No ka wā lōʻihi,ʻo nā wāhine wale nō i manaʻo iā lākou iho i ka pōhaku, ka punk, a me ka ululāʻau ululāʻau, hiki iā lākou ke hāʻawi i ka lauoho lauoho a me nā luakini i kālaiʻia. ʻO kēia kiʻi keʻano o ka hoʻopaʻapaʻa a me ka ponoʻole. Akā, hoʻololi kokeʻia nā mea i hoʻololiʻia, aʻaʻole i liʻuliʻu, ua hoʻolohe ka "poʻe maka'āinana i kēia lauoho mua.
ʻO wai nā lauoho wahine a me nā luakini i kālaiʻia?
I kēlā me kēia makahiki, ua lilo ka huluhulu a me nā luakini i kālaiʻia i mea kaulana. Ke nānā nei lākou i nā mea kaulana a lākou, me ko lākou kōkua, e ho'āʻo ana e hōʻike i ko lākouʻano a me ko lākouʻano kūlana kūikawā, e kākau ana nā mea kākau i nā pale pale. ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻaʻole i maopopo i nā kānaka a pau i keʻano o ka huluhulu'ōmaʻomaʻo o ka wahine me ka heiau keʻakeʻa,ʻaʻole kūpono ia no kēlā me kēia:
- ʻO ka mea mua, ponoʻoe e nānā pono i ka maʻalahi o kou lauoho. Ināʻoe i ka lauoho lauoho - maikaʻi loa. Ma lalo o ia mea, e nānā ka hale i kiolaʻia i keʻano o keʻano. Akā inā he "mālie" nā pā, e haʻaleleʻoe i ka manaʻo. Ināʻole, e lilo ka poho'ōmaho i ka leo a pau.
- ʻO ka lauoho o kēlā wahine me nā pale i hoʻoheheʻeʻia,ʻaʻole i kapaʻia heʻokoʻa, akā, he mea kūpono loa i nā lauoho lauoho a me nā wāhine wahine. Ma luna o nā polina, e like me ka hōʻikeʻana i ka hōʻike,ʻaʻole i ke nānā ka nani o ka lauoho.
- Nā hiʻohiʻona nui a me nā hiʻohiʻona. ʻO nā lauoho wahine me nā pale i hoʻolālāʻia a ua paniʻia ka nānāʻana i nā mea nona nā helehelena oʻoleʻa maikaʻi. ʻO nā kaikamāhine me ka lono kaumahaʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke hāwanawana - e hoʻokau wale lākou i kahi kiʻi hoʻowahāwahā. ʻO nā wāhine me nā loina kiʻekiʻe ke poʻokela loa -ʻo nāʻano a pau o nā lauoho e kū nei e pili iā lākou.
He mea nui nui ke hoʻomaopopo o ka lauoho lauoho o ka wahine me nā luakini i kālaiʻia, e maikaʻi wale nō inā e nānā mauʻiaʻo ia. E mālama ponoʻia nā poʻo o ke poʻo me nā gels kūikawā. Eia kekahi, pono e hoʻoponopono hou - hiki ke nānā pono i kahi'ōhumu i kahi i hoʻonaneaʻia.
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