Hiki i nā kaikamahine ke moeʻuhane iā ia iho ma ka moeʻuhane, no ka mea ua hāpaiʻo ia i kaʻoiaʻiʻo aʻaʻole paha i ka hoʻolālā. ʻO ka nui loa o ka moeʻuhane e hiki i ke kanaka ke moe. ʻO ka mea unuhi'ōlelo hoʻokipaʻo Sigmund Freud, hāʻawiʻo ia i nāʻano likeʻole, kahi āna e moe ai eʻike i kona hāpaiʻana:
- ʻAʻole koke kahi kaikamahine a wahine paha e hāpai;
- Ua hoʻomaka ka'ōpū, akā,ʻaʻole iʻike ka makuahine i ka wā e hiki mai ana.
- ʻO kahi kaikamahine a wahine paha iʻike i ka moeʻuhane,ʻoiaʻiʻo, makemakeʻo ia e hāpai;
- I loko o ke ola o ka mea i moeʻuhane i kēlā moeʻuhane, i kēia manawa e hiki mai ana he mau loli nui.
Aia kekahi mau puke moe, a wehewehe maopopo i keʻano o kaʻike iāʻoe iho i kahi moe moe. Wahi a ka Miller Moemoea, inā e kipaʻia kēlā moeʻuhane e ka wahine hānau, e hiki ke hoʻomaopopo i kahi'ōpū maʻemaʻe, hiki i ka hānauʻana, e ikaika ka pēpē a maikaʻi. No ka wahine i hikiʻole iā ia keʻike iā ia iho i loko o ka moeuhane, e kūpono ke kali i ka hakakā a me ka hakakā me kāu mea i aloha ai. Akā, no ka wahine puʻupaʻa, he mea hilahila nui kēia.
ʻO keʻano hou o nā moe
Aia i ka puke moʻokala hou ka mea pono'ī nona iho, no ke aha i moe ai i ka male. No ka wahineʻilihune he hōʻailona o ka waiwai mua, akā, no ka waiwai, akā,ʻo ia moeʻuhane ke hōʻailona o ka palaho. No ka wahine hāpai - no ka hānau ponoʻana o kāna keiki, e ikaika ana ke pēpē, aʻo ka makuahine'ōpio e hoʻi koke i kona ikaika. Akā, no kahi wahine makuahine - i ka make wikiwiki.
Hiki paha i ke kanaka keʻike iā ia iho ma ka moeʻuhane. No ka bachelor, hiki ke 'ano o ia ma ka mare mua, no ka wahine i mare - ma keʻano, he male male,ʻo ia hoʻi. ola ke ola pilikino. Akā, ināʻike kekahi kanaka ma ka moeʻuhane e hāpai ana kāna wahine,ʻo ia hoʻi ke aloha nui iā ia, ināʻaʻoleʻo ia iʻike i kēia.
Me kaʻike e hiki i nā puke likeʻole ke ho'ākāka i ka moeʻuhane āu iʻike ai i kou'ōpū male, hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻoholo a hoʻomaopopo. ʻO ka hoʻomaka, ponoʻoe e hoʻolohe iāʻoe iho, e hoʻolohe i ka hopena o nā mea e hōʻehaʻeha iāʻoe i kaʻoiaʻiʻo. Eia kekahi laʻana, inā hikiʻole iāʻoe ke hāpai i kahi keiki no ka manawa lōʻihi, akā nui ka heleʻana i ia mea, he moe e pili ana i ka'ōpū ke hoʻohālike wale i kona makemake , akāʻaʻole loa.