ʻO kēlā mau ululāʻau eʻakaʻaka mau ana i ka hoʻomana kiʻi, ma mua o ka lā o ka maleʻana, pinepine lākou i nā kumu o ka "naʻauao o ka poʻe" a nānā pono i nā hōʻailona a me nā hana maʻamau. ʻO kekahi - noʻoe iho, i ka hihia wale nō, a me nā mea'ē aʻe - iʻole i ka naʻaupō ka mea hikiʻole ke hoʻoweliweli i nā malihini me kahi meaʻaeʻoleʻia aʻaʻole hōʻailona paha.
Nā hōʻailona e pili ana i ke kala o kaʻaʻahu mare
I Rusia,ʻo nā wāhine i mare mauʻia i loko o ke kāʻei ulaʻula nani loa, akā naʻe, ua kāpiliʻia kēiaʻano e ka Pākehā, aʻo ka koho maikaʻi loa he loleʻaʻahu keʻokeʻo keʻokeʻo. I kēia manawa, hoʻolaha nā mea hoʻolale i nāʻanoʻili likeʻole, me nā meaʻole o ka poʻe kahiko. ʻO ka mea kākau inoaʻo Vera Wong i hoʻopuka i ka hōʻuluʻulu o nāʻaʻahuʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele , a he kaulana hoʻi i nā'ōlohelohe'ōpio.
Eia naʻe,ʻo kaʻike o nā kānaka e pili pono ai i kaʻaʻahu o kaʻaʻahu mare a me ke ola o ka poʻe'ōpio. Nā hōʻailona e pili ana i kēia mau mea penei:
- ka lole keʻokeʻo - ka pōmaikaʻi maikaʻi, e palekanaʻia mai luna mai;
- ʻO ke kapa wili - no ke aloha lōʻihi a me ka hauʻoliʻohana;
- ʻaʻahu'ahuʻula - e maloʻo ke kāne i kekahi i kekahi;
- ʻaʻahu uliuli - he hana hoʻokamakama i ka mareʻana;
- nāʻaʻahu'ōmaʻomaʻo - pono nā kānaka'ōpiopio e hoʻoili i ko lākou waiwai;
- kapa komo komo komo - i kahi ola pōkole pōkole;
- ke kapaʻulaʻula - ka mea e hōʻeha nei i ka hoʻokae a me ka hakakā;
- ka lole gula a me ka lole gula - kahi hana o ka mare waiwai a me ka noho aloha;
- kaʻaʻahuʻeleʻele - kekahi o nā wāhine i pilikia i ka lūlū lūlū;
- ʻO kaʻaʻahu'ōmaʻomaʻo - ka mare me ka loaʻaʻole o nā manaʻo.
Eia naʻe, e hōʻoia i nā hōʻailona male aʻaʻoleʻole he mea pilikino no nā mea a pau. ʻO ka mea nui no ka wahine mare e noʻonoʻo i ka manaʻoʻaʻoleʻo nā makuahine a me nā hoaaloha wale nō, akā,ʻo ke kāne mare hoʻi, a inā i huli aʻeʻo ia e lilo i mea hoʻokaumaha, eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻokau i kona kūlana. I ka hopena, ponoʻoe e makemake i kēiaʻaʻahu i kahi mua iā ia.
Nā hōʻailona no nā mea e pili ana i nā apo
I ka heleʻana i kahi hale kūʻai waiwai, eʻikeʻoe i kahi nui o nā mīkini wili no nā mea a pau. Mai ke keʻokeʻo a me ke kapuahiʻulaʻula, me nā manamana, me nā mamanu a me nā peʻikena - he mea paʻakikī ke koho i kēia mea i hoʻokahi mea!
Akā, ināʻoe e hoʻolohe i nā hōʻailona, a laila, he mea maʻalahi ka koho - ponoʻoe e hele pololei i ke'ō hōʻike hōʻike me nā hiʻohiʻona hiʻohiʻona a koho i kahi apo gula maikaʻi, pono loa kahi hoʻohālike no ka wahine mare a me ke kāne. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,'ōlelo ke akamai kanaka: inā paʻakikī ke kanikani a laila e leʻaleʻa ke ola, a inā he mau kīʻaha a me nā pale ma ke apo, e mālamaʻia ke ola ma nā pahū, ka hakakā, nā ups and downs.
Nā hōʻailona e pili ana i nā kāmaʻa lole
No nā kāmaʻa, aia i loko o kaʻike o nā kānaka ka mea pono'ī nona iho. Hiki i nā kāmaʻa i koho ponoʻoleʻia e lilo i hōʻailona no ka pōʻino o kaʻohana a iʻole kona puʻunaueʻiaʻana:
- inā he mau puka ma nā kāmaʻa - e pōʻino kaʻohanaʻohana;
- inā nā kāmaʻa o ka wahine mare, a me nā kāmaʻaʻole - a e hele wāwaeʻole i koʻu ola a pau;
- he mea nui e koho i nā kāmaʻa me nā mea paleʻole -ʻo ia ka puʻuwai o ka hānauʻana;
- he waiwai kaʻohana, ponoʻoe e kau i kahi'āpana kālā i loko o ka kāmaʻa;
- i ka waiwai nui o kaʻohana, pono ke kauʻia ka moni ma ka kāmaʻa'ākau o ke kāne mare;
- inā wāwahi ka heʻe wāwae i ka wā o ka maleʻana - e ola kaʻohana me nā pilikia;
- ināʻo ka wahine mare i loko o ke keʻena o ka luna kākau, a nalowale kona kāmaʻa - e hihia a pōʻino i ke ola;
- inā paʻa nā kāmaʻa ma mua o ka maleʻana no nā lā he mau lā - i ka mare maikaʻiʻana;
- he hauʻoli ka male, pono ke kūʻaiʻia nā kāmaʻa i ka Pōʻalima.
Me nā hōʻailona i kaʻaʻahu a me nā kāmaʻa, aia kekahi mau hōʻailona e pili ana i ka pāpale mare. Eia kekahi lā, ua manaʻoʻiaʻo ka lōʻihi o ka pale,ʻo ka lōʻihi ka nohoʻana o kaʻohana, aʻo ka hauʻoli i loko o ka mareʻana wale nō me ka wahine mare i koho i kahi paleʻulaʻula a iʻole keʻokeʻo. ʻO Fatouʻaʻole iʻaeʻia kekahi eʻaʻai a paʻa paha i kona mau lima - he mea pilikino kēia e pale ana i ka hauʻoli o kaʻohana.