Ma hope o nā hālāwai kūkākūkā, ka heleʻana i ke ahiahi, ka pilina maikaʻi, nāʻike, nā manaʻo hou, ua lele wale nā lā a me nā mahina. Eia ka makahiki mua loa i ka manawa iʻike ai a wehe i ka hōʻike o ke aloha no ka hopena,ʻaʻole e hōʻike i kēia lā makuka no ka mea hikiʻole ke kalaʻia kekahi hoa aloha. Inā noʻonoʻo pinepine kekahi kanaka no ka loaʻaʻana o kahi wahi kaʻawale ma kahi haleʻaina aiʻole kahi wahiʻoluʻolu aʻe, ua luhi nā wāhine e like me nā mea'ē aʻe. ʻO ka nīnau e hiki ai ke hāʻawi i kahi makana punahele a me nā mea aloha loa i kāna keiki aloha hoʻokahi a aloha ma ka hopena kokoke i ka pilina,ʻo ia kekahi o nā kumu nui no kā mākou mau kaikamāhine.
ʻO nā manaʻo hoihoi no ka hāʻawiʻana i ke kanaka he lā hānau
- No nā'ōpiopio,ʻaneʻane kokoke i nā makana a pau e hoʻomanaʻo mauʻia e nā mea aloha. Ināʻikeʻoe i ka hanaʻana i ka lole, nā mīkina lima a iʻole ka'ilika, a lailaʻaʻole ia e hoʻomanaʻo wale iāʻoe no keʻano o ke aloha, akā, e hoʻomaha loa iā lākou i ke anu.
- Me nā polokalamu e like me Adobe Photoshop, hiki i nā haumāna ke ākea a hiki i kēia manawa, no laila, hiki i kekahi kaikamahine akamai ke hana i ka papa akamai a iʻole ka papaʻaina e hoʻonaniʻia me nā kiʻi. ʻO kekahi koho like paha he kiʻi kiʻi nui loa ia, kahi e hui pūʻia nā kiʻi me nā leka aloha i loko o ka pane a me ka'ōlelo, a me kou mau hoʻomanaʻoʻana i nā manawaʻoi loa. Inā makemake kekahi wahine i ke video,'ānō me ke kākoʻo o kahi kamepiula e hiki iāʻoe ke hana i nā'ōmiʻoni liʻiliʻi wale nō, akā, i kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni hoʻi no ka noho pūʻana. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻoiai, ua lakoʻoe i nā mea no ia hana, i panaʻia ma kāu'ōpona a iʻole kamepiula paha.
- Lawe pinepine mākou i kahiʻaina awakea i kaʻaina awakea aiʻole i kaʻaina awakea, akā he maʻalahi ke hoʻonani i loko o kahi kāhiko maikaʻi. No ka wahine maikaʻi, ka mea nāna eʻike i ke kohoʻana i nā kīʻaha maikaʻi,ʻaʻole pono e hoʻolālā i ka lā hoʻomana i ka lā ma ka cafeʻai. E ho'āʻo e hoʻohauha a hoʻokomo i kāu meaʻai punahele me ka hoʻomākaukauʻana iāʻoe iho. ʻO kēlā mau mea kupaianaha e hiki ai ke hōʻoia i nā manaʻo no kekahi kanaka kānalua he hoa kākoʻo maikaʻi a hoʻokolohua loaʻia kāna hoa wahine no ka hoa.
- Inā pilikia ka wā, a laila, loaʻa i ke kumukūʻai ka makana kūikawā a me ka pono i ka lā makahiki o kahi pilina aloha. Pono nā mea aloha o nā mea waiwai e nānā aku i ke keʻa, ka mīkini, ke kāmele'ōniʻoniʻo me ka kahakaha. ʻO nā makana e like me kēia, he mea nui ka nui, akā, mau lākou i ka mahalo.
- Inā loaʻa i ke kaikamahine he kālāʻuʻuku aʻaʻole makemakeʻo ia e hoʻolimalima ma nā mea nani, a laila, hiki ke loaʻa i ka nīnau i ka mea e kūpono e hāʻawi aku i ke kanaka i ka makahiki hānau ma ka kūʻaiʻana i nā mea waiwai i loko o ka hale kūʻai. Hiki iā ia ke kūʻai aku i nā wati mua, nā mea kākau i kākauʻia, kahi pahu putele a me ka waihona o kaʻili, a me nā mea'ē aʻe i hiki ke komo ma ka hana a ma ka home paha.