No ke kāne aloha,ʻo kēlā wahine kēia wahine he mea alohaʻole ia, he hoaaloha e hauʻoli i nā manawa o ka hopohopo a hauoli i nā manawa o ka hauʻoli , a me kahi mea hiamoe iʻikeʻoleʻia. ʻO nā mea e pono aiʻoe e hana i kēlā me kēia pō ma mua o ka mea'ē aʻe, e aʻo i ka mea e lilo ai i kahu wahine maikaʻi. No ka hoʻokōʻana i ka makemake, he mea nui eʻimi wale i ka hoʻonaniʻoleʻana, akā, ua manaʻoʻoe he akua wahine.
Pehea e lilo ai i wahine maikaʻi no kahi kanaka?
- ʻO kēlā me kēia hana o ke alohaʻaʻole pono e hahai i nā mea like,ʻano hiʻohiʻona lōʻihi: ke moe nei a leʻaleʻa, a he hana paʻakikī paha a ma keʻano paha. ʻO ka wahineʻaʻole he hui waleʻia o nā kinoʻelua, he mea aloha, hōʻuluʻuluʻana i kaʻuhane. No nā manawa he nui i ka malama he mea nui e lawe hou i kahi mea hou i loko o ke ola pili. Hiki ke hoʻohālike i ka moe, ka pilina me nāʻano o BDSM, nā pāʻani pāʻani a me nā mea.
- Hiki i nā moe kolohe ke lawe mai i ka leʻaleʻa leʻaleʻa i nā hoaʻelua. ʻO ke aloha maikaʻi loa ma ka moe o kahi kāne i mareʻia,ʻo ia ka meaʻike i kona mau nāwaliwali, a iʻole nā wahiʻinoʻino paha. ʻO ka hoʻomakaʻana,ʻaʻole kahi kahi e hoʻokolohua ai: e'ā'ī ai i kona'ā'ī, kahi luahi ma luna o kona kuʻekuhi, ka waena ma waena o kona mau poʻohiwi, pepeiao, nā niho, a me nā kīʻaha. He mea nui e maopopo i keʻano o ka honi a me kahi e likeʻole ai kona manaʻo. E lilo kēia mauʻike i lilo i mea huna.
- I ka moe, mai hoʻokamani. Ināʻaʻoleʻoe makemake i kekahi mea, he mea nui e haʻi i kāu hoa ma keʻanoʻano. He mea nui hoʻi e hana likeʻo ia ma keʻano like.
- Pono ke kūkāʻana i kahi mea nui'ē aʻe:ʻo nā kānaka e like me nā maka. A ke'ōlelo nei kēia he mea nui e hahai i kou kino a me kāu kiʻi. ʻAʻole ia he pōpilikia o nā hana kūpono, akā, heʻano maʻalea hoʻi ma keʻano o kahi lūlū, ka waiū o nā meaʻala a iʻole ka meaʻala no ke kino. Eia hou,ʻaʻole i kahi kahi e hoʻopiha ai i kou kapaʻaʻahu me kahi mea palekana , nā mea hoʻonāukiuki a me kahi lole pale lacy.