Hōʻike pinepine nā manaʻo i ko mākou mau makemake, e hōʻike ana i nā hanana o ka wā e hiki mai ana, e hōʻike ana i nā manaʻo o kekahi lā i hala, e hōʻike mai i ko mākou mau manaʻo a me nā manaʻo. Ma ka moeʻuhane, i kaʻikeʻole o kekahi kanaka i nā hanana i hanaʻia ma kekahi manawa, no laila keʻike pinepine nei mākou i nā poʻe e kokoke mai ana iā mākou. He nui nā wahine e pili ana i ka mea a ka mea aloha i hilinaʻi ai, inā he maikaʻi a ma kaʻano likeʻole,ʻo ia moeʻuhane he waiwaiʻole.
He aha ke moe a ke kanaka i alohaʻia?
No laila, inā ma ka moeʻuhane kou inoa punahele iāʻoe ma ka inoa, eʻikeʻoe e hoʻomau mau anaʻoe i kona mau manaʻo, e noho mālie,ʻo ka mea i kohoʻia e hoʻokomo i ka manaʻo aloha a me kaʻoluʻolu iāʻoe. Inā ua weheweheʻia ke kanaka i ke aloha ma ka moeʻuhane, e ahoʻoe ke kau i ka wāwae mua a "paʻi" i kāu mea i aloha ai e haʻi i ke ola maoli, no ka mea, ua'ōleloʻia kēlā moeʻuhane e makaʻu ana kou'ōpiopio i hiki iā ia ke hōʻole.
ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi e aloha aiʻoe a me kāu mea i aloha ai, e hoʻomau mau loa i waena o kou. Inā hāʻawi kekahi kanaka iāʻoe i nā makana i loko o ka moeʻuhane, ponoʻoe e manaʻo i kahi hōʻike i ke ola maoli.
Ināʻoe e holo aku i kahi mea aloha i ka moeʻuhane, hiki paha iāʻoe ke hoʻouluʻia e nā kānalua a me nā hopohopo, malia paha e hoʻomaha ikiʻoe ae haʻalele i kahi'ōpio me kekahi manawa eʻike ai inā makemakeʻoe e hoʻomau me ia. Ma ka moeʻuhane ua hoʻouna mai ke kanaka i kāna kiʻi, a laila uaʻikeʻoe,ʻaʻoleʻoe e manaʻo nui iā ia.
Inā makemakeʻoe i ka mea e hakakā ai me kahi kanaka i alohaʻia,ʻo ia hoʻi, inā pahaʻoe e māhele, inā kū'ē ka hakakā ma ke kahawai, e kaumaha ka kaʻawaleʻana, e nui loa ka waimaka. Eia kekahi, he hoʻomaha me kāu mea aloha e hōʻike pū ana hoʻiʻoe i kahi moe eʻai pū aiʻoe me kāu'ōpio.
Inā mākou e kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka mea a ka meaʻona e moe ai, a laila,ʻaʻole ia e manaʻo i kekahi mea maikaʻi, mai ia moeʻuhane, manaʻoʻo ia i nā pilikia, nā maʻi, nā pilikiaʻohana . Hiki nō iā ia, ke haʻi aku i kāu mea i aloha ai he kanaka kūponoʻole ia, a hiki ke hana i nā hanaʻino.
No ke aha ka moeʻuhane o ka kumakaiaʻana o kahi kanaka i alohaʻia?
Ināʻoe he moeʻuhane e kānana ai kāu kanaka iāʻoe, a laila e kali no ka pilikia, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopilikia i nā pilikia wale nō.
Inā he mea aloha kāu mea i waeʻia aʻaʻoleʻoe he hoa kūpono, a ma ka moeʻuhaneʻoe iʻike ai i ka wahine a kāu kāne aloha, makemake pahaʻoe i ka mea e hiamoe ai paha. ʻOiai,ʻo ia moeʻuhane e'ōlelo ana ua hōʻike muaʻia kou pilina aʻike kokeʻia nā mea a pau. Eia naʻe, inā e kū mālie ana ka wahine a kāu mea aloha a nānā wale aku iāʻoe, a laila,ʻaʻoleʻo ia e pilikia iāʻoe, akā inā i hoʻonohonohoʻia kahi hōʻino,ʻaʻole hiki ke hōʻoleʻia.