I ka hapanui o nā hihia,ʻaʻole i hōʻikeʻia kēlāʻano backlog i kahi maʻi pilikino i loko o ke keiki, akā, i mea eʻike pono ai ke ulu pono nei o ka pēpē, pono pono e nānā i ke kūlana o konaʻike ma kēlā me kēia mahina mahina. Aia kekahi mau kumuhana e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo i ka holomua o nā mea a pau me kāu pēpē, a inā i hōʻike i ka palapaʻana e hāʻawi i ka manaʻo o ke kauka e hele nei i kēia.
Ma kēiaʻatikala e haʻi aku mākou iāʻoe i ka mea e hiki i ke keiki ke hana i loko o 9 mau mahina me ka uluʻana i keʻano, a me nā pāʻani me ia e hoʻokani maikaʻiʻia e hoʻonui ai i nāʻike a me kaʻike hou.
ʻO ke kino o ka pēpē i loko o 9 mau mahina
ʻO ke kūlana o ka hoʻouluʻana o kahi pēpē i ka pihaʻana o 9 mau mahina ua kiʻekiʻe loa ia, i mea e hana i nā hana he nui me kaʻole o ke kōkuaʻana o nā mākua. No laila, ma lalo o ka mana o kaʻimi a me ka hoihoi nui i nā mea a puni ia, hiki i ka pahu kuhū ke neʻe a kaʻawale i kekahi ala, e lele ana i nāʻehā a "i ke ala malolo". Eia kekahi, mai ka hopena "ma ka'ōpū" hiki i kahi keiki eiwa mau mahina ke noho i lalo me ka pilikiaʻole.
I ka manawa hoʻokahi,ʻaʻole hiki i nā keiki a pau ke noho a pale no kahi lōʻihi. ʻOiaiʻo ia ke kānāwai, heʻeiwa mau makahiki a me ka pāpale pale me ka pale paleʻaʻoleʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi minute, a ma hope iho e hoʻopili mau i ke kūlana o kona kino, e hilinaʻi me nā lima e kū'ē i kahi lepo paʻakikī. No ke kākoʻoʻana i ke kākoʻo ikaika, e like paha me ka hope o ka pohā a iʻole ke kaʻe o kou hale mālama pono'ī, hiki i ka hapanui o nā keiki ke kū i luna ma o lākou iho.
Hoʻomōhala i kahi keiki i loko o 9 mau mahina
Hiki loa kahi keiki iʻeiwa mahina-makahiki ma luna o ka makuahine a iʻole kekahi mea'ē aʻe nāna e hoʻolōʻihi i ka manawa nui me ia,ʻoiai he mau'ōpio kokoke i ka hilinaʻi me ka hilinaʻi. I ka'ōnaehana hou, akā, hiki iā ia ke hopohopo a hopohopo.
I kekahi mau manawa, uaʻike muaʻia ka maalea o ka pēpē. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki iā ia ke hoʻohuli keʻikeʻo ia e hele anaʻoe i ka ihu. Ke hoʻohana nei kāu keiki ma ka hana maʻamau - ma kona mau maka eʻikeʻoe i nā manaʻo e hōʻike ana i ka leʻaleʻa, ka nānā, ka hauʻoli, a me ka huhū.
I ka hoʻomohalaʻana o ka'ōlelo a ke keiki i loko o 9 mau mahina, aia he hakihaʻi maoli - hiki iā ia ke'ōlelo hoʻokahi aʻoi aku paha nā hua'ōlelo, e like me "mom" a "papa". Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole hiki ke noʻonoʻoʻia kēia hui pūʻulu o ka'ōlelo kūpono -ʻo ka pēpē e'ōlelo nei iā lākou wale nō no ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana a me ka hoʻomohalaʻana i nā mea kani, akāʻaʻole pili i ka poʻe maoli.
ʻO ka hapa nui o nā makahikiʻelemakule ke hana i ka nui a me ka lōʻihi lōʻihi, e weheʻana i nā hui likeʻole. He nui ka holomua i ka hoʻomaopopoʻana i ka'ōlelo a nā mākua-i kēlā me kēia lā e maopopo ai i ke keiki a me ka nui o nā'ōlelo i kākauʻia iā ia.
Ke hoʻolālā i nā pāʻani me kahi pēpē i ka 9 mau mahina
No ka hoʻokipa i kāu keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha a kōkua iā ia i kaʻikeʻana i nāʻike hou, hiki i nā pāʻani likeʻole me ka paʻakai paʻakai i ka home. No ka laʻana, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kahi pōpō iki mai loko aku a kau i nā manamana lima a me nā peʻa nui, nā pihi, ka pelonika, nā pīni a pēlā aku i loko o ia mea, a hauʻoli nui ka crumb e lawe. Hoʻohālikelike like nā pāʻani like me kahi keiki ma ke 9 mau mahina i ka hoʻoikaikaʻana i nā mākau maikaʻi maikaʻi o kāna mau peni a,
Eia kekahi,ʻo nā kamaliʻi a pau i kēia mau makahiki ke hauʻoli nei i ka pāʻaniʻana i ka huna a me kaʻimiʻana, e pani ana iā lākou iho me kahi pākeke a uhi paha i nā mākua, a me nā pāʻani e like me nā hana a kekahi makuahine a makua paha.
ʻOiai, he keiki kēlā me kēia keiki, aʻo ka lōʻihi o kona uluʻana ma muli o nā kumu he nui, e like paha, he pēpē i hoʻomaʻamaʻaʻia ma 9 mau mahina,ʻaʻole paha i loaʻa nā mākaukau a pau o kona mau hoa. Eia kekahi,ʻo nā keikikāne ma ka hapanui o nā hihia, e hoʻonui iki i nā māmā o nā kaikamahine. I kēlā me kēia hihia, inā uaʻikeʻoe i kahi keiki liʻiliʻi i kāu keiki,ʻaʻole kēia he kumu no ka hopohopo, akā he hōʻailona ia e nānā ai i ke keiki.