ʻO ka honua o ka'enehu a me nā kiʻi, i hoʻokipa nuiʻia me Photoshop, ke alakaʻi hewa nei, kuhikuhi i kona mau kānāwai pono'ī a hoʻoikaika i nā mea he nui e pili ana i konaʻano. Pēlā ka poʻe wāhine i hānau i nā kahakaha, hāpai i ka'ōpū, a me nā'ūhā'ūhā he pono iā lākou ke nānā ponoʻole?
ʻO kekahi mea kiʻi kiʻi kiʻiʻAmelika mai Chicago,ʻo Ashley Wells Jackson, me ke kōkua o kāna mau kiʻi, makemakeʻo ia e hele aku i kahi kaiāulu, i kēlā mau mea maikaʻi i lilo i mau mākua.
"E nānā pono iāʻoe iho i loko o ke aniani me nā maka'ē aʻe! He naniʻoe,ʻoʻoe ke kumu o ka hoʻoikaika. Ponoʻoe e aloha iāʻoe iho no waiʻoe. Kuhi me 90-60-90, nā pāʻani o ka nani. ʻO kēlā mea kēia mea o kākou,ʻo kēlā me kēia mea he nani, "- ka mea nāna i hana i ka papahana" 4 mau mahina. ʻO ke kino wahine ma hope o ka hānauʻana, "ʻo ia ka mea e kōkua ai i nā mākua uʻi eʻae iā lākou iho a haʻaheo i ko lākou kiʻi, e hoʻomaka e hauʻoli i ka wā o ka makuahine.
Ua hōʻikeʻia ka papahana i ka makahiki 2013. ʻO kāna mea i hana ai i ka mea paʻi kiʻi ua hoʻoikaikaʻia e kāna hānai keiki, nā kamaliʻi. "I ka makahiki 2000, e halihali ana wau i kaʻu keiki mua. Ua hoʻonohonohoʻia kahi hānau home, akā i ka hebedoma 28 ua hoʻomaka au i nā kue'ē, a ua pono wau e hele i ka haukapila. Ua noho kaʻu keikikāne i nā lā he 46 i loko o kahi keʻena maʻi. Ma hope o 6 mau makahiki, ua hāpai wau me nā kaikamahine māhoe. Ma ka hebedoma 24 ua hoʻokauʻia wau e loaʻa i kēia mau mea. ʻO ka hopena,ʻaʻole i ola kekahi kaikamahine, aʻo ka lua o nā lā he 100 i hoʻohanaʻia i loko o ka maʻi koʻikoʻi, a he mea pono e hana i ka hana ma ka lolo e ho'ōla ai i ka hydrocephalus. Ma hope o ka hānauʻana, ua hoʻololi koʻu kino. Ua oki wau i ka makemake. I ka manawa pinepine i loko o kaʻauʻau e hoʻopiʻi aiʻo ia iā ia iho,ʻaʻole maopopo iā ia ke kumu o kona huhū iā ia iho. No ka hoʻohemoʻana i kēia mau manaʻoʻole, ua hana wau i kēia papahana. Ua makemake au e pili like nā wāhine e like me aʻu i ko lākou mauʻike, aʻo pū lākou e'āpono a aloha iā lākou iho, "wahi a Ashley. ʻO ka mea i lilo i kahi papahana e paʻa nei, hiki iāʻoe keʻike ma lalo.
1.ʻO kākou a pau no kekahi kanaka i lilo i honua holoʻokoʻa, he honua maoli.
2.ʻO ka makuahine ka wāʻoi loa loa i ka nohoʻana o ka wahine.
3.ʻAʻohe mea iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi ma mua o ka hua'ōlelo "makua".
4. He maʻalahi ke aloha i kou kino.
5.ʻO ka wahine wahine i nā mahina he 9 aʻo ka hale hauʻoli no ke ola hou.
6.ʻAʻole maikaʻi ka nani maoli i loko o ke kino, akā ma ka mālamalama o ka naʻau.
