ʻO ka maleʻana he mea nui i ka ola o kekahi mea. A ma mua o kaʻoi aku o kaʻoi aku o kaʻoi aku o ka mea nui, no ka mea,ʻoiai, ma keʻano he kūlana, ua komo lāua i loko o ka male male hoʻokahi a no nā manawa i koe. No laila, hopohopo nui loa nā kānaka e lilo i ka hauʻoli i mea pōʻino, aʻo ke kumu o kēia mea iʻikeʻia ai kaʻike makaʻino a iʻole kekahi mau hanaʻino'ē aʻe i ka poʻe hou.
Nā hōʻailona e pili ana i ka'āpana male
Ua hoʻopiha pihaʻia nā hana pilina o nā lāhui likeʻole i nāʻano e pale ai iā lākou iho mai ka makaʻino . ʻO kēia mau mea, he laʻana, ka hana Rūkini no ka hoʻopaʻiʻana i nā keiki hou ma nā mele mele kūikawā. ʻO ka pahuhopu hoʻokahi -ʻo ka pale i ka makaʻino - i hanaʻia a me ka pale, kahi i hūnā loa i ka wahine mare, e hūnā ana i ka makaʻino.
Aia kekahi kumumanaʻo e like me keʻano o ka bouquet bridal heʻano amulet. Pehea e hana ai i ka'āpana o ka wahine mare, nā'ōlelo hōʻailona e aʻo i keʻano. ʻOiaiʻaʻole lākou i hiki mua iā mākou ma mua, he paʻakikī ka hoʻokolokoloʻana no kēia. Loaʻa paha kekahi mauʻano kuʻuna. ʻOiaiʻo ka hapanui o nā kānaka noiʻi e manaʻoʻiʻo nei ua hoʻomaka ka wahine mare e hele i waho me kahi'āpana a hoʻolei aku i loko o ka pūʻulu e mālama i kānaʻaʻahu. I kēlā manawa, he manaʻoʻiʻo e lawe mai ka hauʻoli i ka māhele o kaʻaʻahu mare o ka wahine mare. No laila,ʻaʻole i haehaeʻia kona kapaʻaʻahu, ka wahine wahine a me nā pua puaʻa.
E hopu i kahi'āpana o ka wahine male ma ka maleʻana - he hōʻailona maikaʻi. Manaʻoʻiaʻo ka kaikamahine i loaʻa i ka pōmaikaʻi, e mareʻo ia ma hope. ʻOiaʻiʻo, pono mākou e hana i nā mea a pau e like me nā rula (akā,ʻaʻole kēia o nā kānāwai o ka hoʻohui, akā, nā koi o ka hoʻoponopono). Ponoʻekolu manawa e huli ai ka wahine mare i kona axis, me he mea lā ma nāʻano alakaʻi makapō, e lilo i ka nohoʻana ma ka hakahaka, a hoʻolei i ka'āpana , me ka weheʻole o kona mau maka i ka alakaʻi o nā mākua makua kāne i mareʻoleʻia e kū ana ma hope a puni.
ʻO ka hopuʻana i kaʻahaʻaina i kaʻahaʻainaʻana, he mea paʻakikī loa ia,ʻoiaiʻoiai ua maopopo keʻano. ʻAʻole ia he mea kupanaha, no ka meaʻaʻole nui nā kaikamāhine e hōʻole i ka mareʻana ma mua. Ua hauʻoli nui ke kaikamahine i hopu i ka bouquet. Ua ponoʻo ia e lawe i ka huakaʻi o ka wahine male i ka home a mālamaʻia i kahiʻano maloʻo, e kau ana i loko o ka pahu. A laila, hiki iā ia ke manaʻolana e loaʻa mai i kāna mea e loaʻa ai ka luʻu o ka wahine mare.