ʻAʻole kekahi o mākou e pono e alakaʻi i ka mea e hana ai i loko o ka wahine, akā he aha e hana ai ma hope o ka mea e'ōlelo ai,ʻaʻole maopopo i nā mea a pau. ʻO ka maʻamau, nā kāne e noho like ana no ka manawa lōʻihi,ʻaʻole e kū i kēlā mau nīnau, akā inā i hoʻomaka ka pilina o kāu pilina, e hoʻopiha pololeiʻia kēlā mea.
He aha e hana ai ma hope o ka wahine?
ʻO ka pane i kēia nīnau e pili ana i keʻano o ka moekolohe - me ka manawaʻole, hoʻokahi pō,ʻaʻohe pilikia a iʻole me kekahi hoa i hōʻikeʻia. ʻO nā hana a me nā kūkākūkā e pili ana i ka nui o nā mea a pau āu i makemake ai a makemakeʻoe e "hoʻomau i kaʻahaʻaina."
- ʻO wai ka meaʻaʻole iʻike i ka'ōlelo a ke kaukōkōkō e lawe i ka wai ma hope o ka moekoloheʻana e mālama ai i ka maʻemaʻe? Akā, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kēiaʻoihana kūpono ma ka hele pūʻana i kaʻauʻau. He aha kāu e hana ai ma laila - holoi, holoi i ka kuhuma, lapuwale a hoʻokuʻu i nā hua a make hou paha, aloha iāʻoe.
- Ma hope o ka moekolohe, hikiʻole ke kanaka e kamaʻilio a hana hou, no ka physiology kēia. Ma hope o ka moemoeka, e hoʻokuʻuʻia ka serotonin hormone i loko o ke koko, e hoʻonāwaliwali ai i nā kāne. ʻO ia ke kumu o nā lālā o ka hapanui ikaika o ka lāhui ma hope o ke aloha i ka hōʻoluʻolu e like me ka laweʻana i ke kāpena a iʻole e hele i ka lumi kuke e hoʻomaha ai. No laila,ʻaʻohe mea e pono ai ke paʻi i ka hoa me ka loiloi - he meaʻoluʻolu loa ia i ka hui pūʻana, a hiki i ka hui ke hana i kaʻaina awakea,ʻaʻole ke kīʻaha a iʻole ka'ōmole o nā keneta keneta.
- Akā, ma waho o ke kamaʻilioʻana me ka wahine,ʻaʻole e loaʻa, no ka mea, he mea kaumaha loa nā wāhine i ka nānāʻana i kēia hihia. ʻO ka mea wale nō e kamaʻilio ai? ʻAʻole i pili i nā pilikia koʻikoʻi,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi e hoʻomaikaʻi i kou hoa, e haʻi mai iaʻu i nā manawa hea i makemake nuiʻia aiʻoe. Malia paha i ka hoʻomanaʻoʻana e makemakeʻoe e hana hou. Ma ke ala,ʻaʻole pono e hoʻohui i ke aloha i ka moeʻana i nā kamaʻilio me nāʻano maʻamau, hiki ke hoʻololiʻia kēia ma muli o nā loli o ke kino wahine ma hope o ka wahine. ʻO keʻano o ka hormone serotonin ka manaʻo o nā wāhine i ka pono e haʻi aku i ko lākou mau manaʻo me kekahi kāne.
- Ināʻaʻohe maikaʻi ka wahine, a laila, e hōʻoia i ka nui o nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole, ua maopopo iāʻoe aʻelua. Hoʻokaʻawaleʻia mai ka manaʻo o ka hemahema e kōkua i ke kūkākūkāʻana i kahi kumu kūmole ma luna o ke kīʻaha kope.
- ʻO nā wāhine he mau meaʻuhane, a uaʻikeʻia kekahi o lākou e "kāheaʻana i ka wahine." Hiki i kēia hana ke alakaʻi i kekahi hoa i loko o ka pupule, akā pehea lā inā e kahe ka waimaka? He nui ka poʻeʻepekema e hōʻike i kēia i ka nui o ka noʻonoʻo o ka wahine, akā aia kekahi e nānā i nā waimaka mau loa ma hope o ke kāpiliʻana no ka pilikia o ka maʻi. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke'ōlelo pololei i kēlā mau mea, no ka mea,ʻaʻole i aʻo maikaʻiʻia kēia mea.
- He mau kāne likeʻole e like me ka moeʻana ma hope o ka moekolohe a hui pū i kahi manawa e nānā i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni. ʻO ka mea e makaʻala, koho noʻoe - nā mele melomele e hoʻomaha loa aku ma mua o ka lullaby, hiki i ka'ōtica ke hoʻololi i kekahi moekolohe'ē aʻe, aʻo kahi kiʻi wikiwiki eʻae iāʻoe e hoʻomaha a nānā pono i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni.
He aha kāu e hana ai me ka wahine'ēʻole?
Inā i loko o ka wela wela e hoʻopoinaʻoe e pili ana i ka palekana,ʻaʻole ia he mea maʻalahi ke mālamaʻana. Ma hope o ka moe koloheʻole, pono e mālama i ka paleʻana i nā maʻi i hoʻounaʻia e ke kino. No ka hanaʻana i kēia, ponoʻoe e holoi i nā genitals me ka hamo a hoʻopaʻaʻia iā lākou a me nāʻaoʻao o nā'ūhā me kahi lāʻau hōʻailona (betadine a miramistin). No ka paleʻana i ka'ōpū e makemakeʻoleʻia, ponoʻoe e lawe iʻekolu mau papa o ka hōʻailona hormonal me ka dose o estradiol 0,3-0,35 mg i loko o ka papa a ma hope o 12 mau hola e lawe i 3 mau huaale. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻohana i kēia alahana iʻoi aku ma mua oʻekolu manawa i ka makahiki. ʻAʻole pono e laweʻia ka Postinor a me ka estradiol, no ka mea, e hana mau lākou i ke olakino o nā wāhine.
He aha inā inā loaʻa iaʻu nā manaʻo leʻaleʻa ma hope o ka wahine?
ʻAʻole aloha mau
Inā'ōhumu ke kaikamahine no ka hopena o kona umauma ma hope o ka moekolohe, ma loko o nā'ūhā, a laila,ʻo ka mea mua i komo i ka manaʻo,ʻo ia ka hana nui o ke kāne a me ke kaumaha o ka hoa. Akā,ʻaʻole nā manaʻo maikaʻiʻole ma hope o ka moekoloheʻana ma muli o kēlā mau kumu, hiki iā ia ke hōʻike a no nā maʻi o nā kino o kahi kīʻaha liʻiliʻi a iʻole ka umauma. ʻO ke ahi a me ka momona i loko o kaʻolelo hiki ke kamaʻilio e pili ana i nā maʻiʻeha. No laila, inā he mau lōʻihi nā leʻaleʻa ma hope o ka pilina paʻa, ponoʻoe e nīnau i kāu kauka.