Mālama nā mākua i ka hānaiʻana i kāna keiki, ma muli o kona mau manaʻo pono'ī no ka mea e pono ai ke kanaka makua. Ke makemake nei mākou e ulu aʻe mai kahi keikikāne he kanaka ikaika, kuleana,ʻike, a koa, hiki ke lilo i mea kōkua a pale i konaʻohana. ʻO ka wahine, e like me ka manaʻo iʻikeʻia i keʻano, ponoʻo ia keʻano haʻahaʻa a maʻalahi,ʻo ke aloha a me ke aloha, a me ka wahine aloha a me ka makuahine, ka mea mālama i ka home.
E like me kā lākou makemake, ke hāpai nei mākou i kā mākou mau keikikāne a me kā mākou mau kaikamāhine. I ke kūkuluʻana i ka laina kūpono o ka hoʻonaʻauao kāne a me ka hoʻonaʻauao o nā kula hānai, e kōkuaʻia nā mākua a me nā kumu aʻo e nā hana hoʻokūkū, e like me nā mea e aʻo ai nā keiki i nāʻano hana.
ʻO ka pāʻani e like me keʻano o ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana i nā pelekikena
ʻO ka pāʻani, e like me nā kumu,ʻo ia keʻanoʻoi loa o ke aʻoʻana i kekahi mea. Ma hope o nā mea a pau, hikiʻole i nā keiki ke piha i ka 3-5 mau makahiki ke noho ma nā papa, e koi ana e nānā. Ke pāʻani nei,ʻaʻole e noʻonoʻo ke keiki no ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana a me kahi mea e makemake ai iā ia. Hoʻomaopopo waleʻo ia iā ia i nā hana a me ka maʻalahi, hiki ke hoʻomanaʻo i ka nui o nāʻike kūpono.
ʻO nā kēmu kāne kāne no nā keikikāne kahi o ka ho'ākākaʻana i ka hana a nā kaikamāhine a me nā keikikāne, nā mea e mālama ai i kā lākou hana ma ke kaiaulu. Ua lōʻihi loa ka lōʻihi o keʻano o nā'ōlohelohe o nā "keikikāne a me nā kaikamahine, puppets". Eia kekahi,ʻo nā palena i waena o nāʻoihana kāne a me nā wahine ke hele aʻeleʻele iki, he nui nā wāhine i aloha i nā manaʻo wahine. Ma muli o kēia, ua lilo i mea paʻakikī no ka hanauna'ōpio e hoʻololi ai i kā lākou kuleana, a he nui nā mākua a me nā kūpuna nui ke kū'ē i nā hana hou, i ka wāʻaʻole i hoʻokūpaʻa waleʻia nā pāʻani o nā keikikāne ma nā pākeke a me nā kaikamāhine. ʻaʻole ka wahine wahine, akā, e'ōleloʻoe, he kuhina nui.
Nā hiʻohiʻona o nā pāʻani kāne ma ke kula kiʻekiʻe
He kuleana koʻikoʻi nā mea hoʻonaʻauao o ka mānakēne i kēia mea. E hoʻolālā ana i ka manawa lōʻihi me nā keiki, loaʻa iā lākou ka manawa kūpono e hoʻololi ai i kā lākou hana, e like me ke kāne, ma ke ala pololei. Eia kekahi laʻana, pono e aʻoʻia nā keikikāne he hikiʻole ke hōʻino i nā kaikamāhine, no ka mea ua nāwaliwali lākou; Akā, he mea pono e hāʻawi i nā kaikamāhine kahi wahi, lele i mua, mālama a kōkua. Hiki ke hoʻokōʻia kēia me ke kōkua o nā pāʻani e hiki mai nei, i nā mea i'ōleloʻia i waena o nā hui waena a me nā poʻe koʻikoʻi, no ka mea, ma kēia wā'ōpiopio, e aʻo ai nā kamaliʻi i kaʻepekema o ka hui kaiaulu.
- "Nānā nā home . " E kono i nā keiki e kuke i kaʻaina ahiahi me ka hoʻohanaʻana i ka lumi kuke pāʻani. E kōkua iā lākou e māhele i nā hana: nā kauoha kaikamahine, kōkua nā keiki. Ma hope o ka pāʻani, e kamaʻilio me nā kamaliʻi, e haʻi aku iā lākou e pono mau nā mākua ke kōkua i nā kāne a puni ka hale. Eʻike i ka mea a me pehea e kōkua ai i kou makuahine ma ka home.
- Hale hale hoaaloha . E noho i nā keiki a puni i kahi (keikikāne) a hāʻawi iā lākou i mea hoʻolālā. E hoʻomaka i kahi kiko'ī o ka mea hoʻolālā i loko o ka pōʻai, a e hāʻawi i kēlā me kēia keiki, e pili ana iā ia i ka lā aʻe a me ka heleʻana, e haʻi aku i kahi mahalo i kaʻelele o ka wahine'ē. Eia kekahi laʻana: Vanya hea? - maikaʻi, ikaika, holo wikiwiki, piʻi kiʻekiʻe,ʻaʻole e hōʻino i nā kaikamāhine,ʻaʻole e hakakā. Malha? - Nani,ʻano, pono, pololei, a pēlā aku. Hiki i kēia pāʻani ke hoʻomaopopo i nā keiki i loko o kēlā me kēia kanaka i loaʻa kekahi mea maikaʻi e hiki ai a pono e lilo i mau hoaaloha ma waena o lākou iho. E kūkulu i kahi "hale hoʻokipa" nui mai ka mea hoʻolale.
- "Nā mākua . " E aʻo i nā keiki e pili ana i ka pilina o ka pilinaʻohana a me ka ho'āʻo e hoʻomanaʻo i ka mea nāna: no nā kūpuna o lākou nā moopuna, no nā kaikamāhine a me nā mākua kāne, a pēlā aku. Ma kēia pāʻani, e hoʻohanaʻia nā kāleka me nā hua'ōlelo i kākauʻia ma luna o lākou. Hiki iāʻoe ke hana i kahi kumulāʻau liʻiliʻi o lākou.
- "Nā kaikamahine a Māmā . " He pāʻani kēia i loko o kahiʻohana maoli - mau kaikamāhine ke liʻiliʻi manawa, a me nā keikikāne. Hele nā makua i ka hana, hānai nā mākua i nā kamaliʻi. A laila ua hoʻololi keʻano - ua hele ka pope i kahi lā a nohoʻo ia ma ka home me ke keiki, aʻo Māmā e hana. Hiki i kēia pāʻani ke kōkua i kēlā me kēia keikikāne e hoʻomaopopo i nāʻanoʻelua o kaʻohana ka mea nui a me ka maʻalahi.