ʻO nā kāne koa i makemake nuiʻia e nā wāhine, ko lākou mau naita, hope a me kā lākou kākoʻo,ʻaʻole i hanaʻia i ka pōhaku kila a me ke kila. A me ka hopohopo o ke kūmaho i loaʻa iā lākou ma lalo o ka wahine.
Ka makaʻu o nā kāne
ʻO ka nīnau e hopohopo nei nā wāhine i nā kānaka. ʻO nā kāne likeʻole, me nāʻano likeʻole o keʻano o ka hoʻonaʻauao, ke makaʻu nei i nā wāhine likeʻole. Ke hopohopo nei kekahi kanaka waiwai i nā wāhineʻilihune, no ka mea, manaʻoʻo iaʻaʻoleʻo ia aloha iā ia, akā,ʻo kāna kīʻaha; Ua makaʻu nā kānaka uʻi i nā wāhine ikaika; ka mea hana a me ka pilikinoʻaʻole makemake i ka mea nāwaliwali, e kau ana ma ko lākou'ā'ī i ka pōhaku. Ua hopohopo kēlā me kēia kanaka.
ʻO kaʻino a me ka ikaika?
He meaʻoluʻolu ka nīnau, no ke aha e makaʻu ai nā kānaka i nā wāhine maikaʻi, ma hope o nā mea a pau, heʻano likeʻole ia. ʻO ke kumu nui o ka hoʻonaʻauaoʻana. Mai ka wāʻuʻuku mai, ua lohe ke keikikāne -ʻaʻoleʻoe e koho i ka nani:ʻo ia ka palaualelo, ponoʻole, ae hele nō hoʻi. ʻO ka wahine maoliʻo ia wale nō kaʻiole hina. He nui ka poʻe e aʻo i nā'ōlelo makua. Akā,ʻo ka poʻe e noho nei i loko o lākou, pinepine lākou i ka makaʻu i nā mea nani.
Ke nīnauʻia ke kumu e makaʻu ai nā kānaka i nā wāhine ikaika, ua maʻalahi ka pane. Ua weheweheʻia:ʻo ka wahine:ʻo ka makuahine, ke kupunawahine, ke kumu, ke kumu. Ua maʻaʻo ia i ka hoʻoloheʻana a me ka hopohopo i nā helehelena wahine mai kona wā kamaliʻi. ʻAʻoleʻo lākou a pau ka mea kūpono o ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka haʻahaʻa.
ʻO kaʻoiaʻiʻo o ka nui o nā kānaka e makaʻu nei i nā wāhine maikaʻi, heʻoiaʻiʻo. Akāʻo ka mea nui i makaʻuʻia e kekahi kanaka no ka hōʻole. Hiki i kahi wahine maikaʻi ke hoʻopau waleʻia a hana paha me kahi "mea hoʻomalu". Loaʻa iā ia nā mea mahalo, manaʻoʻo ia e hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa mai iā lākou aʻo kāna mau koi eʻoi loa i ka hoʻonuiʻia. Hiki iā ia ke koi aku i ka pilina maikaʻi a lōʻihi, a ma keʻano laulā, uaʻoi aku ka nui o ka pilikia me ia me ka wahine maʻamau.
Hiki ke palekana ināʻo ka wahine ka haku; inā loaʻa iā ia ka waiwai nui ma mua o kona; ināʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o kona lanakila ma mua o kona, ua loaʻa iā ia ka mea hou i ke ola; iʻoi aku kaʻike ma mua o ia; Loaʻa nā keiki no ka male ma mua o kā mākou makemake. ʻO keʻano maoli, ua makaʻu kekahi kanaka i ka kumakaiaʻana aʻaʻole hoʻi i emi mai i ka wahine āna i makaʻu ai e haʻalele.