka pane kaulana loa: "Pēlā ka wahine." Hāpai nā mākua i ka hānauʻana i kahi keiki no kaʻaeʻole, mai noʻonoʻo pono e pili i ka pēpē a hoʻololi loa i ka mālamaʻana i nā hunahuna i kā lākou wahine. I ka wā e hiki mai ana, uaʻoki pinepineʻia kēlā mauʻohana no ka nele o ka hana a ka makua i ka hānaiʻana o ke keiki.
3. I ka hopena,ʻo ka nīnau no ke kumu e pono ai i nā keiki i kahi wahine, hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa nā pane likeʻole. ʻO ka manawa pinepine, he kaikamahine'ōpiopio e hoʻoholo i kahi keiki, no laila aia kekahi e mālama, e kōkua i kekahi i ka wāʻelemakule a pēlā aku. ʻO kekahi o nā mea maʻamau a,ʻo ka manawa hoʻokahi, he kumu naʻaupō ka makemake e hoʻopakele i kaʻohana a mālama i ke kāne. I ka hapanui o nā hihia, hoʻokaʻawaleʻia nāʻohana, me kaʻole o ka nui o nā keiki i loko o lākou, a laila hoʻomaka ka wahine e kaumaha i ka hānauʻana o kekahi keiki'ē aʻe.

ʻO ka pane i kēia nīnau paʻakikī e hiki keʻano likeʻole. Hoʻoholo kēlā me kēia poʻe mākua no ia iho inā pono iā ia nā keiki aʻaʻoleʻole, a inā pēlā, no ke aha. Akā, he mea pono anei ke nīnau i ka pono o ka hānauʻana? ʻAʻohe mea eʻike pono inā he ola ma hope o ke ola, no laila he mea nui e waiho i ka hoʻomau - kāu mau keiki. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻohe mea waiwai i kūpono i kahi ola hou.

A eia hou, pono e pili i kahi keiki i kona ola lōʻihi a hauʻoli. E hoʻoili me ia i nā mea liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi a nui, e hōʻike i ke ao kahi e ola aiʻo ia. E aʻo iā ia e hele, e kamaʻilio, e heluhelu, e helu, e hōʻoluʻolu i ka mea i alohaʻia. A i ka hopena, e lohe i ka waiwai i mālamaʻia: "E Makua a me Pāpā, aloha au iāʻoe!", No ka meaʻaʻohe mea e pani i kēia hauʻoli.