Hiki i kekahi mea i ka moeʻuhane keʻike i nā manaʻo like me ka mea maoli, e like me ka huhū, ka huhū, a me ka hae. ʻO kēia mau mea a pau he hopena o ka hakakā a me ka maʻaʻole me nā poʻe e pili ana. I kaʻoiaʻiʻo, ma hope o ka hōʻino, he kino wale nō nā manaʻo o ke kanaka, akā pehea lāʻoe e manaʻo ai mai ka moeʻuhane āu iʻaeʻole ai me kekahi?
No ke aha lā mākou e paio ai?
ʻO kēia moe e hiki ke kū mai ma muli o ka hopena o ka hopena o ka manaʻo maoli i ke ola maoli. ʻO ia wale nō, ke ho'āʻo nei ke kino e hoʻomaha a pale aku i ka meaʻole. Ma ka moeʻuhane, loaʻa iāʻoe nā manaʻo kūkākūkā me nā hoalauna, hiki ke laweʻia ma ka'ōlelo maoli, no ka mea, hiki i ka noho maoliʻana e pili i ka poʻe e noho ana ma hope o ka pā,ʻaʻoleʻoe i mahana. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i kahi hakakā me kahi mea i alohaʻia, he hōʻailona ia i ka manawa kokoke e hiki iāʻoe ke mahele .
Inā he hakakā me kekahi kanaka mua, a laila e hoʻopunipuni anaʻoe iāʻoe iho a ma kou mau manaʻo e hoʻomau i ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i nā kumu o ke kaʻawaleʻana, a mālama pū i nā pilikia. Ke'ōlelo nei ka moe, ua hiki i ka manawa e wehe ai i kēia manaʻo nui a hoʻomaka i kahi ola hou. ʻAʻoleʻoe iʻike i kahi'ōlelo maʻamau me kahi malihini, a laila,ʻaʻoleʻoe e pōʻino i kou ola. Malia paha i hāʻule nā manaʻo a me nā moeʻuhane āu i hoʻonoho ai noʻoe iho. Keʻike nei i kahi e hakakā ai kekahi, a laila, e loaʻa koke ana iāʻoe kaʻike maikaʻi e pili ana i nā hoaaloha.
He aha ka manaʻo ke piliʻoe i nāʻohana?
Inā ma ka moeʻuhaneʻoe e hakakā me kou makuahine - he hōʻailona kēia o ka mea maoli i maopopoʻole i kekahi i kekahi, no ka mea, alakaʻiʻoe i nāʻano likeʻole o ke ola. E ho'āʻo e palekana i ka paio a loaʻa i kahi mau mea maʻamau. ʻO kekahi moeʻuhane paha ke haʻi iāʻoe e maʻi kekahi o kouʻohana. Inā he mau hakakā me kou makuakāne, pono paha he hopena o ka hōʻeha lōʻihi i kaʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO kahi moeʻuhane āu i hana ai me kou kaikuahine,
He aha ka manaʻo ke piliʻoe i nā hoaaloha?
ʻO ka hakakā me kahi hoaaloha e hōʻailona ana i ke ola maoliʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻololi i nāʻano likeʻole. E ho'āʻo e haʻalele i kāu mau kulekele e huli i kahi hanana kūpono. Akā, ua hiki ke hōʻailona o kahi ala lōʻihi. ʻO ka moeʻuhane no kahi hakakā me kahi hoaaloha he lapaʻau ia e hiki ai iāʻoe ke komo i kahi kūlana maikaʻi no kouʻano. Inā hiki kēia, a laila, kōkuaʻia ka mea kōkua mai kahi hoaaloha āu i hoʻokae ai i loko o ka moeʻuhane.