No ka hanaʻana i kekahi hana ma ka home a iʻole he wahi hoʻomaha iki wale nō, nui nā māmā e komo i nā pīniʻonii i kā lākou keiki kāne a kaikamahine paha, ka mea i hoʻowalewale i kahi keiki no ka manawa lōʻihi. I kēia manawa, uaʻae ka hapanui o nā pediatric e hiki i kahiʻekolu makahiki ke nānā pono i ka TV no ka manawa lōʻihi, a no ka mea pono, pono ke hana kekahi me kaʻole.
ʻOiai, me ke keiki hikiʻoe ke hele i waho i ke alanui - ma laila eʻikeʻo ia i kahi hoʻokipa nona iho a hiki iā ia ke kamaʻilio me kona mau hoa. I kēia manawa,ʻaʻole kūpono kēia koho i nā mea a pau. ʻO ka mea mua, inā hele akuʻoe me kāu keiki,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kekahi mea e pili ana i ka hale, aʻo ka lua, he hiki ke nininiʻia ka ua ma waho.
Ma kēiaʻatikala, e haʻi mākou iāʻoe i kāu mea e hana ai no kahi keiki i 3 mau makahiki ma ka home, e like me ke kauwela, no kekahi manawa, e hana i kekahi mea a hāʻawi manawa paha iāʻoe iho.
Ma mua o ka nohoʻana i ka hale o ke keiki ma kahi o kona mau makahiki he 3-4?
E like me keʻano, e hoʻokuʻuʻia nā pāʻani pāʻani iʻekolu mau makahiki no kaʻoi aku o ke 10-15 mau minuke. ʻAe, a i kēia manawa e makemake mau lākou i ka heleʻana o nā makuahine aʻo kekahi paha mai nā mākua. Inā hōʻehaʻia kahi keiki i piha i 3 mau makahiki,ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke haʻalele wale i kona mau mākua no kahi minute wale nō, e noi ana i nā nīnau pauʻole, a noiʻo ia iā Māmā a Makua paha e pāʻani me ia.
Akāʻo ka laweʻana i kahi keiki hoʻomahaʻole i 3 mau makahiki no ka wā lōʻihi,ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi ma mua o kou manaʻo. E ho'āʻo i nā'ōlelo hou:
- E noi i ke keiki e kōkua iāʻoe ma ka hale. E wehewehe i ke keiki e hāʻawi anaʻoe iā ia i kahiʻoihana koʻikoʻi, aʻo ia, me ka ikaika nui, e ho'āʻo e hoʻokō i ka mea hiki loa. Ke laʻana, hiki i kahi pahu kuhupapa ke kōkui i nā pūkoa ma ke kuikahi, e'ōwili i ka palapalapala no ka hanaʻana me kahi'ōwili e holoi ai i nā huaʻai no ka salakeke.
- Ināʻoe e kuke i ka'ōhūhū aiʻole e kālua i ka pōpōpō, hāʻawi i kahi'āpana o ka pailapula i ka pēpē, a e hoʻohanaʻo ia ia mea he mea hoʻoheheʻe. Eia hou, hiki iāʻoe ke ninini i loko o kekahi mau kīʻaha o ka pī, ka pi a me ka pasta.
ʻO nā keiki i kēia mau makahiki e like me ka nininiʻana i nā huahana likeʻole mai kekahi pahu i kekahi, e like me kaʻeleʻele a iʻole ka nui, a hana i nāʻano likeʻole mai lākou. Ināʻoe e kau i kahi manga ma kahi pālahalaha nui , a iʻole kekahi liʻiliʻi liʻiliʻi, e hauʻoli ka pēpē i ka "huki" me ke kōkuaʻana o nā manamana lima. ʻO nā mea e like me iaʻaʻole e hoʻowalewale wale i nā lālani mau makahikiʻekolu no ka wā lōʻihi, akā, e hoʻomohala i kekahi mau hana loeaʻuʻuku, he mea nui i kēia makahiki. - ʻO ka hopena,ʻo kahi ala nui loa e lawe ai i kahi keiki, he hale keaka hula. Piʻi nā keiki 3-4 mau makahiki i ka pāʻani no nā hola me nāʻano kūlana hoʻolālā, e noʻonoʻo ana iā lākou iho i kahiʻoihana a iʻole.