He aha keʻano o nā keiki i kēia manawa, kūpono,
ʻAʻohe pono no lākou,
Noho mākou i ko mākou olakino,
Akāʻaʻole kēia he mea iā lākou ...
Yu. Song from m / f "Bremen Musicians"
ʻAʻole hikiwawe ke lilo i mau mākua -ʻaʻohe mea e hakakā me kēia. I kekahi manawa, hoʻolohe kā kā mākou mau keiki i ko mākou aloha a mālama, e like me mākou,ʻaʻole pono. ʻO ko lākou mau manaʻo, paʻakikī, keʻano paio i kekahi manawa, he meaʻole ia. Akā, no ka mea,ʻaʻohe keiki aloha loa, aʻo nāʻohana a pau e hele i nā wā maluhia a me nā wā o ka paʻakikī, ka pilikia. Pono e hoʻomanaʻoʻiaʻo iaʻano "komo" heʻano maʻamau o ka uluʻana.
Me ka pilikia mua o ke keiki, hiki pinepine nā mākua i ka hālāwai me ke kakahiaka - i ka manawa o ka'ōpio i ka makahiki 1 (hiki ke hoʻohālikelike kona makahiki mai 9 mau mahina a hiki i 1.5 mau makahiki). Loaʻa i nā keiki a pau i ka wā e hiki mai ana i nā pōpilikia i 3 mau makahiki, 7 mau makahiki a,ʻoiai, i ka wā'ōpio. ʻO kēia mau manawa paʻakikī e pili ana i ka hoʻololiʻana o ke keiki i kekahi manawa hou o ke kūʻokoʻa, ke kūlana makua: i ka makahiki 1 e hoʻomaka ana ke hele kaʻawaleʻana o ka pēpē, i loko o 3 mau makahiki - liloʻo ia i mea pili piha, a pēlā aku. Pono nā keiki a me nā kūpono hou e hoʻomaopopo i ke keiki, e mālama i loko o kona poʻo - he kūlohelohe ia ma nā mea maʻamau wale nō e holo mālie ai kēia hana me kaʻole.
ʻO nā kumu o ka pilikia 7 makahiki
I kēia lā, e kamaʻilio ana mākou no nā pilikia o nā keiki no 7 mau makahiki. E like me ka mea i haʻi muaʻia,ʻo ka pilikia o 7 mau makahiki i loko o nā keiki, e like me kekahi'ē aʻe, he kumu pono'ī nō kona. I ka wā mua, pili kēia pilikia i ke kūkuluʻana i kahi pilikino pili kanaka. I kēia manawa,ʻaʻole wale kāu keikikāne, kahi moʻopuna, a me nā mea'ē aʻe, akā he haumāna, he hoa papa. He kuleana nui kona i nā kuleana a me nā kuleana. I kēia manawa, pono iā ia e kūkulu i nā pilina me nā hoa me ia, nā kumu. I loko o konaʻokoʻa eʻikeʻia, heʻokoʻa nā mākua, nā mea koho hou (kumu). Hiki iā ia ke loiloiʻole i kāna mau pono (nā kula), no ka manawa mua,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i hōʻoia i ka aloha makua a hōʻole paha i ka hana. Ponoʻo ia e hana i nā mea'ē aʻe he nui,ʻaʻole e haʻi i ka loaʻaʻana o kaʻike hou ma nā haʻawina. Ma kahi o ka pāʻani e like me ka hana nui e loaʻa mai ana kahi aʻo. ʻO kēia mau mea kēia e alakaʻi ai i kahi loli o kaʻike a me kaʻike pilikino, ka ho'ākāka houʻana i nā waiwai, a me ka loli o ka hoʻonohonohoʻana i nā mea nui.
Nā hōʻailona o ka pilikia 7 makahiki
Ke 7 a 8 paha mau makahiki a kāu keiki, a hiki paha i ka makahiki 6, hiki paha iāʻoe keʻike i kāna mau hōʻailona'ōuli o kahi pilikia i nā makahiki 7. ʻO ka maʻiʻehaʻole o 7 mau makahiki, eia naʻe, he mau hōʻailona. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona nui o ka hana a ke keiki e loaʻa ana i kahi pilikia o 7 mau makahiki keʻano o ka hanaʻana, kaʻike, ka pākiko, ka hōʻailona. Hiki i kāu keiki ke hoʻomaka e kamaʻilio maʻamau me ka noʻonoʻo, e like me keʻano, kālepa, leo, nā loli hoʻololi, a pēlā aku. Ua hala nā mokulele o nā keiki: i kēia manawa,ʻaʻole i hoʻomaka koke ka hoʻouluʻana o waho i kahi kumu mua, kūlohelohe, i ka hopena koke, e like me ia i loko o ka preschooler. Ma waena o ka hanana a me ka hopena i ia manawa, i ka manawa o ka weheweheʻana i "wedges in", uaʻikeʻia ka paeʻike. Hoʻomaka ke keiki e hoʻokaʻawale i ka waho a me loko, hiki ke hoʻomaka e "mālama" i kona ao i loko,
Pehea e lanakila ai i ka pilikia 7 makahiki?
He aha kāu e hana ai i ka pilikia o kāu keiki 7 makahiki? ʻO ka'ōlelo aʻo koʻikoʻi i kēlā me kēia kūlana,ʻo ia ka mālama i ka hoʻomalu iāʻoe iho. ʻAe, he paʻakikī, i ka wā e nānā ana ke keiki i ke kekona, e like me ka ho'āʻo nui e kipaku i nā mākua mai loko aku o lākou. Akā naʻe,ʻo ka hana makua ma kēiaʻano,ʻaʻole ia e "pana i ka lele", e mālama ana i ka pale o ka palupalu a me ka paʻakikī. Mai hoʻokomo i nā manaʻo o ke keiki, akā, e kau i kahi mea, e ho'āʻoʻaʻole e hoʻokuʻu iāʻoe iho i lalo, e huhū. E hoʻomanaʻo i ka pilikia o ka pilikia, aʻo ka hopena o kāu keiki i kēia manawa o kaʻaoʻao hope loa o nā loli holomua o konaʻano, kona uluʻana.