ʻO ka poʻe nona nā pōpoki a'īlio paha e hoʻoholo pono i ka male o kā lākou holoholona, ma hope o ke kuʻana i ka huelo o kāna hānai. Akā, no ke kanaka nāna i hoʻopaʻa i kona ola me kahi kuhukū , uaʻano paʻakikī kēlā hana. ʻOiai paha he mea alohaʻo ia. I ka nīnau e pili ana i ka piliʻana o nā kuhū i ka wahine, he nui nā mea i hana i kahi kuleana. ʻO ke ala maikaʻi loa e nānā i kāu pipi, e hoʻohālike iā ia i kahi'ōhumu ola'ē aʻe, āu iʻike maoli i ke kāne a wahine paha. Akā, e kākau mākou i kahi hōʻailona pono e kōkua i ka mea heluhelu e hoʻoponopono i kēia pilikia.
E hoʻoholo i ka wahine o nā kuhukū
Hiki iāʻoe keʻimi i kāu kāne male aiʻole wahine paha ma hope o kona hikiʻana i kahi makahiki. Eia kekahi laʻana, i loko o kahi'ōmaʻa nui, hiki keʻikeʻia nā hiʻohiʻona maʻamau i nā makahiki he iwakālua. ʻOiai aia kekahi mau mea hiki ke hana i kēia me hoʻokahi makahiki aʻelua paha. Akā,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka hoʻoholoʻana i ka wahine o ka'āinaʻeono aʻewalu paha mau makahiki, i ka lōʻihi o ka lōʻihi i ka 10 knm aʻikeʻia nā hiʻohiʻona a pau.
Nā hōʻailona kūpono e pili ana i keʻano o ka laume
- Heʻokoʻa nā'ōpiopio ma muli o ka nui o nā wāhine ma mua o nā kāne. ʻO kēiaʻano likeʻole ma ke kaumaha aʻo ka nui o ka pū iʻikeʻia ma hope o ka hikiʻana i ke kau makahiki.
- Inā mālamaʻoe i kekahi mau kuhukū, a laila e hōʻike ka wahine ma ka hana a nā meaʻai. ʻO nā mea like, uaʻoi aku kaʻoi o nā wāhine ma mua o "nā wāhine" ma ko lākouʻano. Hoʻomaka e hoʻolāʻihi i ka wā, e ho'āʻo ana e hōʻeha a hoʻohuli i ka hoa paio.
- Eia kekahi, he nui nā'āpana male,ʻaʻole pono lākou e pale a hōʻewa paha, no ka mea'ē aʻe,ʻoi aku ka maluhia. ʻO kēia mau polokalamu e hoʻohanaʻia e like me nā makau e hoʻomau i ka pūlika paheʻe o kā lākou hoaaloha.
- ʻO ka'ōpū o nā huluhulu ka mea i kapaʻia he lapalapa. No laila,ʻokoʻa keʻano o nā 'elele o nāʻokoʻa likeʻole. ʻO ka palapalapala wahine he mea kūpono paha i ke kaulike a iʻole ka palahalaha loa. Loaʻa ka'ōpū o nā kāne, ka mea nui e hoʻoponopono i ko lāua male.
- Pehea eʻike ai i ka wahine o ka moa, e kōkua iā mākou e nānā i keʻano o ka pū. Ke hoʻololiʻia nei he nui nāʻano'ē aʻe. I nā kāne, uaʻoi aku ka lōʻihi aʻoi aku o kēia nani ma mua o ko kāua mau kaikamāhine.
- Hiki i kekahi'ōpena e like me ke kaniʻana o ka nūnū ke hōʻike i kekahi meaʻike iki. I loko o nā wāhine, heʻano like kona inoa, a he kāne keʻano o kahi laina lōʻihi.
- Hiki i ka hiʻu ke haʻi i ke aloha i kaʻike o ka wahine o kāna kuhukū. Loaʻa ka huelo wili a kahi wahine, mai hūnā i lalo o ka iwi. Akā ua ho'āʻo nā kāne e hūnā mai ka nānāʻana i nā maka i loko,ʻoiai he lahilahi, kuhikuhi a lōʻihi.
Uaʻike nō hoʻi nā meaʻoihanaʻike i nā mea maʻalahi'ē aʻe o keʻano o kekahiʻano. ʻO kēia paha kaʻula o nā maka a iʻole ka lei o ka ihu, akā nā hōʻailona nui i hōʻikeʻia aku iāʻoe. Manaʻo mākouʻaʻoleʻoe e loaʻa i kekahi pilikia me ka pehea e hoʻoholo ai i ke kāne o ka tortoise.