E wehewehe i ka paʻakikī o ka moeʻuhane, ināʻikeʻoe i nā kānāwai nui. ʻO ka mea mua, pono e hoʻomanaʻo i keʻano o ka moeʻuhane, aʻo ka lua, ke kaumaha kaumaha. E hāʻawi kēia mau mea i kaʻike e pili ana i ka mua a me ka manawa.
No ke aha ka moeʻuhane a kahi hoahānau?
ʻO ka manawa pinepine ua hoʻohikiʻia kēlā moeʻuhane e loaʻa mai ka lono mai nā pili pili. Hiki iā ia ke kuhikuhi i ka manawa e pono aiʻoe i ka hoaaloha a me ka launa pū . Inā pili ka kaikunāne ma ka moeʻuhane, ai kona wā'ōleʻele, a laila, i loko o kona ola, e hiki koke mai nā hoʻololi nui. ʻO ka moeʻuhane kahi e waiho nei kekahi kaikunane i loko o ka hale paʻahao heʻano pinepineʻoe e hōʻino i ka hilinaʻi o ka poʻe kokoke. Ināʻoe i pepehi i kahi kaikunāne - he hōʻailona kēia o ke komoʻana i kahiʻoihana kolohe. No kaʻikeʻana i kahi kaikaina ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻaʻoleʻoe e lawa i ka mālama a me ka mahana i ka mea maoli. ʻO ka moeʻuhane āu i hakakā ai me kou kaikunāne, he'ōlelo aʻo ia e hiki ai i ka pilina me nā pilina ke kaumaha nui. Inā ua hakakāʻoe me kekahi pilina, laila, hiki koke iāʻoe ke loaʻa nā uku nui.
Ua make ka kaikuaʻana o kona kaikuaʻana, no laila, e noi koke maiʻo ia i kou kōkua a i kāu'ōlelo aʻo paha. Inā make ka kaikunāne he hōʻailona maikaʻi e'ōlelo ana i nā loli maikaʻi i ke ola, eʻike kokeʻoe i keʻano o ka hoʻonuiʻana i kāu kūlana. ʻO kaʻike i ka pō, kahi iʻikeʻia ai ke kaikuaʻana i make, e hōʻike ana i kahi kōkua o kahiʻohana. No ka wahine, ka pilina me ke kaikunāne, he mea ia e manaʻo nui ai i kona ola pilikino . ʻO ka huiʻana me kou kaikunāne he'ōlelo aʻo ia e hanaʻoe i kahi hanaʻino, eʻikeʻia. Inā makemake au e mare i koʻu kaikunāne - heʻano manawaleʻa kēia no ka manaʻolanaʻole a me ka loli. No ka moeʻuhane o kahi kaikunāne i loko o ka pīpī, e hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo koke i nā pilikia. Inā kani ka kaikunāne, hiki ke laweʻia he'ōlelo aʻo iāʻoe e hoʻolohe i ka'ōlelo aʻo a nā mea kokoke.