He mau hōʻailona keʻano o ka ikaika o ka makemake a he kanaka paha a iʻole e hōʻike iā ia iho i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
No ke aha he mau kāmaʻa me nā wāwae kiʻekiʻe?
He kuʻekuʻe kiʻekiʻe - e hōʻailona ana i ka hoʻonani. Mai ke kiʻekiʻe e hilinaʻi i ka libido ('ākau). ʻO ke kiʻekiʻe,ʻo ka nui. Inā he mau kāmaʻa ma nā wāwae kiʻekiʻe, ua moeʻuhane lākou i kahi kāne, a laila, e hālāwaiʻo ia me ke kaikamahine moeʻuhane. ʻO ka hemahema o ka kuʻekuʻe -'ōlelo ia e pili ana ka pilina ma ka pae platonic a iʻole ka nele o kahi pilina aloha.
Pehea keʻano o ka lauoho?
Hōʻike i ka makemake e loaʻa nā manaʻoʻeleʻele a me ke kūkuluʻana i nā pilina me kekahi hoa,ʻaʻohe i unuhiʻia ma keʻano he hālāwai me kekahi kanaka a iʻole ka pilina me ia. No ka ho'ākāka hou aku, pono kaʻili a me ke kāmaʻa o nā kāmaʻa.
No ke aha wau eʻaʻahu ai i nāʻulaʻulaʻulaʻula?
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He aha nā kāmaʻa heeledʻeleʻele e nānā like ai?
Me ka wāwae haʻahaʻa - e kamaʻilio ana no ka puke moʻolelo ma ka hana a iʻole me kekahi hoa hana. Inā he kāmaʻaʻeleʻele kahi o ka'ilila, a laila, uaʻinoʻino ke kumukūʻai. E hoʻopiʻi kēia i kekahi hoa hana, hoa pāʻoihana, a pēlā aku,ʻo ia paha, keʻano o ka "novelʻoihana".
No ke ahaʻo ia i ka wāwae wāwae ma kona kāmaʻa?
ʻO keʻano he manaʻo no ka kānalua pono'ī. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ka wāwae wāwae ka hopena i ka puni kanaka.
Eia kekahi,ʻo ka wāwae wāwae he nui nā manaʻo: kūʻaiʻana i nā kāmaʻa hou, kahi hakakā me kahi mea aloha. Aia kekahiʻaoʻao'ē aʻe - i ka maleʻana.
ʻO nāʻelima i ka moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi. E kamaʻilio ana i ka puka o ka hoʻololi i ke ola, i ka manawa i hala nā hanaʻino a pau. No ka hoʻomaikaʻiʻana i ke ola, ponoʻoe e hana ikaika.