Malia paha, kokoke i kēlā me kēia wahine i kona ola, ua manaʻoʻo ia e maikaʻi ke hoʻolohe i nā manaʻo o nā kānaka no kekahi manawa. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo nā wāhine a me nā kāne, e like paha me ka huina o nā hēkiona'ē aʻe, e loaʻa i nā'ikekino a me nā manaʻo likeʻole i nā mea like. Manaʻo wau makemake wau eʻike i nā manaʻo o kānaka e pili ana i nā wahine , ke'ōlelo nei lākou, a pehea kā lākou manaʻo maoli no mākou, he nani. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, nui nā hakakā maʻamau o nā hui like, ma keʻano mua, no ka manaʻo o kekahi o nā hoa.
Akā, e like me nāʻikepili,ʻaʻole nā kānaka i'ōlelo iki ma mua o nā wāhine.
Eʻike i loko o nā mea kiko'ī i nā mea i'ōleloʻia e nā kāne male a me nā kāne male e pili ana i nā wāhine.
I ka hoʻomakaʻana, i kēia manawa ua piha ka pūnaewele pūnaewele i nā hui kūkākūkā kāne a me nā wahi, kahi eʻike ai nā kānaka a pau i nā mea e noʻonoʻo ai nā kānaka e pili ana i kahi kanaka a mea paha.
No laila, he mea pono ke hoʻomaopopoʻole i nā kānaka e noʻonoʻo pono e kūkākūkā i keʻano o nā wāhine. ʻO lākou, ma ke ala, e loaʻa mau kā lākou hoa hele i nā papa mele'ē aʻe,ʻo keʻano o ke kala a keʻoki ke aʻa. Ināʻole, inā he mea hoʻonāukiuki a hoʻonāukiuki paha iā lākou i loko o ka wahine,ʻaʻole lākou e mālama i ka hāʻawiʻana i kekahi manawa o ko lākou manawa manawaʻole i kēia kūkā.
I ka papa inoa o nā mea hoʻonāukiuki a i kekahi manawaʻaʻole i kūpono i nā kāne, eia nā'ōlelo a nā wāhine me ka manaʻoʻole a me ka hoʻomahaʻole. ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻaʻole iʻike nā kānaka a pau no kekahi mau wāhine,ʻaʻole ia he wā e hoʻonele ai i ka manawa, akā, he ala e wehe ai i kaʻike.
Hiki ke hoʻohuiʻia ka papa inoa hoʻokahi a me ka hoʻohewaʻana i nāʻelele o ka wahine ikaika e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka poʻe e hopohopo nui ana i ko lākou helehelena, e poina ana aia he he ma loko o ka lumi kuke, a ua kali ke kākahu o kēlā kanaka no hoʻokahi hebedoma e holoi. Mai poina i ka hana e kūkulu ai i kekahi mea i kūkulu waleʻia, hopohopo nā kāne. ʻO ka wahine kūlohelohe e like me ka mea i kūponoʻia, aʻo ia ke kūpono i waena o nā kāne.
He aha ka'ōlelo a kānaka e pili ana i nā mea aloha?
ʻAʻole hoʻolaha nui nā kāne i ko lākou ola pilikino lua. I kekahi manawa, hopohopo i ka haʻiʻana iā lākou iho, ua komo lākou i loko o nā lima o kekahi wahine'ē aʻe, me ka hoʻoikaika i ka manaʻo. I kekahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ana nā kāne i ko lākou mau haku wahine, me ka hopohopoʻole,ʻaʻole paha e hiki i kēlā kanaka ke makemake e haʻalele i konaʻohana i kēia manawa a loaʻa iā ia nā keiki me kahi wahine wahine.
He aha ka'ōlelo a kānaka e pili ana i nā wāhine momona?
ʻOiai, ua nui loa ka nui o nā wāhine, no ka mea, he nui nā wāhine e moe ana i ka'ōpū'ōpū, ua mauleʻa nā kānaka e pili ana i kahi puʻupuʻu wahine liʻiliʻi. Ua'ōlelo nā kāne no nā wāhine kūpono e like me nā wahine me nā umauma momona, no ka mea, uaʻike lākou ma hope o kekahi pā pōhaku. He mea pono eʻike i ka manaʻo o nā kānaka ua hoʻomākaukau nuiʻia kēia mau wāhine.
ʻOiaʻiʻo, he manaʻo nui loa e hiki ke heluhelu i nā manaʻo o nā kāne e pili ana i nā wāhine, akā, eʻike i kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ke kūkino a nā kāne ,ʻaʻole ia he keuʻole ināʻikeʻoe i nā pane i nā nīnau hoʻopiʻi mai kahi kanaka kaulana.