ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi i hilinaʻiʻia ai ka mea hilahilaʻole he hōʻailona-helu nui. No laila, no ka loaʻaʻana o ka pololei pololei a me ka pololei, pono ia e noʻonoʻo ponoʻole i ka mea kumu, akā, i nā mea'ē aʻe a pau o ka moe.
No ke aha e moeʻuhane ai ke kanaka'ōlohelohe?
Ināʻikeʻoe iāʻoe iho he'ōlohelohe - he hōʻailona maikaʻiʻole kēia, aʻo ia ka hopena o nā pilikia a me nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa. ʻO kekahi moeʻuhane paha he hōʻailona o ka manaʻo kānalua. No kekahi kaikamahine'ōpiopio, he hōʻailona kēia e hōʻike ana, me ke kōkua o kona launa, e kaulanaʻo ia i waena o nā kāne. No ka moeʻuhane i kahi kanaka hilahilaʻole i ka moeʻuhane, he mea pono ke makaʻu i ka poʻe'eleʻaleʻa e paʻa i nā lāʻau i nā huila. ʻO ke kanakaʻelemakule ka'ōpala he hōʻailona e aʻo aiʻoe i kekahi mea huna. ʻO ka nānāʻana i kekahi mau wāhine kūlohelohe, ponoʻoe e kali i ka'ōlelo hawanawana, a i ia manawa, ua piʻi ka mea e loaʻa ai ka maʻi.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi e noho ai ka mea hilahila i loko o ka lehulehu he hōʻailona o ka hilinaʻi ponoʻole, kahi e hiki ai ke alakaʻi i nā pilikia likeʻole. Ināʻoe eʻauʻau i ka wai me kaʻaʻahuʻole - he hōʻailona maikaʻi kēia, e ola ai ke olakino maikaʻi. ʻO ka hihiʻo pō eʻike aiʻoe i ke kanaka'ōlohelohe he'ōlelo aʻo ia e hūnā ana kekahi ma kāu wahi i ko lākou mau manaʻo pono. Inā moe ka mea hilahilaʻole, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke pale i ka maʻi. No kekahi wahine,ʻo ka hihiʻo pō, kahi iʻikeʻoleʻia ai nā kāne he nui wale me kaʻaʻahuʻole, nā mea hoʻolaha i nā hiʻohiʻona o nā mea mahalo nui. Inā he mea'ōlohelohe kahi i moe ma kahi moe - he hōʻailona aloha kēia, a no ka wahine i mareʻia, ua hoʻohikiʻo ia i ka hemoʻana . No kaʻikeʻana i kahi kanaka'ōlohelohe i loko o ka moeʻuhane e nānā pono ana he mea pono e hoʻomākaukau no ka pōʻino a me nā pilikia ma ke aloha mua.