Nā pāpale mua

I ka manawa e hele mai ai kahi mare mua ma mua o ka mareʻana, akā, i ka manawa like nō me ka hoʻokipa maikaʻi loa no kekahi o nā hanana nui loa o ka nohoʻana -ʻo ka mareʻana,ʻo ka hoʻopukaʻana i ka kohoʻana i ka lole ka mea nui loa. ʻO ka mea mua a ka wahine mare e hoʻoholo ai,ʻo ia ka paneʻana iā ia iho i keʻano o kā kānaʻaʻahu mare. E makemake ana paha e nānā i ka papa mele o keʻokeʻo, aiʻole i ka makemake e haʻalele i ka loina a noʻonoʻo i nā koho no nāʻaʻahu mare mua.

Nā koho e wehewehe i nāʻaʻahu mare

ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole kēia he koho maʻalahi,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo pololei i ka meaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi a iʻole kaʻoi aku. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, makemake nā kaikamahine a pau e lilo i meaʻoi loa i kēia lā aʻo ia ke kumu i hele ai i kekahi manawa i ka hale lole no nāʻaʻahu mare mua loa. ʻO ka huiʻana i nā kumu no ka kaʻawaleʻana i nāʻano likeʻole, pono mākou e hoʻohālikelike i kēlā mau mea like:

ʻO kaʻaʻahu mua no ka mareʻana, hiki wale i nā hua'ōlelo e pili ana i kaʻahaʻaina mare, me ka uhakiʻole i nā kuʻuna a me nā loina. No laila, e makemake ana e nānā i ka nani a me ka weliweli, makemake ka wahine male i kaʻulaʻula, māliki a me nā'ōmaʻomaʻo'ōmaʻomaʻo paha. Eia naʻe, no ka mea, aia kekahi mau hana pāʻoihana ma waena o ka makemakeʻaʻole e like me nā mea a pau, akā,ʻaʻole e hōʻeha i ka poʻe e pili ana me kāu koho.

ʻO nā hōʻailona kūpono e pili ana i kēiaʻano, he mauʻaʻahu kālepa me ke gula, i kālaiʻia i keʻano aliʻi me nā mīkole keʻokeʻo a me nā kiʻi likeʻole me ka lole lush. ʻO ka wahine mare i ka loleʻaʻahu like e hoʻomanaʻo ai i kahi mō'īwahine maoli,ʻo ia ka mea e hele pololei mai ka hale aliʻi mare ma luna o ka kaʻa e hukiʻia e nā lioʻekolu i ka hale kākela no ka mareʻana.

Ke noʻonoʻo i ka nīnau o ka lōʻihi, hikiʻole i kekahi ke kōkua akā ke hoʻohālikelike i nāʻaʻahu mare ma mua . Ma kēia koho, hiki ke hoʻoholo i nā uku waiwai wale nō, a me nā mea'ē aʻe a pau loa. I ka manawa pinepine i loko o kēia mau hiʻohiʻona, nā kaikamāhine e makemake nei e hoʻonohonoho i nā mea mare male ma kekahi mauʻano i mare.

ʻO kekahi kumu'ē aʻe - heʻaʻahu hōʻailona kala iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi no ka wahine wahine e makemake ana i kahiʻano makamae, ka maikaʻi o ke kāhili a me nā lauoho lauoho kiʻekiʻe. ʻO ka mea maikaʻi loa,ʻo ia ka mea maʻalahi, e hoʻolei ana i ke kālā a me keʻano kūikawā.

ʻAʻole kahi halepule no kaʻike kumu i nāʻaʻahu mare

Ma nā hihia a pau,ʻo nā chapels, nā palena, nā kānāwai a me nā loina i ka kohoʻana i ke kāhiko no ka mareʻana no ka wahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana,ʻaʻole a hikiʻole. ʻO ia ke kumu, nā mea e hoʻokipa nui ai i nā wāhine mare me ka hanaʻana i nāʻaʻahu kahiko loa i hanaʻia no nā mea i hikiʻole ke nānā aku, e like me nā pua nani me nā pua nani, me nā hui hui likeʻole a me nā mea kōkua nui no ka hanaʻana i ke kapa a me ka lole.

Hāʻawi pinepine ka poʻe lahui i ko lākou makemake i nāʻaʻahu nani loa, i hukiʻia no kahi kauoha maʻamau i kahi kope hoʻokahi. ʻO kaʻoihanaʻoihana mare i kēlā me kēia makahiki me ka'āpono'āpono e lawe i nā manaʻo hou a me nā hoʻoholoʻana mai ke alakaʻiʻana i nā mea hoʻolālā, e ho'āʻo mau ana e kahāhā.

No laila, no ka liloʻana o kaʻaʻahu mare mua aʻaʻoleʻole paha, ua koho nā kaikamahine a pau iā ia iho,ʻo ia wale nō kona lā,ʻo ia hoʻi, he mālamalama loa a like me ka haʻi moʻolelo, e lilo i meaʻoiaʻiʻo. A he mea nuiʻole inā paha he kapa keʻokeʻo maikaʻi a nani paha, a he kapa nani nani hoʻi me ke kapa kila,ʻo ka mea nui kēiaʻano o ka hōʻoluʻolu a me keʻano o ka hoʻokō pihaʻana me kāu mau moe e pili ana i ke kiʻi hoʻokalakupua maikaʻi loa.