ʻO ka lā o ka maleʻana he hālāwai nui ia e hōʻuluʻulu ai i nā pili kaiaulu a me nā hoaaloha, a ma kēiaʻano hoʻomehana aloha e hoʻonui ai mākou i kēia hanana. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka lā o ka maleʻana e hōʻike ana i ka ikaika o ka huiʻohana a me ke aloha i waena o nā wāhine. I loko o nāʻohana he nui, mahaloʻia kēia lā hoʻomaha.
Me kēlā me kēia makahiki aʻe, e ikaika ana aʻoi aku ka ikaika o kaʻohana. I ka wā hou, he mea maʻamau ia e hōʻoluʻolu i nā lā kau ma ka male male - 5, 10, 15, 25 makahiki. No ka hoʻomaopopo aʻaʻole paha eʻike i nā lā hou aku he mea kūikawā ia o nā hoa kāne.
He aha kāu e hāʻawi no ka lā o ka maleʻana? - nīnauʻia kēia nīnau e nā mea a pau i loaʻa i kahi kono i kēia hoʻolauleʻaʻohana nui. Aia ka inoa o kēlā me kēia lā o ka male male, a he mea hōʻailona ia o ka mea e hāʻawi aku ai. Hoʻomaopopo kēia i ka huliʻana i kahi hōʻike a hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i ka makana maikaʻi loa no ka lā male.
He aha kāu e hāʻawi no ka makahiki mua o ka maleʻana?
ʻO ka makahiki mua, ua kapaʻiaʻo ka lālani pua. ʻO ka inoa e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻololiʻana o ke kāleka i kahi kupa, a ua hoʻoikaikaʻia nā pae e pili ana i nā hoa kāne. Eia kekahi, ua'ōleloʻia ka inoa no kēia makahiki, ua pili pono nā kāne i kekahi i kekahi, e like me kaʻupena i uhiʻia no kaʻaʻahu o kēlā me kēia lā.
ʻO kahi makana no ka lā mua o ka maleʻana he laulā. ʻO nā lole olonā, nā moe moe, nāʻaʻahu a me nā mea hana'ē aʻe'ē aʻe ka meaʻoi aku ka maikaʻi loa no kēia makahiki.
He aha e hōʻike ai no ka makahikiʻelua o ka maleʻana?
ʻO ka lā oʻelua mau makahiki o ka maleʻana, ua kapaʻiaʻo kaʻaha pepa. I kēia lā he mea maʻamau ke hāʻawi i nā makana mai ka pepa a me ka pepa pahu. ʻO nā makana maikaʻi loa no ka lāʻelua o ka maleʻana he mau puke.
E like me ka makahiki mua a me ka lua,ʻaʻole hiki ke koho i kahi makana no nā lā hou. No laila, i ke kolu o ka makahiki (male keʻokeʻo) he mea maʻamau ke hāʻawi i nā makana mai kaʻili. Ma ka hala'ahāhā (male mare) - nā hua pua a me nā pua. I ka lima o ka makahiki (ma ka mareʻana ma ka ulu lāʻau) - nā huahana mai kahi lāʻau, nā mea hoʻomanaʻo. A pela aku.
Ma ka lā o ka maleʻana, hiki iāʻoe ke kiʻi mai me kahi makana'ē aʻe. Ma mua o ka poʻe a pau e nānā nei i keʻano kuʻuna a me nā makana i kēia mau lā i ka lā liana, e kū ana ma ka inoa o ka makahiki. Ma keʻano he makana no ka lā o ka maleʻana, hiki i nā hoaaloha ke hāʻawi a me nā lako hana hale, a me ke kālā, a me nā mea hoʻomanaʻo, a me nā mea pono o ka hale. Ma lalo iho nāʻano likeʻole a me nā mea likeʻole o nā makana no ka lā o ka maleʻana:
- hele hele. Inā loaʻa iāʻoe nā mea e pono ai, a laila hiki iāʻoe ke hāʻawi i kāu mau hoaaloha ma ka lā male mare he holo moana a he lā hoʻomaha ma ka hālāwai. ʻO kahi koho kūpono loa he tickets no kahi'ahamele, kahi hui aiʻole kahi kiʻiʻoniʻoni;
- makana makana. Hiki ke hāʻawiʻia i makana makana me kahi makana maʻamau. ʻO nā mea nani a me nā mea nani i hanaʻia i ke ola i kēlā lā i kēia lā, he mea hoʻomanaʻo maikaʻi, hoʻokipa hoʻokipa a me nā mea'ē aʻe he nui loa kaʻoluʻolu i ka poʻe e hana nei i kaʻahaʻaina. Hiki ke kūʻaiʻia nā makana kīʻaha ma nā hale kūʻai kūikawā;
- heʻaina awakea ma kahi haleʻaina. He mea pili kēia makana i kēlā me kēia lā o ka maleʻana. No kēia hana, pono e koho kekahi i ka hale i makemake ai nā wāhine e hele ma mua o ko lākou maleʻana. No lākou, he mea ia e hoʻomanaʻo ai i kēlā manawa i ka manawa a lākou i makemake nui ai i ke aloha o kekahi i kekahi, a hoʻomaka wale kā lākou mau pilina;
- makana me kou mau lima pono'ī. Maanei e hiki iāʻoe ke hoʻokomo i kou manaʻo i kahi kiʻekiʻe. ʻO ka mea nui,ʻo ka makana ka hōʻailona o ka ikaika o ka huiʻohana a me ka lokahi o nā wāhine.
Hiki ke loaʻa nā manaʻo maikaʻi no ka lā hānau o ka māhele ma nā pūnaewele pūnaewele, a kaʻana like i kou mau manaʻo a kūkākūkā i nā makana maikaʻi loa e hiki ai iāʻoe ma luna o ka papahana o kā mākou pūnaewele. ʻO ka mea nui, i ka manawa o ka hāʻawiʻana i ka makana no nā lā o ka mareʻana i nā hoaaloha, e haʻi iā lākou mai ka puʻuwai mai i kaʻahaʻaina maikaʻi - a laila e hāʻawi pālua hou ka makana.