Pehea e hoʻoleiʻia ai ka makaʻu i ka make?

ʻO ka manaʻo o ka make,ʻo ia kēlā mea,ʻo kēlā mau'ōlelo,ʻo ia mau manaʻo i manaʻoʻoleʻia e kekahi o mākou e'ōlelo nui. Ke waiho nei mākou i nā manaʻo kaumaha e pili ana i kēia ma kahi pahu liʻiliʻi, e ho'āʻo ana e hoʻopau i ka hopohopo o kēia manaʻoʻole. He mea paʻakikī ke kamaʻilioʻana no ia mau mea,ʻo ia ke kumu e pono ai ke hana i kēia, no ka mea,ʻo kaʻaeʻana i ka halaʻole o ka make,ʻo ia wale nō ke ala e pale aku ai i ka makaʻu i ka make.

ʻO ka makaʻu i ka make ke kumu o nā phobias'ē aʻe

E hoʻomaka kākou me nā mea a nā kānaka psychologists iʻike ai, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻike i kahi mea māmā. Ma ka naʻau o nā phobias a pau,ʻo ia ka hopohopo no ka make,ʻo ia ka mea e hoʻonāukiuki i ka makaʻu, ka hoʻokūkūʻole, me ke kūʻole i nā kūlana maikaʻi. Hiki iāʻoe ke holo i kahi lelo - no ka mea makaʻuʻoe i kēia mea, makaʻuʻoe e lele ma luna o ka mokulele - no ka mea makaʻuʻoe i ka hāʻule a me ka make.

No ke aha mākou i makaʻu ai i ka make?

I mea e maopopo ai iāʻoe iho pehea e hoʻokahuli ai i ka makaʻu i ka make, e maopopo i kekahi ke kumu o kēia makaʻu weliweli o ka make. Malia paha e kahaha paha kou hopohopo no ka meaʻaʻole kēia hopohopo i loko o nā moʻomeheu a pau. I ka wā kahiko,ʻoiai (a, i ka mea paha, i kekahi mauʻohana i kū'ēʻole i ka nohona kanaka),ʻo ka make kekahi hapa o ke ola, a no laila uaʻike nā kānaka he mea ola maoli. Aia kekahi manaʻo e make ka make i kahi kūlana hou o ke ola, heʻano hou, inā makemakeʻoe.

I kēia lā, me ka hoʻomakaʻana o kekahi au o agnostics,ʻaʻohe makemake o ke ao nei i kēia. No ka mea, uaʻike mākou a pau i ka make kekahi o ia mea), a keʻimi nei mākou i ke ola ma loko o ka honua papa honua kahi e nui ai nā ola o nā mea a pau, kahi a lākou e pana ai a hele aku, kahi e mana ai.

ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻike mākou i ka makaʻu no ka make no ka meaʻaʻole mākou i maopopo i ka mea e kali nei iā mākou.

Pehea e kū ai i ka makaʻu?

E kōkua i ka makaʻu i hiki i ka make ke hoʻomanaʻo i kahi hoʻomaha. Ponoʻoe e kū a hoʻokū i kou hopohopo. ʻO kekahi hiʻohiʻona o nā kānaka nui a hanohano, ka poʻe i nani o kaʻelemakule , a me ka make, hiki ke hana maikaʻi. E heluhelu a aʻo i ka pono o ka lāhui e hiki ai iāʻoe keʻelemakule, he aha nā manaʻo hou āu e aʻo ai.

I ka manaʻo nui, i mea e pale aku ai i kēia makaʻu, a me nā mea makaʻu'ē aʻe, ponoʻoe e hōʻoiaʻoe iho e like meʻoe. No kaʻaeʻanaʻaʻoleʻoe he lālā lauoho, akā, he keakea (aiʻole he'aneke), e hōʻoiaʻoeʻaʻoleʻoe i hānauʻia he makuahine o kahi kālā miliona miliona, akā ua koiʻiaʻoe eʻimi i nā ala e hoʻonui aiʻoe iāʻoe iho, eʻae a aloha iāʻoe iho ma loko a ma waho. A laila e pauʻoe i ka mahuka mai ke ola aku a hōʻoia i nā mea a pau āu i makemake ai e ola.