E like me kouʻike, hiki ke aloha i nā pilikia a pau a lanakila i nā pilikia a pau. ʻO ka māhele a me ke kaʻawaleʻana mai ka mea aloha mai,ʻaʻole ia he mea pale i nā manaʻo kūpono a me ka ikaika. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana me ka mea āu i aloha ai, no kekahi mau lā, hiki keʻikeʻia e like me kahi mau loa. Eia naʻe, he mea pono e hoʻomanaʻo i nā mea a nā mākuahine a me nā kupunawahine e like me, e kali ana i kā lākou mau kāne a me nā mea aloha mai ka pūʻali mai ke kaua, mai nā hele pinepine a lōʻihi, mai nā wahi aʻo a me ka hana. I kēlā mau lā,ʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa nā kamaʻilio lōʻihi ma ke kelepona, nā leka uila maikaʻi i kēlā me kēia hora, aʻaʻohe mea i lohe e pili ana i kaʻike wikiō. A lailaʻo ke ahi o ke aloha i kākoʻoʻia e nā leka i ka kaʻawale, nani a piha hoʻi i nā manaʻo a me nā mea i manaʻoʻia ai.
ʻO kahi leka i kahi mea i alohaʻia i ka kaʻawaleʻana e hoʻonui i ka lōʻihi lōʻihi a me ka lohi o nā kaikamahine. No ke kākauʻana i kahi leka nani i ka mea i alohaʻia ma ka kaʻawaleʻana,ʻaʻoleʻo ia i haʻalele i hoʻokahi hola, akā, ma ka pepa,ʻo nā manaʻo a pau - ka aloha a me ke aloha, ka manaʻolana a me ka manaʻolana, nā manaʻo a me nā moeʻuhane i nininiʻia. ʻO kahi leka i kāna kāne ma ka kaʻawaleʻana,ʻaʻole i loko wale nō nā kumumanaʻo no ka wā e hiki mai ana, akā he mauʻike lōʻihi hoʻi o ke ola o kēlā me kēia lā, nā hanana a me nā hanana, nā hopena o ka wahine a me nā keiki, a me nā mea'ē aʻe. A he aha nā poʻomanaʻo o nā poeti kaulana loa i kā lākou poʻe aloha a me kā lākou pane. Ua lilo i nā mea a pau i lilo i hiʻohiʻona o nā papa mele kahiko, no ka mea, i nā manawa kahiko, hiki i kahi mamao loa keʻoki aku i nā poʻe no ka manawa pauʻole.
Nā Palapala o ke aloha a me ke kaʻawale
Ma ka ao hou, nā leka pepa i loko o nā hoʻopihapiha i hoʻounaʻia e ka mēleka ua kāleka maikaʻi i nā pahu lolouila, nāʻenehana kaiaulu, kūkākūkā, ke kamaʻilioʻana ma o nā leka uila. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole iʻoi aku kaʻoi o ke kākauʻana i nā leka mai kēia mea. Uaʻoi aku ka maʻalahi o ke ala e lawe ai. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka launa pūʻana me kahi kanaka ma kahi mamao aku i ka manawa maoli,ʻaʻole loa e hiki ke pani i kahi leka i kahi mea i alohaʻia i ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana, i kona mau aloha a me kona mau manaʻo.
Ināʻoe e hoʻomanawanui i ke kaʻawaleʻana mai ka mea aloha, a laila, pono e kākau i kahi leka i kāu kanaka aloha i ka kaʻawaleʻana,ʻo ia ke ala maikaʻi e hōʻike ai i kou mau manaʻo iā ia. ʻO kahi leka i kahi mea i alohaʻia ma ka hoʻokaʻawaleʻana paha, hiki ke komo i nā hopena o ka hopena,ʻo ia wale nō aʻikeʻo ia. Eia hou, hiki iāʻoe ke hōʻike i kou mau manaʻo me nā hua'ōlelo, a hōʻaʻahu nō hoʻi iā lākou ma keʻano mele, e like me ko mākou mau kūpuna.
He leka i ke kanaka i ka kaʻawale -ʻo ka aha e kākau?
ʻO kahi leka i kahi kāne ma ka kaʻawaleʻana,ʻaʻole ia he maʻalahi, no ka makemakeʻana i kahi ala nui. He paʻakikī ke haʻiʻana i nā mea a pau āu i manaʻo ai i nā hua'ōlelo, akā hiki iāʻoe ke ho'āʻo e hana. Pono nā leka nani o ka haʻaleleʻana, akā naʻe,ʻaʻole wale nō nā hoʻopiʻi e pili ana i ka hewa o kou kinoʻole. Oi maikaʻi inā kākauʻoe, peheaʻoe e kali ai no ka hālāwai, a me nā mea āu e hana ai ke hālāwaiʻoe. E wehewehe i kāu mau hoʻolālā no ka wā e hiki mai ana, kāu mau pahuhopu, nā moeʻuhane a me nā makemake, kahi āu eʻimi nei. He mea nuiʻole ka hoʻokomoʻana i kahi manaʻo o ka pili aloha a me ka manaʻoʻole i kahi leka aloha. He mea hou kēia no kāu mau kāne e noho pono meʻoe a hoʻomanaʻo i nā minuke maikaʻi loa i hui pūʻia, a ke nānā nei hoʻi i ka hālāwai me ke alohaʻole.
He mea nui nō hoʻi ka manaʻo o kāu kanaka ma ka leka i kaʻoiaʻiʻo maoli
Hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻouna i kahi leka ma ka leka uila, sms, ma kahi pūnaewele. Akā,ʻo ke ala maikaʻi loa e kākau ai i kahi leka i kahi mea i alohaʻia,ʻo ia ka kākauʻana ma ka lima. ʻO kāu lima kākau, ka haʻalulu o kou lima, nā waimaka e kahe ana i ka lau, nā mea like, e like me nā lā kahiko o ka nani a me nā hulu manu me ka'īnika. Aʻo kēia mau leka e hoʻohilahila ai i nā kānaka. No laila, e kākau, e nā wāhine, a mai hopohopo o kou manaʻo!