7. Ma ka lima o nā makuwahine nā mea e hiki mai ana o ka lāhui.
8. Aia kekahi makana kūikawā -ʻo ke tālena o ka makuahine.
9.ʻO ka makuahine ka mea paʻakikī loa o nā hana, e lawe ana i ka hauʻoli.
10.ʻO ka'ōpiopio ka mea paʻakikī loa o nā hana, akā, hāʻawi ia i ka hauʻoli nui loa.
11.ʻO ka makana maikaʻi loa i ka honua nei,ʻo ia ka leʻaleʻa o kahi hana mana loa.
12.ʻAʻohe mea maikaʻi a nani'ē aʻe ma mua o ka hoʻopaʻiʻana o ka makuahine.
13.ʻO ka makuahine ke kumu nui ke kumuʻole e komo ai kekahi i ka hoʻopau iā ia iho.
14.ʻO ke aloha makuahine he makana maoli i hoʻounaʻia mai luna mai.
15.ʻO ka makuahine ka mea nui o nā wāhine.
16.ʻO nā mea a pau e nānā aku ana me ke aloha, ua nani nā maka.
17. Ma loko o ke kanaka, he mea maikaʻi nā mea a pau mai nā kukuna o ka lā a me ka waiū o ka makuahine.
18. Mai ka manawa i hānau ai ka pēpē, hoʻomaka ka puʻuwai o ka wahine i ka umauma'ē aʻe.
19. I ka manawa eʻike ai ke keiki i ka hauʻoli o kona makuahine a me ka hōʻoiaʻiʻo o kona makuahine,ʻo ia wale nō ka mea maikaʻi no ia.
20.ʻAʻohe mele maʻalahi ma mua o kaʻakaʻaka o nā keiki.
21. Inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā keiki,ʻikeʻoe i ke kumu e ola aiʻoe.
22. He hīmeni ka makuahine no ka hua'ōlelo angel.
23.ʻO nā keiki nā heleuma o kēlā me kēia makuahine.
24. Me ka hikiʻana mai o ke keiki, maopopo iāʻoe he aloha ka aloha.
25. Keʻike mau ke keiki i kona makuahine ma kaʻakaʻaka.
26. Heʻohana aloha a he makua hauʻoli ka mea e pono ai nā keiki.
27. He nani loa ke kino wahine - ua lawe mai i kahi ola hou i ko ke ao nei.
28.ʻO kahi mea wale nō e hoʻopoinaʻoleʻia e ke kanaka,ʻo ia ke ala o kona makuahine.
29. Me ka hoʻomakaʻana o ka makuahine, e lilo mākou i wahine maikaʻi a nani.
30. No kaʻikeʻana i ka makeʻole -ʻo ia keʻano o ka pukaʻana o nā keiki.
31.ʻO ke aloha o nā kamaliʻi ka mea kūpaʻa loa ma ka honua nei.
32. Inā makemakeʻoe eʻike i nā hiʻohiʻona o nā'ānela, e nānā i kāu keiki.
33. Uaʻike kēlā keiki kēlā keiki i kona makuahine i ka naʻauao loa, i ke keu a me ka ikaika.
34. He mau keiki wale nō kāna iʻoi aku ka nani ma mua o nā wāhine.
35. Ua kapu ka makuahine.
36. Ke noi aku nei ka makuahine mai lalo o ke kai.
37.ʻO ka hānauʻana, hāʻawi aku i kahi wahine i kahi ākea e hoʻomāmā i ka honua, māmā a me ka maikaʻi.
38. He wahine i loaʻa i kahi keiki he mauʻene kūikawā.
39. Hauʻoli nā mākua i ka manawa e hauʻoli ana kā lākou mau keiki.
40. Noho mua nā keiki i lalo o ka puʻuwai, a laila lilo i hoʻokahi naʻau.
41. He wahine maikaʻi ko kēlā wahine kēia wahine. Ponoʻoe eʻike i loko o kou iho.