18ʻike maopopo i nā kūlana,ʻike waleʻia e nā lālā o kaʻohana nui

He mea nani loa ke hānauʻia ma kahiʻohana nui, piha i ka holomua a me ka pilina aloha. ʻO kahi wale nō o nā hanauna e manaʻo aiʻoe i ke aloha a me ka mālama pono, aʻo ka mea nui loa - keʻikeʻoe i ka hilinaʻi a me ke kākoʻo i ka pono.

Akā me nāʻano maikaʻi a pau o ka "ʻohana nui," he mau keiki e kūpono ana i nā pilikia paʻakikī hikiʻole ke wehewehe. Hiki keʻike aʻikeʻia eʻoe wale nō. Inā moeʻuhaneʻoe i kahiʻohana nui me nā kaikunāne a me nā kaikuahine, eʻike muaʻoe i kāu mea e kū ai, inā pahaʻoe e makemake aiʻaʻole paha!

1.ʻAʻole loa e loaʻa ka manawa no kou pono a me nā makemake, ināʻo kāu mau kaikunāne a mau kaikamāhine paha e noho ma lalo o ka hale hoʻokahi.

E kala mai, akā he aha ke kuʻuna pilikino?

2. Ma ka hale o kou mau mākua, pono ke kaʻina hoʻomalu: "Ināʻaʻole i loaʻa ka manawa eʻai ai i ka meaʻai i 5 mau minuke, ua pōloli loaʻoe."

Ua ulu wau me Monica, ināʻaʻoleʻoe iʻai wikiwiki,ʻaʻoleʻoe iʻai!

ʻO ka mea pōʻino,ʻo ka loaʻaʻole o nā meaʻai i loko o kaʻohana nuiʻaʻoleʻoi. No ka mea,ʻaʻohe mea i koe!

3.'Ā, mai poinaʻoe no nā mea e hauʻoli ai e kali mau loa no kāu manawa i ka lumi lumi!

4. I loko o kaʻohana nui, e aʻo aiʻoe i ka mea "hoʻonui" i kaʻai.

ʻAe, e hūnā i nā mea maikaʻi noʻoe e maʻa. Inā,ʻoiaʻiʻo, makemakeʻoe e loaʻa ka manawa e ho'āʻo ai iā lākou!

5.ʻO nā mea i loko o ka pahu fīkoi e "hele aku" i kahi wikiwiki. ʻAʻole hiki iāʻoe ke loaʻa ka manawa e nānā ai i loko o ka friji.

No laila, pili i ka'ōlelo aʻo mua a hūnā i ka meaʻai.

6.ʻO ka hoʻokipa maikaʻi loa iāʻoe e holoi i nā kīʻaha. E hōʻeha maoliʻoe i kēia hihia.

ʻOiai ma ka manaʻo nui,ʻaʻohe makemake kekahi e holoi i nā meaʻai. Inā paha he ipu holoiʻiaʻoe, ponoʻoe e kau iʻekolu manawa i ka lā i kekahi mau pahu he mau dāina he nui a me nā mea'ē aʻe.

7. He maʻalahi loa ka loiloi o nāʻaʻahu i loko o kaʻohana nui:ʻo ka poʻe'ōpiopio eʻaʻahu ana no nā lunakahiko. ʻOiai ma lalo o ka nui o keʻano o nā lole.

ʻAʻoleʻoe eʻaʻahu hou, a iʻoleʻoe eʻaʻahu wale i kahiʻoihana no nā pēpē!

No laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻopoina e pili ana i nā loina hana a me nā lono o kaʻoihana ukana.

8.ʻAʻoleʻoe e loli ma kahi kaʻa hoʻokahi.

Aʻo ka pōʻino loa, ināʻoe e holo ma nā kuli o kahi kaikuaʻana aʻo ke kaikunāne paha.

9. Aʻo kekahi poʻe e kapaʻole iāʻoe ma ka inoa, akā,ʻo "ke kaikaina o kēlā a me kēia." A he mea hoʻonāukiuki.

ʻAʻole koʻu inoa!

10.ʻO kou poʻo e lilo i kahi hale mālamaʻike nui, no ka mea, e pono anaʻoe eʻike i nā mea a pau o waho o kou mau kaikuaʻana.

ʻAʻole wau iʻike i ka pane i kēia nīnau!

Akā, ma ka pili pono i ka nīnau "A'ohea ka la hānau o kou kaikuahine (aʻo ke kaikunāne)?" Hiki iāʻoe ke pane i kēlā no kēia mau hana i loaʻa nā pūnaewele.

11. I ka heleʻana i waena o nā kānaka'ē aʻe, e liloʻoe i meaʻoi loa aʻoi aku ka nui o ka nānā.

He mea hikiʻole kēia. A ua hikiʻole iāʻoe ke loli.

12. I ka manawa e makemake ai kouʻohana e hālāwai me kou mau hoaaloha a me ka hapalua,ʻo kāu'ōlelo ola: "Ke hana nei au he mea maʻamau."

ʻOʻoe ke kiko

Kūpono, he paʻakikī ke ho'ākākaʻana i kahi malihini i ka walaʻauʻohana'ōpiopio.

13. Ma nā wahi a pau, hoʻokahi wale nō nīnau e alualuʻia e ka poʻe a pau e pili ana iāʻoe ke hikiʻole ke hoʻomaopopo loa i ka helu o kou mau kaikunāne.

A,ʻoiaʻiʻo, e hoʻoholo lākou e bapetizo ana kouʻohana.

14. I nā manawa maʻamau i nā lā hoʻomaha, e hōʻokiʻoe i kou noʻonoʻo ma luna o ka mea e kūʻai aku ai he makana i nāʻohana a pau inā loaʻa ka nele o ka kālā.

Ma keʻano nui, e like ka hopena me ka manaʻo o kaʻaha kūkāʻohana e nele i ka mea hāʻawi. A maʻaneʻi, e kūʻaiʻoe.

15. Ke haʻaheo iki nei kou mau hoaaloha i hiki iā lākou ke hoʻopaʻa i nā inoa o kou mau kaikunāne a me nā kaikuaʻana ma ka lekaʻana.

ʻAʻole wau e haʻaheo i kēia. ʻAe, inā heʻuʻuku wale nō.

No ka haʻi aku i kaʻoiaʻiʻo iāʻoe, e hoʻopihaʻiaʻoe e nā "hoʻopunipuni" a kou mau hoaaloha.

16. E hōʻeu ana nā ho'āʻo e hana i ka kiʻiʻohana. A e nui loa ana nā ho'āʻoʻana!

No ka mea, e pilau paha kekahi iʻole e nele paha i ke kiʻi.

17. A ināʻaʻoleʻoe e loaʻa pono kahi kiʻi pilinaʻohana, a laila,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻohui i ka pūnaewele pili.

No laila eʻokiʻia kekahi i ka kiʻi!

18. Ma muli o nā hapa liʻiliʻi nui o kekahiʻohana nui,ʻaʻole loaʻoe e makemake e kūʻai aku ia mea no kaʻohanaʻuʻuku!