Hiki ke hoʻomanaʻoʻia nā hiʻohiʻona i keʻano o kaʻikeʻole i ka hopena i hoʻomākaukauʻia no kekahi. Me ke kuhi pololei, hiki iāʻoe ke aʻo i nā mea nui a me nā mea nui. No ka mea,ʻo nā moe e pili ana i ka wahine hāpai,ʻaʻole i maopopo ka unuhi, pono e noʻonoʻo i nāʻike'ē aʻe o keʻano, no ka mea paha, inā paha he kama'āina aʻaʻole paha, kāna mau hana, a pēlā aku. E ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i ka hana kaumaha. Mahalo i kēia, e hiki ke hoʻokomo i kekahi kiʻi nui a hoʻonuiʻia.
No ke aha i moe ai ka wahine hāpai?
No ka wahine maikaʻi ma ka hakahaka, he hōʻailona kēia moe e hōʻoluʻolu ana ka'ōpū me ka pilikiaʻole. Ināʻikeʻia kēia moeʻuhane e kekahi mea me nā pilikia kālā, hiki koke iāʻoe ke manaʻo i ka hoʻonuiʻana i ke kūlana kālā. ʻO ka moeʻuhane, kahi wahine hāpai, kahi wānana i nā pilikia a me nāʻike likeʻole. ʻO keʻano o ka hiamoe e pili ana i ka wahine hāpai e pili ana i ka makahiki,ʻo ia hoʻi, inā he'ōpiopioʻo ia, i ka wā kokoke e hiki i kekahi ke makemake e mālama i ka mea moeʻuhane aiʻole e maʻi nuiʻo ia. ʻO kekahi moe e like me ka wahine'ōpio ke'ōlelo nei i ka hoʻopunipuni, a me ke kanaka makua - he hauʻoli.
ʻO ka nānāʻana i ka pō o ka makuahine hāpai he hōʻailonaʻino ia, e hōʻike ana i nā hemahema a me nā pilikia. Ināʻo ke kaikamahine he kūlana wahine -ʻo ia keʻano o ka hakakā a me nā hōʻino. No kaʻikeʻana i kahi kaikuahine hāpai,ʻo ia hoʻi, e liuliu ana nā mea e pili ana me kaʻohana. Ināʻaʻole i mare ke kaikuahine, a laila e wānana ana kēlā moeʻuhane i kāna ipo. Moe, e pili ana i kahi wahine hāpai aʻu eʻike nei, pilikia nā pilikia. ʻO ka poʻeʻelemakule,ʻo ka moeʻuhane o kahi wahine e kū nei, he hōʻailona hōʻailona hōʻailona ia o kekahi maʻi kūikawā, a ma kekahi mau meaʻo ka make. Ke moe nei ma kahi kokoke i kahi wahine hāpai, a laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hilinaʻi i ka hoʻokōʻana o ka moeʻuhane maikaʻi. Inā he'elepa o ka hapalua nani o ke kanaka me ka'ōpūʻuʻuku - he hōʻailona kēia o ka palekana i ko lākou mau ikaika. Hōʻike ka'ōpū nui i ka liʻuliʻu e mālamaʻoe i nā pili pili. ʻO keʻano o ka hiamoe e pili ana i kahi wahine hāpai, kahi i make aiʻo ia, he meaʻole. I kēia hihia,ʻaʻole ponoʻoe e helu i ka hoʻokōʻia o nā makemake .
ʻO kaʻikeʻana o ka pō, kahi aʻu i hakakā ai me kahi wahine ma ke kūlana, hōʻike ia e wikiwiki ana kekahi e hoʻopau i nā'ōlelo ponoʻole. Inā e kali ana kekahi lede noʻelua aʻekolu mau keiki i ka manawa hoʻokahi, a laila he hōʻailona kēia o ka hiki iāʻoe ke lanakila a loaʻa paha kahi kālā nui. ʻO kaʻikeʻana i ka wahine hāpai i ka moeʻuhane he lahilahi ia, no laila hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo i ka hoʻoemi waiwai. ʻO ka moeʻuhane o ka wahine hāpai, akāʻo ka wahine i hoʻokuʻuʻoleʻia, kēnāʻo ia e hiki koke mai kahi pilikia, a he mea pono e hoʻoholoʻia no kahi lōʻihi. No kaʻikeʻana i kahi wahine maikaʻi i ke kūlana, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke manaʻo e loaʻa nā waiwai i manaʻoʻoleʻia. Inā maikaʻi ke olakino o ka wahine hāpai -ʻo kēia ka hana nui o ka piʻiʻana ma ke alakaiʻoihana a iʻole e lilo i mea maikaʻi
No ke aha i moe ai ka wahine hāpai i ke kāne?
ʻO ka hapanui no ka wahine ikaika,ʻo ia moeʻuhane he hōʻailona maikaʻi, e hōʻike ana e hoʻomaka ana kekahiʻoihana i ka wā e hiki mai ana e pau me ka holomua . ʻAʻole pono kēia weheweheʻana i nā kāne i kū i kahi kūlana wahine. I kēia manawa,ʻo ka moe wale nō ka hōʻailona o nāʻike o ka mea maoli.