He aha ka mahina no nā kaikamahine?

Ma ke ola o nā kaikamāhine a pau, hiki mai ka wā e nīnauʻia ai ka nīnau e pili ana i ka mahina a me kaʻikeʻana i nā kaikamāhine. E nānā pono kākou i kēia kūlana a ho'āʻo e hāʻawi i ka'ōlelo aʻo i nā makuahine: pehea e wehewehe ai i ke keiki i kēlā me kēia mahina a me nā makahiki e pono ai e mālama i kēia mau kumuhana.

I ka wā e pono ai e haʻi i kaʻu kaikamahine e pili ana i ka male kāne?

Manaʻo ka hapanui o nā mākua i kaʻikeʻana i kēia lā, i ka wāʻike, hoʻomohalaʻia nā keiki i hiki iā lākou keʻimi i nā pane i kā lākou mau nīnau me kaʻole o lākou komo. ʻO kēia keʻano o nā kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi e aʻo ai i ka holomua o kēlā me kēia mahina no nā wāhine mai ka'Inaewele aiʻole i kā lākou mau hoaaloha. Akā naʻe,ʻaʻole pololei kēia.

ʻO ka hoʻomakaʻana e kamaʻilio me nā kaikamāhine o ka makuahine o ka wā i hala aku he 10 mau makahiki. ʻO kēia ka makahiki e nānā nuiʻia e nā meaʻepekema. Eia kekahi, i kēia mau lā,ʻo ka mua (ke kino mua) e hele mua mai ma mua o ka manawa i kauʻia 12-13 makahiki.

Pehea e wehewehe ai i ke kaikamahine, pehea kēlā mahina?

I mea e wehewehe pono ai i ke kaikamahine i ka mea o kēlā me kēia mahina, no ke aha a me keʻano o ka hanaʻana i loko o ke kino wahine, he aha keʻano o ia mea, he pono e pili i nā leka penei:

1. Pono pono e hoʻomaka e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka menestrua i ka wā'ōpiopio. ʻOi aku ka maikaʻi inā kū ke kūkākūkā i kahi kūlohelohe. Eia kekahi laʻana, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻomaka me kaʻoiaʻiʻo e hiki i kahi manawa e like me kona makuahine me ka likeʻole: e loaʻa ana ka pahu a me ka lauoho ma kekahi mau wahi.
2. Ma ka liʻiliʻi, i kou kokokeʻana i nā makahiki he 10, e hoʻomaka e haʻi i ke keiki i nā mea kiko'ī.
3. Ua hala i loko o 10-11 mau makahiki e hiki ai i ke kaikamahine ke haʻi i keʻano o ka menstrua, he aha keʻano o ke kaheʻana. He mea nui e pane i nā nīnau a pau e nīnau ai ke keiki. Ināʻaʻole maopopo ka makua i ka pane ponoʻana, eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma ka'ōleloʻana e pane kokeʻo ia ma mua o ka noho mālie a waiho i ka nīnau me ka nānāʻole.
4. Pono nā pane a pau loa. ʻAʻole pono e komo i loko o ka pahu o ke kaʻina hana (e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka'ōhūʻana, nā hopena o ke kaʻina). E lawa ana kaʻike o ke kaikamahine e hoʻomaopopo ai i ka malama o kēlā me kēia mahina, no ia mea e pono ai kēia hana i loko o ke kino o nā wāhine a i ka manawa e mālamaʻia ai ke koko.
5. ʻAʻohe pono he kūpono, i mea e wehewehe ai i ke kaikamahine i kēlā me kēia mahina, e hoʻohana i nāʻanoʻano he buke a he video paha. Hiki ke hoʻohana waleʻia e like me ka mea i kapaʻia he hoʻomaka. Ma hope o ia mea, pono i ka makuahine ma kahi ala maʻalahi a maʻalahi, e kamaʻilio e pili ana i kēia hana.
6. He nui nā kānaka'imikalamahana e'ōlelo i kēiaʻano o ka kamaʻilioʻana e kau i kaʻike pilikino. No laila, he laʻana, hiki i ka makuahine ke haʻi i konaʻike no nā mahina mua a ma hope iho e nīnau i kona kaiāwahine i kona manaʻo no kēia, he mea hopohopo kona i pili i ka male mua.
7. E ho'āʻo mau e pane i ka nīnau a ke keiki a ma ka manawa like e pane aku ai iā ia, me ka hoʻoukaʻoleʻana i ke kaikamahine me kaʻike kūponoʻole a i kekahi manawa. E manaʻoʻiʻo iaʻu,ʻaʻole pono ka haumāna o 10-12 mau makahiki eʻike i nāʻano a pau o kaʻoihana kino wahine.

No laila, he mea pono e'ōlelo ma mua o ka weheweheʻana i kāu kaikamahine, i kēlā me kēia mahina, pono ka makua e hoʻomākaukau iā ia no iaʻano kūkākūkā a e koho i kahi kūpono kūpono. He mea maikaʻi loa ke noi ponoʻana o ke kaikamahine i kona makuahine.

Pehea e wehewehe ai i ke keiki, he aha ka mahina?

ʻO nā nīnau pinepine e pili ana i ka mahina keʻikeʻia i nā keikikāne. I kēia wā,ʻaʻole pono nā mākua e haʻalele iā lākou me ka nānāʻole.

ʻO ke keiki i kēlā mau hihia e lawa kaʻike e pili ana i kēiaʻano papa hana physiological i loko o ke kino o kēlā me kēia kaikamahine i kēlā me kēia mahina, pono no ka hānauʻana o nā keiki. Ma keʻano maʻamau,ʻaʻole nā ​​keiki e nīnau hou aku i nā nīnau.