Hiki ke hoʻohālikelike i ka hānauʻana o kahi keiki i kahi mana maoli, no ka mea, ua hānauʻia ke ola hou. Me kēia hana,ʻo nā manaʻo maikaʻi wale nō iʻikeʻia e ka wahine pono'ī a me kona holoʻokoʻa. Inā moeʻuhaneʻoe i hānauʻia ke kaikamahine i ka manawa o ka ho'ākākaʻana, pono e noʻonoʻo i nā mea'ē aʻe iʻikeʻia, nā hana, a pēlā aku.
He aha ka moe o ke kaikamahine?
ʻO kēia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia e'ōlelo nei i ka hauʻoli. Hiki keʻikeʻia e kekahi wahine i moe lōʻihi i ke kaikamahine a ua kū paha. No ka wahine i mareʻia, ua hōʻike mai ka moe i ka haʻihaʻi maikaʻi, akā,ʻaʻole lākou i manaʻoʻia. ʻIke mākou i ka moeʻuhane o ke kaikamahine ma ka home. Ma kēiaʻano, e haʻi ana ka moe i nā pilikia o kēia manawa i ke ola maoli e kokoke koke ana. Ināʻike ka wahine i loaʻa i kahi keiki makua i ka moeʻuhane, a laila hiki iā ia ke hoʻi i ka pilina me ke aloha a me ke aloha o kāna kāne.
ʻO kahi moe i hānauʻia ai kahi kaikamahine me kaʻeha, akā ua pau nā mea a pau - he hōʻailona e pau nā pilikia a pau i kēia manawa. Inā maʻalahi ka hānauʻana, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻololi i kāu mau pilikia i kekahi kanaka a hoʻomaha. ʻO ka hānauʻana o kahi kaikamahine he hōʻailona ia no ka hoʻomaikaʻiʻana i kouʻano waiwai, e like paha, e hiki iāʻoe ke kū i mua o kahi papahana nui a loaʻa kahi uku. Hiki paha i kēia ke nānā aku i ke kāwiliʻana o nā pilina i manaʻoʻoleʻia eʻoe, e hāʻawi iāʻoe i ka hauʻoli nui a me ka hauʻoli.
Inā i make ke kaikamahine - he hōʻailona kēia o ka loli , nā pilikia kālā a iʻole nā maʻi. No ka hānauʻana i kahi keiki i hoʻomaopopoʻoleʻia,ʻaʻole ia e liʻuliʻu e loaʻa iāʻoe kahi uku no kāu mau hana. Ua hānauʻia ke kaikamahine me nā maka uliuli - manaʻo nui i ka hauʻoli i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Inā hele ka hānau keiki i ka wai - he hōʻailona kēia o ka waiwai nui a iʻole ka hōʻailona i kaʻohana. No kaʻikeʻana i ka hānauʻana o ke kanaka i kahi kaikamahine,ʻo ia hoʻi, ma ka wā e hiki mai ana e hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokō i kou makemake makemake. No ka wahine i hikiʻole ke hānau keiki, e hōʻike ana kēlā moeʻuhane i keʻano o kahi'ānela kiaʻi, e'ōlelo anaʻaʻole e hopohopo kekahi mea a nele i ka manaolana.
Inā ma ka moeʻuhane ka hānauʻana me kahiʻeha nui, a laila, eʻike kokeʻia kekahi kanaka i loko o kou ola,ʻo ia ka mea e hana mau ai i kahi kūponoʻole noʻoe. Keʻikeʻia e kahi kanaka ka moeʻuhane no ka hānauʻana o ke kaikamahine,ʻo ia hoʻi, i loko o ke ola maoli, ua kauʻo ia i kahi kaumaha i hikiʻole iā ia ke paio. Ke'ōlelo nei ka mea unuhi'ōlelo moe e hōʻoki i ka hana nui, iʻole e hoʻonui i kou olakino.
ʻO ke kaikamahine hānau he like ia me ka makuahine - he hōʻailona o ka manawa hou o ke ola, akā i ka manawa maoli e loaʻa iāʻoe ka manawa e hoʻomaka hou ai. He lauoho lōʻihi a me nā maka nui ka pēpē - he hōʻailona o ke olakino maikaʻi.
No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai i ka hānauʻana i kahi kaikamahine puʻupaʻaʻole?
Ma kēiaʻano, ua haʻi ka moe i kou kūlana i kūkalaʻia, ma muli paha o kāu hana. ʻO kekahi moe e haʻi aku iāʻoeʻaʻole makemake ka kaikamahine e ulu a mālama i kāna kuleana no kāna hana. Hōʻoia ka ho'ākāka 'ana i ka noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kāu hana a hoʻololi i kou ala o ke ola .
He aha ka moe a ke keiki no ka hāpaiʻana?
ʻO ka moeʻuhane no ka hānauʻana o ke kaikamahine he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia, e haʻi ana i ka hānau maʻalahi a me ke olakino maikaʻi. Hiki iā ia ke hōʻailona no kaʻoiaʻiʻo he keikikāne kāu. Inā moe ka wahine i hānauʻo ia i kahi kaikamahine, akā i ka manawa hoʻokahiʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike i ke kaʻina hana, a laila i ka wā e hiki mai ana e manaʻoʻia ka loli o ka pono kālā no ka maikaʻi, a me ka lono maikaʻi. Ma hope o ka hānauʻana o ke kaikamahine, ua pilikiaʻoe - he hōʻailona o ka loaʻaʻana o ka uku no ka hana.