ʻO nā hua'ōlelo "makemake kekahi kāne e male" no ka nui o nā mele leo leo, no ka mea pinepine ka manaʻo ikaika o ka wahine ma ka mareʻana he meaʻole. Akā naʻe,ʻo ka lā hoʻokahi, ua hiki i ke kāne ke mare, a ua like loa me ka manawa iʻike aiʻo ia uaʻikeʻo ia i ka mea e hoʻokani ana i ke aho o konaʻuhane he mele nani i kapaʻia "aloha."
No ke aha e mare ai nā kāne?
No ke aha e pono ai ka mareʻana o nā kāne e like me kaʻike wale iā lākou iho, akā mākou e koho nei ua mare lākou i mea e noho ai me kāu mea i aloha ai i kou ola a pau, a hoʻoulu i nā keiki a me nā moʻopuna. ʻOiaiʻo F. Nietzsche i'ōlelo mua akuʻo ka nane o kahi wahine no ke kāne ke'ōhua.
ʻO ka wahine hea nā wāhine e mare?
ʻO ka mea mua loa, koho nā kāne i kā lākou mau kaikamāhine punahele i mau wāhine, a me ko lākou "nā" he mauʻano likeʻole:
- ka hiki ke hana i ka meaʻono;
- maikaʻi maikaʻi;
- maikaʻi maikaʻi;
- mālama a me ka lokomaikaʻi.
Pehea e maopopo ai i ke kāne e makemake ana e male?
Ke hoʻomaka ke kanaka e nīnau i ka mea aloha e pili ana i ka mareʻana o kāna mau moeʻuhane, eʻike ai i ka helu i makemakeʻia o nā keiki a inā pahaʻo ia e makemake i kona makuahine,ʻo ia hoʻi, ua "oʻo"ʻo ia.
No ke aha i mare ai nā kāne i kekahi a aloha i nā poʻe'ē aʻe?
Ke hana nei kēia, akā,ʻaʻole wale no nā kāne. ʻO kēia mau mea a pau, no ka mea, heʻano likeʻole ka pilina a me keʻano o ke aloha, aʻo nā koi no ka hoa e likeʻole me kahi hoahele. Pono ka wahine e paʻipaʻi pono, mālama i ka momona i loko o ka hale a hānai i nā keiki, aʻo nā mea a pau i makemakeʻia no ka mea alohaʻo ia wale nō. I kekahi manawa ua lawa kēia i ke aloha. No laila, mare lākou i nā wāhine wahine, akā makemake lākou i ka poʻe i aloha, no ka mea,ʻaʻole hiki iāʻoe ke kauoha aku i kou puʻuwai.
No ke aha la e mare ai na kane i na wahine puupaa?
E lilo i ka mua ma nā wahi a pau - ka hua'ōlelo nui o nā kāne. ʻOiai he mea maikaʻiʻole nā manaʻo o kēlā me kēia kanaka i ka wā e loaʻa ai iā ia kahi mea a ke kanaka, a no laila, uaʻoluʻolu ke kāne ināʻo ia wale nō ka "mea nāna" a me ka "lanakila" o kāna wahine. Akā i kēia manawa,ʻaʻohe o kēia mau ipoʻana,
No ke aha i mare ai nā kāne i ka lāʻau?
Hiki paha i Bugs ke mare i kēlā mau kāne e makemake e nānā i nā kiʻi pīhoihoi:ʻo lākou, e like me kēia māhele o nā wāhine, eʻike i keʻano o nā aʻalolo "tickle". ʻOiaʻiʻo, me ka wahine ponoʻole a me ka manaʻo ponoʻole,ʻaʻoleʻoe e hōʻeha: he mea kāna e kamaʻilio ai, nona kona kūlana pono'ī a me konaʻano hoihoi, e hoʻohui ana i "peppercorns" i ka pilina.