Malia paha,ʻo nā mea a pau i ka wā'ōpiopio i noʻonoʻo ai i kāna mau mea pāʻani e ola ai i kā lākou iho, a me ka ola maikaʻi. He mea hoʻonani ka manaʻo a he mea paha, he mea hopohopo iki: pehea ka hopena o ka noʻonoʻo o Barbie i ka wā i hoʻohuli ai kona haku wahine iā ia. ʻOiai hoʻomakaʻoe i ka hoʻoweliweli iāʻoe ke nānā akuʻoe i kekahi kiʻi hōʻino paha, aiʻole e heluhelu pahaʻoe i kahi puke likeʻole kahi i noho ai kaʻuhaneʻino, aiʻole kaʻuhane o ka mea i make, a iʻole kekahi kino'ē aʻe, e hana i nā meaʻeleʻele, e noi ai i konaʻuhaneʻeleʻele, aiʻole i ka makemake o ka mea kilokilo kilokilo. , nona ka mana.
ʻO ka makaʻu i nā pīpī a me nā kumu o kēiaʻano
Ma keʻano maʻamau,ʻo ka manaʻo o nā pāpena e hiki ke hoʻokū i kahi hoʻoweliweli, he mea maʻalahi ia i ka nohona kuʻuna o kēia wā. A i loko o ka puʻuwai, e like me ka'ōlelo a kekahi poʻe psychologists,ʻo ka makaʻu i nā pāpani - kahiʻano like me ke kanaka, a ma ka manawa like - me ke akamaiʻole. Manaʻoʻo Z. Freud i ka hopohopo i nā pēpē, e like me nā mea'ē aʻe e makaʻu - mai ko mākou wā liʻiliʻi. Ke ulu neiʻo ia mai kaʻoiaʻiʻo o kēlā me kēia keiki'ōpio, he ola maoli nō kēlā mau pīpī, akā, he kanaka hopohopo e makaʻu i nā pāpani, aiʻole (ʻoiai, ua kapaʻia kēia makaʻu) pedophobia ,ʻaʻole e nalowale ka manaʻo o ka hoʻokaniʻana i kēia mea pāʻani. I kona wā e ulu ana, piliʻo ia i loko o ke kiʻi o ke ao a hana i kekahi phobia e hōʻeha i kona haku no nā makahiki he nui. Ma ke ala,ʻaʻole makaʻu nā pīpopō i keʻano o nā pēpē iā lākou iho, akā no ka hiki iā lākou ke hanaʻino iā lākou: e hōʻeha i ka naʻau, e'okihue iā lākou i loko o kā lākou hiamoe, aiʻole (a me kēia mea weliweli) e hoʻomaka i ka neʻeʻana, e hōʻoiaʻiʻo i ka pono a me ka hilahila o kēia kanaka. Ma ke ala, aia kekahi hihiaʻoi aku o ka pedophobia - glenophobia - makaʻu i ka nānāʻana i ka pāpālewele.
Nā hōʻailona o ka phobia kupaianaha o nā puppies
ʻO nā hōʻailona o ka makaʻu i nā pīpī, e like me kekahi phobia, penei:
- ka makaʻu kūponoʻole i ka mea phobia , a maopopo i ke kanakaʻaʻole hiki i kona makaʻu ke hāʻawi iā ia iho i nā wehewehe'ōlelo.
- Ke ho'āʻo nei e pale i ke kūkāʻana me kēia mea ma nāʻaoʻao a pau.
Ināʻaʻohe hiki ke hōʻoleʻia ka leka, a laila, ua kapaʻia kekahi mea i ka hōʻeha weliweli. Hōʻike ia iho he:
- heʻano weliweli e ulu ana i mea weliweli;
- he naʻaupō o ka mea e hana nei;
- he hōʻeha o ka hihiʻo a me ka hoʻoloheʻana;
- ka wehewehe i ke kikowaena;
- puʻuwai palpitations;
- pilikia ka hanuʻana;
- nā mea nui;
- haʻalulu.
'Oiʻo o ka pedophobia a me ka glenophobia
ʻO ka mea maʻamauʻole kēiaʻano phobias i keʻano o ka lāʻau; ʻaʻohe mea e pōʻino ai, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe mea maʻalahi i ke kumu o ka phobia. Eia nō naʻe, ma nā hihia koʻikoʻi, nā kānaka loiloikala, nā kālaihana a me nā psychiatrist e hoʻopiʻi i ka hihia, a ma o nāʻano likeʻole e hoʻomaopopo i kekahi kanakaʻaʻole nā kumu pākeke e hōʻino iā lākou.