ʻO ka male ma kahi lā mua

"ʻO ka male ma hope o ka lā mua he moekolohe!" - e'ōlelo ana nā wāhine he nui. Aʻo nā mea'ē aʻe e pale aku iā lākou, "he manawa hou kēia, no ke aha e kali ai, e hikiʻole ke hōʻoleʻia i ka moe." Aʻo wai ka mea pololei? E pale i nā ho'āʻo me kona ikaika a pau, no ka makaʻuʻole i keʻikeʻiaʻana e like me ke kaikamahine i hanaʻia e like me ia? A iʻole he moekolohe ma ka lā mua - he maʻamau ia,ʻoiaʻiʻo inā makemakeʻoe?

ʻO ka male ma ka lā mua? A no ke aha?

Uaʻike aneiʻoe i kaʻikeʻana o kaʻike kaiapuni o nā wāhine ma mua o 30 he hōʻike i ka makemake o nā wāhine e hoʻomaka i ka mea nui i ka lā mua? ʻO 78% o nā kaikamāhine'ōleloʻaʻole lākou iʻike i kekahi mea kūlohelohe ma kēia hopena o ka hālāwai. ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo,ʻaʻole i hoʻomaha iki ka hanauna'ōpio, aʻo 7% wale nō o nā kaikamāhine ma lalo o ke 30 o ka makahiki 30 ua makaukau lākou no ka male ma hope o ka lā mua. ʻAe, ua maopopo nā mea a pau iā mākou,ʻo kaʻikeʻole i loko o kekahi mea he meaʻoliʻoli punahele a nā wāhine, akā he aha ka manaʻo o kānaka e pili ana i kēia?

Pāʻani, akāʻo kēia mau wahi paʻa o ka loiloi ke hāʻawi nei i nā pane maikaʻi aʻe. No laila, e noʻonoʻo pono nā'ōpio i ka pilina ma keʻano he hopena maikaʻi loa o ka lā mua, akā, no ke kaikamahine eʻae i kēia, e haʻahaʻa ka manaʻo. Pāhala kekahi i ka hōʻoleʻana o ke kaikamahine. Pehea pehea?

1. Ma ka lā mua e pono aiʻoe e hoʻomaʻamaʻa, eʻikeʻoe i kekahi i kekahi me ka piliʻole, aʻaʻole e lele i kahi moe. Inā, heʻoiaʻiʻo, aia nō heʻuhane no ka noho lōʻihi. Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo ka hapanui o nā kāne e hikiʻole ke loaʻa i nā wāhine ke manaʻoʻole. Hiki iā lākou, aʻaʻole paha e noʻonoʻo i kekahi mea hewa,ʻo kahi wahine wale nō i hoʻokuʻu koke aku,ʻaʻohe makemake e pili iā lākou. Aia kekahi kānāwai: ke kūlike kūpono o ka pānaʻi i nā hana a nā kāne, i ka hana ma ka hopena o ka nani.
2. A inā i hoʻomaka ka lā i ka wahine, no ke aha e huki ai? Ua nānā mākou i kekahi i kekahi, makemake a maikaʻi loa, a he mea nuiʻole ka manaʻo o ka hoa pili i kēia hihia -ʻaʻole keʻano o ka pilina pilina.
3. Ma nā kānāwai, aia nā hoʻokoe. Hiki ke hoʻonohonoho i nā meaʻelua, akā, ua lele ka'ōhuhi, aʻaʻole ikaika e kū'ē. ʻAʻole lāua i mare a male paha i nā makahiki he nui. A hui pū lāua me ka wahine, hoʻokahi manawa,ʻelua, aʻekolu, a laila lilo i meaʻole i ka māhele.

No laila, e nīnau i ka nīnau i ka lā hea ke kāne mua,ʻaʻole pono. E maikaʻi aʻeʻoe a hana i ke kūlana.

Keʻae nei mākou i ka wahine waha a me ka ikaika ma kahi lā mua?

A ke hilinaʻi nei iāʻoe a me kouʻano i kēiaʻano o ka wahine. Manaʻo nā kaikamāhine he nui keʻano o ka wahine ma ka lā mua a me ka'ōlelo wahaʻole, akāʻo kaʻaelike maʻamau. Ma muli o keʻano o kēiaʻano o ka moekolohe - hiki wale iā lākou keʻaeʻia i kahi pili loa a alohaʻia,ʻaʻoleʻo ka mua e hālāwai. Akā inā hoʻoholoʻoe e leʻaleʻa, pehea keʻano e hana ai i kāu e loaʻa ai? Ma hope o nā mea a pau,ʻo kēlāʻano kēiaʻano o ka wahine e pili ana i ka loaʻaʻana o ka leʻaleʻa, aʻo ka hopena ma kahi moeʻaʻole kahi kahi. ʻOiai, ināʻoe e hilinaʻi mau i ka manaolana o ka launa mau, pono e makaʻala - hiki i ke kanaka ke hoʻomaopopo i ka hana e like me ka waiwai lapuwale, aʻaʻole kēia mea i makemakeʻia e kekahi mea mai kāna hoaaloha.

Ka wahine i hoʻoikaikaʻia i ka lā mua

I kēia manawaʻaʻole i pili i ka pākaha wale, heʻokoʻa ke kāohi. ʻO ia keʻano, heʻokoʻa loa ka nānāʻana i ke kāne a me ka wahine. Eia kekahi laʻana, ma hope o ka lā mua i kono ai ke kanaka iaʻu e hele mai i ona lā no ke kīʻafe. ʻO keʻano maʻamau, ua hoʻopauʻia ke kaʻina hana o ka kofe i ka wahine. Akā, makemake loa ka kaikamahine e inu i ka kofe,ʻaʻole nō hoʻi e noʻonoʻo i ka pili aloha. ʻAe, ua hōʻoleʻo ia a haʻalele i kānaʻikeʻana he meaʻole ia. Ma kēia hihia, e manaʻo ana ke kaikamahine ua hoʻokauʻia ka wahine,ʻoiai e manaʻo ana ua kanaka nei he "soap-packed". No laila, aʻoʻole e lawe i nā mea a pau.