Pehea e hauʻoli ai a holomua?

No ke aha mākou i manaʻo aiʻaʻole hiki ke loaʻa ka hauʻoli? No ka hikiʻole ke loaʻa ka pōmaikaʻi ma ka "hoʻoponopono"ʻana i kou naʻau, aʻo kēia, uaʻoi aku ka paʻakikī ma mua o ka hoʻopauʻana iāʻoe me nā meaʻai aiʻole e hoʻokomo iāʻoe i nā "hou" me ke kākoʻo o ke silicone a me ka botox.

I kēia lā, e kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i keʻano o ka hauʻoli a me ka holomua a hoʻomaka i ka hana me kahi mea aloha.

Nā pae o ka holomua o ka pahuhopu

1. E kani a hōʻike i ka makemake.
2. E aʻo i nā mea e lilo ai i mea e hauʻoli ai.
3. E hoʻomaka i ke kaʻina.

ʻO nā manaʻo hope a he haku mele paha iāʻoe

E kali i nā mea'ē aʻe e hōʻailona i nā hoʻomaikaʻi i kou nani, ka maikaʻi, ka maʻalahi o kaʻuhane? ʻAʻoleʻoe e kali, no ka mea e hoʻomakaʻoe e mele i ka meaʻona iāʻoe iho. Hoʻomaopopo i nā nīnau pili i ka pehea e lilo ai i mea hauʻoli: e noʻonoʻo i kou hauʻoli, e hoʻohanohano iāʻoe iho a haʻi iāʻoe iho he kūʻokoʻaʻoe, he kūlana kūʻokoʻa,ʻaʻole iʻikeʻoleʻia, e like meʻoe iʻole, aʻaʻole loa i ke ao. E'ōlelo i kāu mau'ōlelo i nā manawa hikiʻole.

ʻAʻole mālama no ka pono o nā mea'ē aʻe, akā, no ka makemake o ka makemake

Hāʻawi pinepine nā wāhine i nā alakaʻi iā lākou iho, e noʻonoʻo ana ma ka hana, pehea e lilo ai i mea hauʻoli loa,ʻo ka mea nui ke loaʻa i kaʻike maikaʻi o nā mea'ē aʻe. He hapa nui kēia. ʻO ka wahine maʻamau (noho leʻaleʻa) e noho ana ma luna o nā meaʻai, nā paʻi a me nā mea hoʻoponopono i nā meaʻono o haʻi. ʻO kahi wahine hauʻoli e hana i ka mea no ka leʻaleʻa aʻaʻoleʻo ia e uē no kāna mau kaʻina hana maikaʻi.

E waiho i ka manawa no ka mea aloha

Ehia pinepine e hiki ai i kekahi ke lohe mai nā wāhine i ke ola i hāʻawi aku ai lākou i ko lākou ola a pau i nā keiki, nā mākua, nā kāne, a me nā mea'ē aʻe, a ma ka hopena,ʻaʻole i hoʻomaikaʻiʻia. ʻO ka pōʻino, noho lākou i kahi ola o kekahi. Ma nā manawa a pau, e waiho i ka manawa no kāu mau mea punahele, nā makemake a me nā makemake. ʻO kouʻohana mai kēia mea e mahalo a mahalo wale iāʻoe ma keʻano he kanaka holoʻokoʻa,ʻaʻole he kauā.

E hana hou iāʻoe iho i nā manawa a pau, i alohaʻoe iāʻoe iho, i kou kino a me kouʻuhane, e alohaʻoe i ke ola a e hauʻoliʻoe. A laila, eʻikeʻia ka hauʻoli ma ka nalu o kahi kilokilo kilokilo, kāu kaula.