ʻO ke akamai wahine

No nā kenekulia, kapaʻia nā kānaka e kā lākou mau wāhine he "naʻaupō" a he "naʻaupō," akāʻaʻole kekahi o lāua e hakakā me ke ola o kahi mea hilahila e like me ka naʻauao o nā wāhine. ʻO ia paha, aʻaʻole hoʻi e lawe mai i ka lede o nā pou alakaʻi i ka paʻa, akā e kōkua i ka palekana i nā aloha aloha. E nānā kāua i ka naʻauao o nā wāhine.

Nā mea hūnā o ka naʻauao wahine

ʻO ka nīnau, heʻoiaʻiʻo, he meaʻono, akā, no ka paneʻana, pono ke hoʻomanaʻo i ka hopena o ka wahine hānau mua, aʻaʻole maopopo i ka hōʻoiaʻiʻoʻana o ke kanaka ma mua o nā kānaka a puni. ʻO ia ke kumu, he maikaʻi kaʻike o nā wāhine i ka pilina, akā, ua aneaneʻole ia he meaʻole no kaʻoihana. ʻAʻole mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka hikiʻole i nā wāhine ke hele i mua o nā kāne ma ke koho balota o ka pelekikena, akā i kēia manawa e pilikia kaʻohana. No laila,ʻo ka mua o nā mea pohihihi o ka naʻauao wahine,ʻo ia kēia: hiki iā ia ke koho i ka manawa kūpono. No ka mea he mea paʻakikī loa ke hoʻopaʻaʻana no ka manawa pōkole. Akā, hoʻokahi wale nō kēia o nā kānāwai, akā he aha keʻano o kaʻike wahine?

1. ʻO ka noʻonoʻo o ka wahineʻaʻole hiki i ka hiki ke pale aku i kona manaʻo ma nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa hoʻopiʻi, akā i ka hiki ke pale aku iā lākou. I ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa,ʻaʻole pinepine i kaʻoiaʻiʻo i hānauʻia, akāʻo ka kumu no ka huhū.
2. E hoʻomanaʻo i ke akamai o ka wahine: "ʻO ke kāne - ke poʻo, a me ka wahine - ka'ā'ī"? Hōʻikeʻo ia i ke kūlana o kahi wahine naʻauao ma kaʻohana. ʻAʻole kēia e hoʻomaka i nā mea hōʻeha a me nā hoʻopihoihoi e koi i kāna kāne e hana, akā e loaʻa i kahi ala e loaʻa ai ka mea i makemakeʻia ma nāʻano'ē aʻe. ʻO ka papa o nā aerobatics ka mea e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ai i ke kanaka e manaʻoʻiʻo maoli no aia mai ka manaʻo.
3. Aia kekahi o ka naʻauao o ka wahine -ʻaʻole eʻike i nā manaʻo o kāna kāne. He nui ka poʻe eʻimi i ka uku o ka uku, ka pilina me nā mākua,ʻaʻole e hoʻolei i ka lepo, akā no nā kumu. Loaʻa ka hopena o ka hopena o ia mau hana -ʻo ka hemo paha a me ke kāne paha. Uaʻike maikaʻi nā wāhine akamai i kēia a ma kahi o ke kākoʻoʻana i kā lākou mau kāne. ʻAe, a me kekahi mea e hana ai i ka wahine no ka wahine e mahalo ana iāʻoe, akā,ʻaʻole no ka hōʻino a me ka hōʻeha.
4. ʻO kekahi hōʻailona o kekahi wahine akamai,ʻo ia ka hiki ke mahalo a mahalo iāʻoe iho, eʻike i nā mea a pau e pili ana i kou mau manaʻo maoli a me kou mau makemake.
5. ʻAʻohe wahine akamai e hoʻopaʻa i kāna kāne ma nā lima a me nā wāwae, e koi ana i kona kuleana. ʻAʻoleʻo ia e noi aku i kahi mea no kona aloha, no ka meaʻaʻohe wahi i loko o ka pilina pili i ka mākeke, i ka manawa eʻikeʻia ai, hiki iāʻoe ke kau i ke keʻa me kaʻoiaʻiʻo.

Pehea e aʻo ai i ka wahine wahine?

Manaʻoʻiaʻo ka naʻauao o nā wāhine,ʻo ia kaʻike o kaʻohana, nā mea i loaʻa i ko mākou mau makuahine, nā kupuna wahine a me nā kupunawahine nui. No laila,ʻaʻole e koiʻia nā haʻawina o ka naʻauao wahine, no ka mea, aia kahi hoʻomanaʻo o Rod. Pēlā, inā uaʻike mākou i kēia pilina aʻaʻole mākou i ho'āʻo e haʻalele i ko mākou aʻa i ka manawa kūpono mua. A he nui nā wahine, no laila, eia nā wāhineʻaʻole i kākoʻo ʻO kaʻohana. Mahalo, hiki ke hoʻihoʻiʻia. No kēia mea, pono e kūkulu i kahi pilina maikaʻi me ka makuahine, e hoʻoholo i nā kuhihewaʻole, inā he.

Eʻike inā ua hōʻoleʻia nā wāhine i loko o kouʻohana - hoʻokahi, maʻi nui, inu. Ināʻo ia, laila e kākau i ko lākou inoa ma ke kolamu, e hoʻomaka me ka inoa o kou makuahine. I kēia manawa, e kū'ē i ka inoa o kēlā wahine kēia wahine, e kākau i kekahi mea maikaʻi e pili ana iā ia. A no laila, e heluhelu i nā mea i kākauʻia, mahalo i kēlā wahine i kēia wahine no nā mea maikaʻi a pau āna i hāʻawi aku ai iā Rod - ola a aloha i kāna mau keiki, kaʻike kūpono. He mea nui i loko o kēia hana maʻamau ka hoʻopaʻiʻole i kekahi,ʻaʻole no ka hoʻohewa a me ka haʻaheo.