23 mau kiʻi,ʻikeʻia e nā kaikunāne a pau

ʻO ka hapanui o nāʻohana i ko mākou manawa, i laila nā keiki - nāʻohana me kahi keiki hoʻokahi. ʻOiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻohe mea e hakakāʻo kēia ka mea i kohoʻia e kēlā me kēia makua, akā he mea nui eʻae i kāu keiki e ulu a puni i kahi kaikunāne.

Ma hope o nā mea a pau, heʻoiaʻiʻo, he nui nā keiki i loko o kaʻohana - maikaʻi, no nā mākua a me nā keiki. Hiki i nā hoahānau a me nā kaikunāne ke hoʻokumu i kā lākou iho pilina o nā hoaaloha, e wehewehe i nā mea hilahila a me nā mea i loaʻa, e kūkākūkā i ka'ōhumu hou loa ae piʻi mai me kahi kumumanaʻo e hopu ai i ka honua. E noʻonoʻo e pili i nā manawa kūʻokoʻa i halaʻole ai kāu "keiki hoʻokahi," inā uluʻo ia me ke kaikuaʻanaʻole.

1. Ma kaʻohana nui,ʻaʻole loa e kū i ka nīnau o ka mea nāna e holoi i ka wai. I loko o kahiʻohana nui, kūkuluʻia nā mea a pau ma luna o ke kumulāʻau: "ʻO wai ka mea mua i hana, ua hanaʻia."

2. Mai poina e pili ana i ka hakakā o ke ao no ka pono e hele i ka noho mua o ka kaʻa makua.

3. Akā, pinepineʻoe e hele ma ka noho hope a,ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hōʻike wiwoʻole i kou kaikunāne a kaikuahine paha aia ka lālā o ka pale kaua ma lalo o lākou.

4. Nānā me kou kaikuaʻana a hiki paha iāʻoe ke kaʻana aku i ka meaʻono a me kahi punahele loa. A ua kūlike.

5. Inā i loaʻa i ka hoahānau a kaikuaʻana no kāu mau hana maʻaleʻale i ka "pōpale", a laila loaʻa iāʻoe kaʻoluʻolu maoli. Hiki paha kēia i nā pilina ma waena o nā pilina.

6. Ua maʻa nō hoʻi nā mea a pau i ke kūlana i loko o kekahiʻohana nui e hoʻopoina ka makua i nā inoa o nā keiki a pau a ma mua o ka kāheaʻana iāʻoe i nā inoa o nā mea a pau. ʻAʻole anei kēia he hana kupaianaha?

7. Hoʻopau ka papa ahiahi o ke ahiahi i nā hakakā maoli no ka manawa kūpono e koho ai i kahi papahana a iʻole kiʻiʻoniʻoni paha.

8. A ināʻoe e puka i waho i ka lanakila ma kēia hakakā, mai haʻaleleʻoe i kahi mamao mai kou lima aku iʻole e hoʻololi ke kaikuaʻana a me ke kaikuaʻana paha i ke kahawai.

9. E hoʻomanaʻo i kēlā manaʻo i ka wā e paʻi pinepineʻoe i kou kaikunāne a kaikuahine paha, a laila ho'āʻo e hoʻomaha.

10. Inā i loko o kaʻohana nui ua kūʻai koʻu makuahine i mea kūikawā, iʻole eʻikeʻia e kahi hoahānau kāne, a laila liloʻoe i keiki maikaʻi loa ma kēia ao.

11. Ua aʻoʻiaʻoe i ka hoʻomeleʻana i nā ala o kaʻimiʻana i kahi keʻena o kekahi mea'ē aʻe inā ināʻoe e lohe i kahi hana kokoke i kou kaikunāne a kaikuahine, e haʻalele kokeʻoe i ka hiʻona.

12.ʻO nā makana maikaʻi loa i ka honua nei, pili pono i nā kaikunāne a mau kaikamāhine paha, i likeʻole lākou i keʻano haʻalulu nani.

13.ʻO nā kaikuaʻana a me nā kaikuahine wale nō kaʻike i ka manawa e ho'āʻo ai kekahi o lākou e nīnau aku i nā mākua i kekahi mea'ē aʻe no kekahi mea'ē aʻe, akā, loaʻa iā lākou ka hōʻole.

14. A,ʻo ia nō, ke manawa weliweli e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻomaopopo iāʻoe mai kahi kaikuaʻana a kaikuaʻana paha e kamaʻilio nei nā mākua iāʻoe.

15. I nā manawa o ka makeʻole,ʻaʻohe mea e hana ai akā he hoʻohenehene i kou kaikunāne.

16. He manawa kūikawā no ka pili piliʻana i ka wā e loaʻa ai nāʻike "huna" i nā mākua mai nā lehelehe o kekahi kaikunāne.

17.ʻO kou helehelena inā haʻi kekahi e aloha lākou me kou kaikunāne.

18. Aʻo ia hoʻi, kou helehelena ke hoʻopuniʻia kekahi kaikunāne, akā ua hikiʻole iāʻoe keʻoliʻoli i ka nānāʻana i kēia mea "kaumaha."

19. Ua makemake nā kaikuaʻana a me nā kaikuaʻana e ho'āʻo i kekahi mea hou ma luna o kekahi. A pinepine i ka hewa.

20.ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻomaopopoʻia ka hopena o kou manaʻo no ka laweʻana o kahi kaikunāne i kou wahi kiʻekiʻe.

21. Uaʻoluʻolu nā noi a nā kaikunāne me ke kūpono. ʻO ka mea pili i ka meaʻai.

22.ʻOiai nā pilikiaʻole a pau,ʻo kahi kaikuaʻana wale nō paha eʻae i nā mea iʻoi aku ka pilikia.

23. A, ma iaʻano pilina,ʻaʻohe waena:ʻo ke aloha wale nō a me ka aloha pauʻole.