I ka manawa pinepine, he paʻakikī i nā wāhine ke hoʻomaopopo i nā kāne,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike i ke kumu o kā lākou hana, kā lākou mau pahuhopu a me nā makemake. Akā, he mea pono wale nō eʻike i nā mea e makemake nuiʻia e nā kānaka i nā mea a lākou e manaʻo ai mai ke ola a me nā mea a lākou eʻimi ai me ko lākou makemake -ʻaʻole wale nā nīnau a me nā kuhihewa wale nō, akā, e pau loa nā paio.
No laila, he aha ka makemake o kēlā me kēia kanaka?
E Kiekie, Mua, Luna
ʻO kēia ka makemake nui o nā mākaʻi a pau o ka wahine ikaika. ʻO nā mea a lākou e hana nei,ʻo nā mea a lākou e hakakā ai, ua makemake lākou e hōʻoia - "ʻAʻole wau iʻoi aku kaʻino ma mua o ko haʻi. ʻOiaʻiʻo, ua maopopo loa i nā kānaka a pau he mea hikiʻole ke lilo i ka mua a ma nā mea a pau, akā, e loaʻa paha iā lākou kekahi mea pono'ī o lākou iho, kahi e hiki ai iā lākou ke "helu hoʻokahi". He mea nui iā lākou eʻike i kēia pono - e haʻaheo i ko lākou iho a hōʻike i nā mea'ē aʻe (ʻoiai nā wāhine) he mea waiwai lākou. No laila,ʻaʻoleʻo ia ma ka home, e hoʻolimalima ana i ka manawa a me ka ikaika nui i ka hoʻomauʻana i kānaʻoihana - no ka mea, makemakeʻo ia e holomua me ke kūlana kanaka. Ma luna o kēia mea kona manaʻo a me kona manaʻo i kona iho.
E hoʻokō i kāu mau pahuhopu
He mea nui kēia. Ke hana ke kanaka i nā mea a pau e unuhi i kāna mau manaʻo i meaʻoiaʻiʻo, maopopo kona manaʻo,ʻo ia. He aha nā mea i makemake pinepineʻia e nā kānaka, he aha kā lākou makemake? ʻO kēlā me kēia kanaka ka pahuhopu -ʻo ia ke kūkulu i hale aʻoihana paha, no ka hoʻokahuliʻana i nā kuahiwi a me nā wāhine i hiki ke hiki, e pupuhi i nāʻiʻo a wehe i kaʻoihana ... Akā, hana lākou a pau i mea e'āponoʻia ai e nā kānaka'ē aʻe a me ka mahalo i nā wāhine.
Loaʻa i ka wahine
ʻO kēlā ka makemake o nā kānaka a pau, a me ka mareʻana, a me ka weheʻana, a me keʻano hoʻokahi. He mea pono nā wāhine iā lākou,ʻo ia ka mea e pono ai iā lākou ke loaʻa i ke kino, ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo o ke aloha, kaʻaeʻana, kaʻike a me ka kākoʻo. Pēlā lākou e haʻi mai nei i ko lākou mau manaʻo a hoʻomaopopo hoʻi he pono lākou i kahi wahine aloha. No laila, hōʻoia i ka hōʻoiaʻana a me ka hoʻomahaʻana o ke kino. Hāʻawi ka wahine iā lākou i ka hilinaʻi iā ia iho, i keʻano o ko lākou puʻupaʻa a me ko lākou ikaika.
A no ka nani loa o kona pilina me kāna wahine a me kāna wahine wahine paha, inā hoʻomaka lākou e hakakā iā ia me ka wahine,ʻaʻoleʻo ia eʻae i ka heleʻana eʻimi i wahine eʻae i ka mea e pono ai kona makemake a me kona makemake.
E kiʻi i ka kākoʻo
ʻO ka mea ikaika loa, e pale ai, e hoʻokō, e hoʻolako i kahi e hele ai kekahi kanaka. Aʻo ka'ōhumuʻana, ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i ka lima a me ka nonoiʻana e mahalo,ʻaʻoleʻo ia ka hopena. Akā,ʻaʻole ia he mea ponoʻole lākou i nā'ōlelo hoʻonāukiuki a me ke aloha. Pono nō hoʻi nā kāne eʻike he aloha lākou, ke haʻaheo nei lākou, aʻo kā lākou hana a me kā lākou hana i kālepaʻia. A e hiki iā lākou keʻike i ka wā e kamaʻilio ai lākou.
Pehea e maopopo ai i ka makemake o ke kanaka e lohe, heaha nā hua'ōlelo e kakali nui ai? ʻOiai, aia nō kekahi poʻe e hōʻoia iā ia,ʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi loa, nā akamai, nā koa, a me nā talenti. ʻO wai me ia - e like me ka pā pōhaku. ʻO ia ka manaʻo a me ke kākoʻo o kaʻohana. Loaa, makemake a nani. E manaʻoʻiʻo ka wahine iā ia ae lanakilaʻo ia.
Ua makemake kekahi kāne e lohe i kahi wahine e mahalo ana iā ia a mālama iā lākou. ʻO ka mea wale nō ka hoʻohanaʻiaʻana o nā wāhine a pau i ka loheʻana o nā wāhine i ko lākou pepeiao, aʻike lākou i keʻano nui o lākou me ka mahalo a me ka hōʻoia o ke aloha. Akā, ua like nā kānaka me ka maʻalahi a me ka manaʻo.
E loaʻa ka mahalo
A he meaʻole loa! Ponoʻoe e'ōlelo: "Mahalo iāʻoe! Mahalo nui wau iāʻoe no ka mea āu e hana nei! ".
He mea maʻalahi ke hoʻomaopopo o ke kanaka, e like me nā mea'ē aʻe,ʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia i nā hoʻopiʻi, hoʻohenehene a me ka hoʻoheneheneʻana! Makemakeʻo ia e alohaʻia aʻaeʻia. A me nā kānaka a pau, me ka hilinaʻi i ke aloha a me ka kākoʻo, ua mākaukauʻo ia e hoʻololi no ka pono o kāna mea i aloha ai a lilo iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, iʻoi aʻe ka maikaʻi!