He mea paʻakikī ke noʻonoʻo i kaʻohana maikaʻiʻole ke aloha! ʻOiai,ʻo ka hoʻomakaʻana o kaʻohana he aloha i ke kāne a me ka wahine, i lilo ai kā lāua keiki i hua. Aia i loko o kaʻohana o nā mākua nā keiki e aʻo i ke aloha a me ka piliʻana i ka pilina me ka wahine'ē. Hōʻike kahi keiki liʻiliʻi i kona aloha me kaʻoluʻolu i kaʻikeʻana o ka mea aloha, me nā hulu a me nā honi. ʻO ke aloha o nā kamaliʻiʻoi aku kaʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka pilina o ke aloha o nā mākua. Ma kēiaʻatikala, e kamaʻilio mākou e pili paha i nā keiki e loaʻa i nā manaʻo ikaika, a inā he aloha maoli ka'ōpio?
ʻO ke aloha o nā keiki i nā mākua
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka ikaika a me ke aloha mua o kahi keiki keʻano o kona manaʻo no kona makuahine. ʻO kēia paha ke aloha wale nō i halaʻole me nā makahiki, akā, ikaika wale nō. Ke ulu aʻe nei kekahi keiki i loko o kaʻohana a hoʻomaka e hoʻomaopopo i kaʻokoʻa ma waena o kekahi keikikāne a me kahi kaikamahine. Hoʻomakaʻo ia e hoʻohui iā ia iho me ka wahine e like me ka hoʻopiliʻana i kona mau mākua (e hana hou ana ke kaikamahine i keʻano o ka makuahine a me ka makua kāne). Ma hope o ka hoʻomakaʻana o kahi keikikāneʻelua makahiki, pono e mālamaʻia nā mākua i ka hōʻikeʻana o ko lākou manaʻo (kekahi i kekahi) me ia. Pēlā. pono e wehewehe i ka pēpē e moe ka makua me kona makuahine, a pono e loaʻa i kāna keiki kahi moe pono'ī nāna.
ʻO ke aloha keiki mua
ʻO ka mea maʻamau,ʻike ke keiki i ke aloha mua i ke kula papa . ʻOiaʻiʻo, uaʻano like kēia manaʻo me kēia mea nui a makemakeʻole paha i kēia meaʻuʻuku, akā makemake nā keiki e kapa aku i ke aloha. ʻAʻoleʻike nā kamaliʻi i ka pehea e hōʻike ai i ko lākou aloha no ka wahine'ē aʻe, no laila e haʻi mai i kekahi manawa i ka manawa'ē. Eia kekahi laʻana,ʻo ke keikikāne e makemake ana i kahi kaikamahine e hiki ke huki pinepine a pale paha.
ʻAʻole hiki i nā kamaliʻi ke hilahila i ko lākou lokomaikaʻi a kamaʻilio maikaʻi e pili ana iā lākou i loko o kaʻohana, a hoʻokaniʻia nā hōʻailona o nā keiki ma ka pā me ka hōʻinoʻoleʻia. Ma kēia mau pāʻani, e hoʻokō nā keiki i nā mākua, nā kaikamāhine eʻaʻahu a hoʻonani, a mālama i nā keiki. He mea nui nui kaʻakaʻakaʻana o nā mākua i ke keiki, akā e mālama nui i kona aloha a hōʻike i ka hoihoi i kona ola. Ma kēiaʻano e hoʻoikaika ai lākou i ka hilinaʻi iā lākou iho no kā lākou keiki ma hope aku.
ʻO ke aloha o nā keiki
Uaʻike mua ka'ōpiopio keiki iā ia iho a maopopo i ka hana a nā kāne a me nā wāhine i ka pilina. No laila, ke hōʻike nei ke keiki i kona lokomaikaʻi me ka hoʻomanaʻo nui: ua paleʻo ia i ke aloha o kāna kula mai nā hale kaʻa, lawe i kahi waihona a hāʻawi i nā makana liʻiliʻi. Hoʻopili nā kaikamāhine,ʻoiai ma ke alo o kahi mea o ko lākou hoʻohiwahiwa. ʻO kahi keikikāne e aloha nei e hana i kāna mea i koho ai me kānaʻahaʻaina aiʻole kekahi mea kūikawā a kona mau mākua i hoʻokomo ai i loko o kāna pahu.
ʻO ke aloha o nā keiki mai ka manaʻo o ke kūkiko
Hoʻoholo ka hoʻomau noʻonoʻo i ka loiloi o ke aloha o ke keiki i mea e ulu ai i kona uluʻana, ka hānauʻana a me ka hoʻolālā. I ka wā ma mua o kona olaʻana, hiki i ke keiki ke lawe wale aku:ʻo nā pono waiwai, mālama a me ke aloha o konaʻohana. Ke ulu nei, e hoʻomaka ana nā keiki e aʻo i keʻano e hāʻawi ai: maopopo lākou he mea pono e kaʻana like i kahi mea aloha
No laila, hiki ke hoʻomaopopoʻia ke aloha o nā keiki i ka hōʻike mua o nā manaʻo maikaʻi. Hōʻike ia i nā mea a pau - i loko o ka leʻaleʻa, kākoʻo, a kiss a me nā hana maikaʻi. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo e hiki i ke keiki ke aloha a kūkulu i nā pilina ma ka wā e hiki mai ana ma muli o nā mākua, no ka meaʻo lākou ke kumu nui no kā lākou mau keiki.