'Alale i nā lāleʻa

ʻOiai ke kaikamahine liʻiliʻi e makemake ana e nānā maikaʻi, a inā pāpāʻia nā kāpena'ōpena, a laila, nā lauoho o ke keiki no kēlā me kēia lā - kahi mea maikaʻi e kākoʻo i ka pilikino o kēlā me kēia pahu liʻiliʻi. Hiki keʻokoʻa keʻano o ka lauoho'ōpiopio, e like me ke kala, ka lōʻihi, ka lauoho lauoho, a me ka manawa a me ka noʻonoʻo o ka makuahine, ka makuahine, ke kupunawahine, a me ke kaikuahine paha. He mea nui ka holoiʻana o ka lauoho o nā keiki liʻiliʻi a pēpēʻia -ʻo ia wale nō ka mea e maʻalahi ai kāu hana, aʻaʻole e hoʻokumu i ka makemakeʻole no ka hanaʻana i ka nani i loko o nā kamaliʻi. ʻO nā lālā o kēia lā a me nā mea maʻamau - uaʻano lōʻihi o keʻano, a no ka liloʻana o kāu keikikāne liʻiliʻi i mea e pono ai, pono nā mākua e hōʻike i kahi noʻonoʻo a me ke akamai. No ka hoʻoikaikaʻana i ka hana aʻaʻole "e hana i kahi kaʻa," i lalo nei kekahi mau manaʻo no nā kalalele o nā lā no nā pēpē.

ʻO nā lauoho'ōpiopio māmā no nā kaikamāhine

ʻO nā mea a pau me kaʻole'ē aʻe,ʻike nā makuaʻaʻole he mea maʻalahi ma mua o ka huelo no kahi wahine liʻiliʻi, akā, aia he mau haneli o nā ala maʻalahi e wehe i ka lauoho i wikiwiki, nani a nani.

Eia kekahi laʻana, e hoʻohuli wale i ka huelo maʻamau, a me ke kāhiliʻana me ke kakaka a iʻole ka lauoho maikaʻi, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻololi i ke kiʻi a pau i ka lua.

No ka mea liʻiliʻi, aia nāʻano mele me ka nui o nā meaʻono, akā, ināʻaʻole lōʻihi ka lauoho, akā hiki i nā kālepa ke hana i kekahi manawa me nā pūpū, i hoʻopaʻaʻia i nāʻano likeʻole i waena o lākou iho. ʻAʻohe palena i ka hiʻona.

ʻAʻole pono i nā Mums ke hōʻole i kā lākou mau kaikamāhine i ka nani, a no laila, ponoʻoe e hoʻolimalima i kekahi mau hola ma hope o ka hoʻoholoʻana i nā mea hou i kūpono i ke heleʻana i ke kula a i ka papa kula. ʻO nā lauoho o nā keiki no nā kaikamāhine he pono, he wikiwiki, akā i ka manawa like loa e kūpono i ke kūʻokoʻa, no ka mea, aia ma ka mākelehua a me ke kula ke keiki. ʻAʻole hiki ke kapaʻia he kūlana maikaʻi, i ka wā e pono ai ke hoʻoponoponoʻia ka lauoho i kēlā me kēia mauʻumi a me kaʻumikumamālima mau minuke.

ʻO nā lauoho o nā keiki mai nā'āpana

ʻO nā lauoho o nā keiki liʻiliʻi no nā kaikamāhine ke nānā aku i waho i ka nani loa, inā no ko lākou kumu e lawe ai i ka pale kila kūlana a iʻole ka nui o nā mea maikaʻi. I kēia manawa, he nui nā'āpana pale "boho", he hapa iki i kaʻaoʻao.

ʻO ka mea kaulana loa,ʻo ia ka lima o ka māheleʻia iʻekolu mau'āpana, aʻelua hapa o ka lauoho.

Hiki iāʻoe ke paʻi i kahi pale i nā mea likeʻoleʻekolu ma mua. ʻO ka hopena o ka hopena e hiki ke hoʻomaha iki, e hāʻawi ana iā ia i kahi hana palekana (hiki ke maʻalahi ke hoʻololi i nā lauoho o nā keiki i nā mea pāʻani). Hiki i ka spit ke hoʻokumu i ke kumu o kahi wili nani, he wili Helene ma ke kahe o ke poʻo (me kahi mau hapa), a me ka "huelo iʻa". I ka wā ma mua, hiki i nā kaikamāhine ke aʻo e hoʻonani iā ​​lākou iho ma ka hoʻokōʻana i nā manaʻo hou i kēlā me kēia lā.

No nā lauoho pōkole o nā wāhine liʻiliʻi, he nui nā lauoho nani.