I ke ao o kēia ao, kahi o nā'enela multimedia, ka nui o nā mea hana a me nāʻoihana'ēhana'ē aʻe, hiki iāʻoe keʻike i kēlā ho'ākākaʻana he "generic curs". ʻO kēia kekahi o kēlā mau manaʻo e hiki ai i kekahi manawa a me ka wā hiki ke kūlana aʻaʻole e pili i kekahi mea. A no laila, inā heʻeleʻeleʻeleʻele o nā mea kūponoʻole, ma keʻano he kūlana, ma ka pae nui, nīnauʻo ia i ka nīnau: "He hōʻino koʻikoʻi kēia?", No ka mea, ua manaʻoʻo ia i kēia mea i ko mākou manawa. ʻAe, hiki nō, akā, ponoʻoe eʻike i keʻano eʻike ai i kahi hōʻailona keu i mea e maopopo loa aiʻaʻole e kānalua kēia me kekahi mea'ē aʻe.
Pehea e hiki ai i ka hōʻailona pōʻino?
ʻO ka'ōlelo hōʻailonaʻaʻoleʻo ia ka hopena hope loa,ʻoiai he mea weliweli ia, akā i kēia manawa, hiki ke lukuʻia ka generic curse , akā no kēia mea he mea pono e hoʻomaopopo pono i kaʻikeʻana o ka hōʻailona kūlohelohe a me ka wale nō, a laila hana, hoʻopauʻia. ʻO ka hiʻohiʻona nui o ka hōʻino'āina, ma keʻano he kūlana,ʻo ia ka nui o nā poʻe maʻi kolohe i loko o kaʻohana, a me nā mea pepehi pū kekahi. I kēia hihia,ʻo ka hōʻailona maʻamau i ka laina wahine e hōʻike i kaʻikeʻole , a me ka hōʻino maʻamau i ka loneli. He mea paʻakikī loa kaʻikeʻana o nā wāhine i ke kāne a he nui ka poʻe e noho mau ana i nā kaikamāhine, aʻo nā mea'ē aʻe i hiki ke mareʻia, hauʻoli lākou i ka manawa pōkole, no ka mea, ua lilo lākou i mau wāhine kāne make.
Ma ka laina kāne, ma hope o ka hōʻinoʻana o kaʻohana, hiki mai nā pilikia ma ka mareʻoleʻana, ka nele o ka mana kāne a me ka wahine. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka hopena o ka hōʻailona maʻamau, hiki i ka waiʻona a me ka lāʻauʻawaʻawa. He hapa nui ma ke ola no nā kāne a me nā wāhine, he nui loa o ka maleʻana a me ka hemoʻana, ka noho kāne makeʻoleʻana. ʻO nāʻohanaʻoliʻoli i kēia kūlana hikiʻole ke lilo i kekahi. He mau keiki make nā wāhine. ʻO kēia hana a pau o ka hōʻino āpau e kuhikuhiʻia i hoʻokahi mea - ka hoʻopauʻiaʻana o kaʻohana.
Ke kumu o ka hōʻino
ʻO ka hōʻino laulā, e like me nā'ōleloʻino'ē aʻe, he manaʻo maʻalahiʻole ia e hiki ke unuhi a hoʻohanaʻia me nāʻoihana kūikawā, i nā mea akamai loa i kaʻoihana kilokilo. Hiki i ka hōʻailona maʻamau ke ala mai i kahi manawaʻole,ʻo ia hoʻi, ua hoʻokūpikipiki kokeʻia, me ka pōhēhēʻole, akā, ma muli o kēiaʻano ikaikaʻole o kona ikaika,ʻo ia ka hōʻino i nā mea i hoʻomākaukauʻia no ka manawa lōʻihi. Ma kēiaʻano, ua hanaʻia kekahiʻano o nāʻoihana a me nā hana, no ka noʻonoʻoʻana i kēlā me kēia piʻiʻana, akā,ʻo ka ikaika o kāna hana, ua like me ka'ōlelo pale,ʻoiai e kani paha. Māmala'ōlelo hōʻailona -ʻaʻole kēia i ka manawa koke aʻaʻole i ka manawa o ka hanaʻino.
ʻAʻole hiki ke hōʻino i kēia manawa, akā, ma ka liʻiliʻi, e hoʻonui a loaʻa hou ka ikaika ma hope o ka hoʻoholoʻana o ka manawa. He mea hikiʻole i ka pōʻino ke hoʻopōʻino i ka mea i hōʻinoʻia, akā, ma hope oʻelua aʻekolu paha hanauna, e lele ana i kāna moopuna-moʻopuna.
Ma kekahi hihia, ma mua o kou hoʻopiʻiʻana, he keu kou hōʻinoʻia, ponoʻoe e kamaʻilio me ka poʻeʻike. ʻOiaiʻike paha i nā hōʻailona o ka hōʻailona hōʻino a me ka hiki i ko lākou kuʻikahi me nā hihia o kou ola, hiki i ka mea hikiʻole kēia he hōʻino maʻamau. E hōʻoia i kēia aʻimi i ke ala pololei e hiki i nā meaʻoihana wale nō, ka mea nuiʻole eʻaʻa i kēia ho'ākāka a me ka hoʻopauʻana i nā hana a ka mea kilokilo.