I ka manaʻo o kahi wahine wahine maikaʻi, hoʻopau nā kānaka i nāʻano he nui. I mea e hoʻomāʻona ai i kāu kāne a hāʻawi iā ia i ka leʻaleʻa, ponoʻoe e lilo i wahine hānai, naʻaupō, akahai, a pēlā aku. Nui nā'ōlelo hoʻohui e hiki ai ke hoʻokō i ka maikaʻi i kēia mea.
He mea maikaʻi kēia haku wahine?
Ma muli o nā ana noiʻi,ʻike nui nā kāne i nā wāhine. Ma ke ala, he mea nui loa kaʻano o ka hoa.
Nā kūmole kūpono pehea e lilo ai i mea aloha maikaʻi:
- Pono eʻike ke kaikamahine i kona mau ākea āpau eʻike i kona kino. ʻO kēia ka mea e hiki ai iā ia keʻimi i nā wahi like e like me ka kino o ka hoa. ʻImi i ke kino o ke kanaka, e hoʻohana i kēia, no ka mea, he hulu.
- Wahi a nā 'elele o ka wahine ikaika,ʻo ka mea aloha i ka moena he wahine ia i kāohiʻole i kona mau manaʻo a hiki ke walaʻau, kāhea, a pēlā aku. He mea nui ia he maoli, me kaʻole o nā pāʻani a me keʻano hoʻohālike.
- ʻO ka mea nui o kahi mea aloha maikaʻi,ʻo ia ke aloha iāʻoe iho a me kou kino. Inā pilikia ka lede a ua hilahilaʻo ia, a lailaʻaʻole pono e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kahi kaʻawale. Eia hou,ʻaʻohe moekolohe, ināʻaʻoleʻoe makemake, no ka mea,ʻaʻole e loaʻa nā hoaʻelua.
- ʻO ka wahine he mea likeʻole. Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻololi i nā wahi manawa, no ka laʻana, e hāʻawi i ka makemake i kaʻauʻau, ma ka papaʻaina, a pēlā aku. Mahalo i ke kanaka e hiki ke lilo i kahi hula a me ka lole hili. Mai poina e pili ana i nā pāʻani pāʻani.
- ʻO kahiʻano nui o ka mea aloha maikaʻi, he hana ia, eʻikeʻia i loko o ka lumi moe. Mai hoʻopaʻa i kou mau manaʻo, akā, mai hoʻopaʻi . Inā makemakeʻoe e hoʻololi i kekahi mea aiʻole e hana i kekahi mea hou i loko o kahi pilina pili, e kūpono ka haʻiʻana i kēia. Pono nā hoaʻelua e hana i kēia. ʻAʻole pono ke hele i kahi moe.