No ka wā lōʻihi,ʻo ka pilina mua ma waena o kekahi kāne a me ka wahine kekahiʻano kēmu. A me nā kēʻokoʻa a pau o nā kēmu. Akā, hiki i nā poʻe ke hōʻike i ko lākou aloha i nāʻano likeʻole. ʻO kekahi e kamaʻilio kūpono no kēia a hana, akāʻo ka mea'ē aʻe e pono e nānāʻia ma mua o kaʻikeʻana i ko lākou manaʻo pono. No laila, hiki iāʻoe keʻike i kekahi mau hōʻailona inā makemake kekahi kanaka i wahine, akā hūnā.
Nā hōʻailona e makemake maoli ai ke kāne i wahine
Pono nā kaikamahine a pau e aʻo eʻike i nā hōʻailona e hōʻikeʻike ke makemake ke kāne i wahine. Ma muli o ka nuiʻole o nā poʻe e manaʻo nei ua nānā kekahi iā lākou, a ke hoʻomau nei i ka hoʻopiʻiʻaʻole lākou i makemake i ia mau mea.
Nā hōʻailona nui ke makemake kekahi kāne i wahine:
- Ward . ʻO ke kanaka āu i makemake ai, kokoke nō ia e kokoke. E noi i nā nīnau likeʻole, e noi i ke kōkua me kekahi mea, a iʻoluʻolu paha. Ma kēiaʻano, e hōʻikeʻo ia i kona makemake iāʻoe, a paha paha e hoʻokuʻu aku i nā kānaka'ē aʻe.
- E nānā . ʻO ka nānāʻana i ka nānāʻana i nā mea a pau, ma kahi o hoʻokahi tausani hua'ōlelo. Ma kēia kumu, hiki iā ia ke'ōlelo palekana i ka hōʻikeʻana o ke kanaka i ka makemake.
- ʻO ka leo . Ke kamaʻilio pūʻoe me kahi kaikamahine āu e makemake ai, e hohonu ka hohonu o ka leo, haʻahaʻa aʻoi aku ka nani.
- Pākuʻi . E ho'āʻo kahi kāne e hoʻopā i ka wahine i ka manawa hiki. E hana kēia ma kekahi manawa kūpono - e kuhi lima aiʻole e lawelawe i ka mea inā pono. A inā paha e noiʻo ia iāʻoe e paʻa i kāna mau palapala, aʻaʻaʻole paha i kou kāpena mai kāu pahu.
- Nā makana . ʻO ka hōʻailonaʻoi loa he mau makana . I kēia manawa, hiki iāʻoe ke noʻonoʻo - makemakeʻo ia iāʻoe, makemake a hōʻoluʻolu paha. Me ke kuko ikaika, e hāʻawi kekahi kanaka i nā makana e hiki ai iāʻoe ke hoʻoulu - e ho'āʻo. Hiki ke lilo i meaʻala, mea nani a me ke kolo nui. Aʻo ka mākaukau paʻa ka pua. E hāʻawi mau lākou i nā manawa a pau. Aʻo nā'ahuʻula me ka'ahuʻula. Ma hope o ka manawa, e manaʻo kekahi wahine e paneʻo ia i kekahi mea no ia mau makana.
ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ia ke manaʻo i kāuʻike a mālama i kēia mau hōʻailona, a laila, hiki ke lilo i mea maikaʻi loa i ke ola pilikino.