Eʻike ana nā kaikamahine i keʻano o ka hana ma ka papaʻaina a ma kahi ākea, akāʻaʻole hiki i nā mea a pau ke koho e loaʻa ka pili wahine. Akā, he mea nui loa nā rula o ke kani maikaʻi me ka pilina pili, i ka manawa i loaʻa ai ka manawa mua me kahi hoa hou. Mai ka pilina mua e pili nui ana, koe wale no nā hālāwai hoʻokahi. A laila, no laila, hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kekahi mea, i nā mea'ē aʻe, maikaʻi e ho'āʻo a waiho i ka manaʻo maikaʻi.
ʻO nā rula o ka moe kolohe no nā wāhine
- E lilo i kēia mea pōā . ʻAʻole ia he mea hūnā i nā kānaka e like me ke aloha e like me nā pae paionia, e hōʻike ana i nā mea huna a lilo hoʻi i mau mea nona nā mea huna. He meaʻoluʻolu loa iā lākou ka mea hilahila wahine. He mea kūpono kēia hana e hoʻolālā i kaʻike hou, akā ināʻaʻoleʻoe eʻoluʻolu i ia, pono e noʻonoʻo e pili ana. ʻO kaʻikeʻana o nā wāhineʻaʻole i hāʻule, a pinepine mākou eʻike i nā hopohopo e pili ana i ka hoa,ʻo ka pilina (me ka wikiwiki) e lawe mai i kahi hōʻino.
- E lilo i'ōpala o keʻano a me ke kohu maikaʻi . Manaʻo kekahi mau kaikamāhine ma ka hōʻikeʻana i ka kino keu kūlohelohe, pono lākou e lanakila i ka pono o nā kāne. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻo ka neckline hohonu, ka lole liʻiliʻi a iʻole kaʻaʻahu iʻokiʻia ma ke kua,ʻo ka wehe ikiʻana i kaʻaoʻao o nā kīʻaha, e hāpai paha i ka nānā aku, akā wale nō me kāu kūlanaʻino. No ka liloʻana i "mō'īwahine o ka poepoe" hoʻomanaʻo i kouʻano noʻonoʻo, e koho ana i kahi hoʻonanea kūpono no ka nui o ka pono. Eia kekahi laʻana, he penikala penikala e hoʻopili ana i nā pale o ka wahine, a iʻole ka pale i kahi'āpana kahi e hoʻoulu ai i kahi līkihi i kekahi manawa,ʻoihanaʻoi aku ma mua o ka lole liʻiliʻi e like me ka laulā lōʻihi.
- ʻO ka mea nui ka palekana . Hiki iāʻoe ke'ōlelo e like me kou makemake i kēlā kāpena e pale aku iāʻoe mai ka loaʻaʻana o kaʻoluʻolu maoli, akā,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hilinaʻi i ka mea mua e hāʻawi i ka palekana? Ma mua o ka hoʻoholoʻana e hana i kēlā hana, pono e hala ka manawa, pono e maopopo nā hoaʻelua i ka pono o kekahi i kekahi. No laila,ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka kūkākūkāʻana no ka palekana ma mua, ma mua o ka hoʻokuʻuʻana i ke alo o nā condoms i loko o ke kanaka i hiki ke hoʻopoina i nā mea a pau, i ka wela wela.
- ʻO ka nani o ka lole . ʻO kēlā me kēia wahine e pili ana i kēia māmā o nāʻaʻahu me ka nānā kūikawā, no laila, no ka hālāwai kūkā e koho i kāu puna puna. E hāʻawiʻo ia iāʻoe i ka hilinaʻi e hāʻawiʻo ia i kekahi mau mea pili i ka wahine i ka wahine. E paʻa i ka manawa mua mai kahi mea paʻakikīʻole,ʻaʻole hiki i kēlā me kēia kanaka keʻae i kēia. Inā makemakeʻo ia eʻike iāʻoe i ka loleʻili keʻokeʻo me ka'ōpala, a laila e haʻiʻo ia iāʻoe ma hope.
- I kekahi manawaʻo ka leo paheʻe ke gula . Uaʻike mākou a pau i ka wā o nā huakaʻi hele nui, a inā pahaʻo lākou ka mua, pono e haʻi e pili ana i kāu mau makemake iʻole lākou e hopohopo. Akā, aia kekahi manawa eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka mālamaʻana i kou lapalapa paneʻole. Eia kekahi laʻana, i ka manawa o nā pilikia me kahi hoa hana kūkuluʻia aiʻole me kāu pūnaewele. Ma ka hihia mua, mai hō'āhewa aiʻole e hōʻike i ke aloha, eʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka noʻonoʻo e lawe i ka hana a ho'āʻo e kōkua iā ia. A inā he kūponoʻole kona hōʻehaʻeha, aia he koho e noi haʻahaʻa aku i kahi hoʻomau a iʻole i kona mau maka e hoʻomaka ai e hoʻomaʻamaʻa iā ia iho, hiki i kahi kanaka keʻaleʻa ke noho piliʻole i kēiaʻike.
- "E holoholo,ʻoʻoe koʻu mua, heʻoi aku ka nui oʻelua . " ʻO ka nīnau o ka hopena o ka hopena eʻikeʻia, akā inā i lōʻihi ka lōʻihi o kāu mau inoa i kaʻumi, e pono anei e kamaʻilio? ʻO nā kānaka'ē aʻe, akā ua hiki iā ia ke lilo i mea maikaʻi,ʻo ia wale nō ka mea e pono aiʻo ia eʻike.
- He mea kūpono paha ke hoʻohālikelike i kahi kogasona? . ʻO ka noʻonoʻo i nā pilina he mea nui loa ia, akā, i nā papa mua, hiki ke hiki ke hoʻohālike i nā mea a pau iʻoi aku ka maikaʻi. A no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke hūnā i kou makemake mai ka moekolohe, eʻike e hōʻike a kamaʻilio e pili ana i ka mea hauʻoli i loaʻa iāʻoe.
- He mea paʻakikī ka hopena ināʻaʻoleʻoe e ho'āʻo i kahi mea hou . E hele i ka manaʻo no ka hoa, mai makaʻu e hoʻokolohua, no ka mea inā he meaʻoe
akāʻaʻole i ho'āʻo,ʻaʻole ia i keʻano o ka hikiʻole o ka hōʻailona pilikino eʻoluʻolu iāʻoe. Akā,ʻaʻole pili kēia i kēlā mau hihia inā hāʻawi ka hoa i kekahi mea makemakeʻole aʻaʻohe paha eʻaeʻia eʻoe. I kēia hihia, ponoʻoe e'ōlelo me ka makaʻuʻole i ka hihia.
A i ka hopena - e māmā. He nui nā wāhine e "ho'āʻo" i nā moho no hoʻokahi pule, a laila e hāʻawi i ka makemake i ka mea maikaʻi. Ināʻo kēia ka hihia iāʻoe, e pani i kou waha e pili ana i iaʻano, me kou mau hoaaloha, aʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole pono ke kanaka eʻike he mea'ē aʻe kekahi.