I ka manawa maʻamau i nā moe, aia kekahi poʻe i loaʻa kekahi waiwai i ko mākou ola. Loaʻa ka manaʻo o kēlā me kēia kiʻi, ma muli o nā mea kiko'ī'ē aʻe. I kēia manawa, e ho'āʻo mākou eʻike i kahi hopena i hoʻomākaukauʻia noʻoe keʻikeʻia kahi kiʻi o kahi makuahine i mua i ka moeʻuhane.
No ke aha ka moeʻuhane a kona makuahōnōwai wahine?
ʻO ka manawa pinepine o ia moeʻuhane e wānana ana i ka pukaʻana o nā pilikia he nui e ulu ai i nā mea nui. ʻO ka moeʻuhane āu eʻike ai i ka makuahōnōwai maʻi mua e haʻi iāʻoe e hiki koke mai kekahi o kou pili pili a iʻole mau hoaaloha i ke kōkua, kahi hikiʻole iāʻoe ke hōʻole. No kaʻikeʻana i kahi makuahōnōwai mua i ka moeʻuhane a hakakā me ia, a laila e manaʻoʻoe i nā pilikia me nā hoa hana ma ka hana. I kēia manawa e'ōleloʻia e mālamaʻia a mālie, iʻole e uhaʻi. ʻO ka moeʻuhane āu i hālāwai ai me kou makuahōnōwai wahine, ua'ōlelo muaʻo ia i ka liʻuliʻu o kaʻohana, hiki i nā hakakā a me nā mea hōʻeha. Mai hopohopo, no ka mea, e pau loa nā mea a pau ae hele mai ke ao.
Hoʻolaha kekahi o nā moe moe i kekahi wehewehe hou o ka moe e pili ana i ka makuahōnōwai mua. Ua'ōleloʻo ia,ʻo nā pilikia a pau e hiki nei ke lanakila a hiki i ka loaʻaʻana o ka uku kūpono. ʻO ka moeʻuhane, kahi e mālama ai kekahi makuahonowai mua iāʻoe i ka wā maʻi, keʻike neiʻoe i ka kōkua mai kahi mea āu i manaʻoʻole ai. ʻO kahi moeʻuhane iʻikeʻia aiʻoe e kahi makuahōnōwai mua i make, e hoʻohiki ana i nā loli kālai'āina i ke ola maoli. ʻO ia mau moeʻuhane e hōʻike ana i ka pukaʻana o ka hoʻomaopopo me kekahi hoa. Inā hele mai kekahi hoahānau mua ma ka moeʻuhane me kahiʻano maikaʻi, a laila, e manaʻoʻoe i nā hanana kaumaha. Ināʻo ia ma keʻano, ka uē a me ka huhū, a laila, hiki koke mai ka pilina pili i ka hauʻoli . ʻO ka moeʻuhane a ke kaikoeke e lawe ai iāʻoe ma kekahiʻano, e haʻi iāʻoe e hōʻeha iāʻoe i nā mea e hiki mai ana ma kahi kokoke.