Inā moe ka wahine i ka loaʻaʻana o kahi mea aloha a me ka hoʻomakaʻana i kahiʻohana, pono iā ia ke noʻonoʻo i keʻano o nā wāhine i makemake nuiʻia. ʻO keʻano hoʻonaʻauao 'ana o nā kāne he mea nui loa ia i ka'ikekino wahine, no laila,ʻoi aku kēiaʻike ma mua o ka aʻoʻana mai nā mea noiʻi.
He aha nā wāhine iʻoi aku ke aloha i nā kāne?
ʻO ka mea mua a ke kanaka e noʻonoʻo ai i ka wahine,ʻo ia kona helehelena. Maikaʻiʻoe i kēia hihia. Akā, he mea nui ia e hoʻonani maikaʻiʻia, eʻaʻahu naniʻia, eʻoliʻoli ana, me nā maka'ālohilohi. E mālama i ke kāne wahine hānai a me nā mea palekana, aʻo ia hoʻi, e hopohopo lākou i kā lākou mau mea nui, ka nui o kaʻiʻini, ka palaualelo, ka hili.
No ke aha i aloha ai nā kāne i nā wāhine liʻiliʻi?
Ma waena o nāʻike iʻikeʻia e pili ana i keʻano o nā wāhine wahine e like me ia, hiki iāʻoe keʻike i ka'ōlelo iʻikeʻia e ka wahine ikaika i nā nani nani o keʻano hoʻohālikelike. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole pono kēia. ʻO ke kaikamahine kiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe, me kona haʻahaʻa a me kona nani,ʻaʻole ia he kumu no ke kanaka e pale a palekana iā ia. Eia kekahi,ʻo nā wāhine e like paha me ke kiʻekiʻe me ko lākou kanaka, aʻoi aku paha. ʻO kekahi mea - he wahine'ōpiopio. I ke kanaka e pili kokoke ana iā ia, ua ho'āla ka manaʻo o ka "naita", ua ikaikaʻo ia i ka ikaika.
ʻO kekahi pono'ē aʻe o nā wāhine o ka haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa,ʻo ia hoʻi, ma ka loaʻaʻana o ka kaumaha , uaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o nā wāhine ma mua o nā wāhine kiʻekiʻe. Akā,ʻoiaʻiʻo, ma nā kaʻina kānāwai he mau hoʻokoe. ʻO nā kāne e makemake i nā wāhine lōʻihi,ʻoiai, e ola ana. ʻO ka mea maʻamau, he mau mea pilikino pono'ī ia, aʻo ka piliʻana i ka pilina me ka mea i aloha nuiʻia ma mua o kona helehelena.
No ke aha i likeʻole ai nā kāne i nā wāhine akamai?
ʻO ke kūlana me nā wāhine akamai a me ka makemakeʻole o nā kāne ma nāʻano he nui, e like me ka mea i luna nei. Ma kaʻaoʻao kokoke i kahi wahine akamai, uaʻike nā kālele he nui i nā meaʻuʻuku, no ka mea ʻike lākouʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke "hele aku" i kā lākou mea aloha. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka nohoʻana o kahi wahine akamai a kūpono o ka puʻuwai e lilo i ka ulu mauʻana: e hele i nā hōʻike, i nā mea keaka, heluhelu i nā puke, a pēlā aku. ʻOiaiʻo ka nui o nā kāne ma hope o ka lā paʻakikī, makemake lākou e hoʻomaha ma ka moe i mua o ka TV. No kēlā poʻe kāne, he wahine hoʻomanaʻo i kahi wahine huhū. A, no ka wikiwiki, hiki wawe lākou e pani i ka mea noʻonoʻo no ka mea maʻalahi, e hoʻomana ai i ke ahi a nānā i nā mele mele.
Eia naʻe kekahi mau kumu. ʻO nā kānaka i kālepa iʻikeʻia me kaʻike akamaiʻole e pale wale i nā wāhine akamai, akā, eʻimi i nā hālāwai me lākou. Ua maopopo iā lākou he mea kōkua kēia hoa like o ke ola, he kumu hoʻoikaika a he mea hoʻoikaika i ka uluʻana. ʻO nā wāhine maikaʻi, ma keʻano,ʻaʻole lākou makemake e hoʻonā i ke kanaka me ko lākou naʻauao mai ka hālāwai mua, akā, mahaloʻia lākou e nāʻano pono wahine - ke aloha, ka nani, ka leʻaleʻa, a.
He aha nā wāhine e hana i nā kāne e like me ka moe?
ʻO ka wahine maikaʻi, e like me nā kāne, pono ke aliʻi wahine o ka hale a me ke mō'īwahine i ka huakaʻi. I ka moena, pono ke hōʻano hou ka wahine hilahila i ke kahuna wahine o ke aloha, hiki iā ia ke noʻonoʻo i kāna kāne, a hāʻawi iā ia iho iā ia a mākaukau e hoʻokolo.
ʻO kekahi o nā tālena nui loa o ka wahine,ʻo ia ka hiki ke kau i kahi moe'ē aʻe. E like me kāu iʻike, he kāne nui nā kāne. A iʻole e lilo i mea inu, pono ka wahine e ho'āʻo e hoʻololi i ka noho wahine. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻole pono e hoʻopoina nā kāne i ka'ōlelo kaulana: "He wahine ka mea hiki i nā mea a pau,ʻaʻole naʻe ma lalo o nā mea a pau." No laila pono lākou e hoʻohui.
Make anei nā kāne i nā wāhine make?
ʻO ka wahine leatherle kahi mea i hanaʻia ai ka huhū, ua'ānaiʻia nāʻohana, "ua puhiʻia nā alahaka". ʻO keʻano o ka wahine leatherle he mea maikaʻi, he aliʻi, he akamai, he kūʻokoʻa. Ua hopohopo nā kāne o ia mau wāhine, huhū a aloha paha i ka huhū. He mea hikiʻole ke hauʻoli ma kaʻaoʻao o ka wahine fatale , akā ma kaʻelemakule e loaʻa kahi mea e hoʻomanaʻo ai.