Eia ka pehea e maopopo ai i ke aloha o nā kāne i ka wahine? Hiki i kekahi a me ka hoahana like ke hilinaʻi i keʻano o ka'ōlelo "e moe anaʻoe e like me ka loka" a "peheaʻoe eʻike ai pehea e hana ai i kēia, e hana e like me ka wahine hoʻokamakama." ʻAe, makemake nā kāne i ka moekolohe - ke hoa noho mālie a hilahila paha, he aha ka mea e pono ai kēia mau mea hilahilaʻole i ka nui? ʻOiai he mea ia, uaʻikeʻia he mauʻano likeʻole nā kāne a me nā keikikāne e pili ana i ka wahine, a no laila, pono ke nānāʻia i kahi kaʻawale. Akā, aia nā mea maʻamau i mahaloʻia e nā poʻe o ka wahine ikaika. No ka laʻana,ʻo kāu kāne punahele e pili ana i ka wahine,ʻo nā kāne a pau e like me kēlā me kēia koho.
Nā mea i makemakeʻia e nā kāne ma ka moekolohe
Manaʻoʻoe i kēlā mau kāne e like me ka wahine hou: mālama i ke kaʻina hana a iʻole e kali paha i kekahi mea like me kēia hoa? ʻAʻoleʻoe iʻike? No laila,ʻaʻole lākou iʻike, a ua like pū lāua aʻelua, akā makemake lākou e lilo i mea nui loa i ka wahine kāne iʻoi aku ka pinepine, a ua hōʻoiaʻia e ka helu i makemakeʻia.
- ʻO ka wahi mua i laweʻia e keʻano o ka'īlio,ʻo nā kāne e like me ke kua ma hope o ka hoa. Eia nā mea a pau e hoʻomaluʻia e kahi kanaka, malia paha no keʻano nui o nā kānaka e like me ia.
- ʻO ka lua o ka mea i kaulana loaʻo ia ka hope o ka mikionali. Ho'ākāka nā kānaka hoʻonaʻauao e kohoʻia e nā kānaka e mālama nei i nā manaʻo o kā lāua hoa.
- Akā ma kahiʻekolu, kahi kahi o ka mea holo. ʻO ko mākou poʻe palaualelo pinepineʻole e noʻonoʻo e hoʻomaha a mahalo i ka nani o ka kino wahine, ua kūpono loa nā makemakeʻelua mai kēia hana.
He aha ka makemake o kānaka i ka wahine?
- Ke noʻonoʻo nei i ka mea e hoʻohūhū ai i kahi mea aloha i ka wahine, he pinepine nā wāhine e hōʻalo i nāʻike e pili ana i nā poses, nā mea pāʻani a me nā pāʻani pāʻani i kahi moe. A no laila, makemake kēlā kanaka kēia kanaka i kaʻokoʻa. Aʻaʻole pahaʻoe e makemake i kahi haʻawina maikaʻi, e like me ka wahine, e lilo i mea maʻamau. No laila, ma waho o ka hōʻino a me ka hilahila, hoʻokolohua, hāʻawi hou i kahi mea hou, eʻae i nā manaʻo o ka hoa. Eia naʻe,ʻaʻohe pono eʻoluʻolu, ināʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake e hana i kekahi mea, maiʻole, e hāʻawi wale i kahi. Ināʻole, e manaʻo kekahi kanakaʻaʻoleʻo ia e hopohopo iāʻoe, no ka mea, makemakeʻo ia e hoʻokaʻawale i ka wahineʻaʻoleʻo ia wale nō, makemakeʻo ia e hoʻonani iāʻoe.
- He aha nā mea e hana ai i nā kāne e pili ana i ka wahine, keʻae kūpono i kā lākou mau manaʻo a pau, aiʻole inā makemakeʻoe i kahi kaikamahine eʻuʻuku i kahi liʻiliʻi? Malia paha e kahaha auaneʻiʻoe, akā, makemake kekahi poʻe e lawe i kahi hoʻokiʻekiʻe kiʻekiʻe, no lailaʻaʻole i pāpāʻia e kū'ē i kahi liʻiliʻi. Akā, e hoʻomanaʻo, he liʻiliʻi ka hua'ōlelo nui.
- Akāʻo ka nīnau maʻalahi, he aha ka mea e aneane i nā kāne a pau e pili ana i ka wahine? Ma keʻano pololei, kūkā waha, mahalo nui lākou i nāʻelele o ka hapanui ikaika o ka lāhui. Akā makemake nui lākou, i ka wā eʻoliʻoli ai ka wahine, no ka mea, he kanaka hōʻoia hou kēia e alohaʻoe iā ia aʻae i nā mea a pau.
- Ke manaʻo nei pahaʻoe wale no e makemakeʻoe e makemake? Makemake kou kāne i ia. No laila, mai hoʻopoina e hoʻomaka i kahi mele aloha iāʻoe iho, e haʻi aku i kāu mea aloha,
makemakeʻoe, a maʻaneʻi a ma kēia manawa. Ināʻo ka mea hoʻokumu i ka wahine wale nō he kanaka, hiki iā ia ke hoʻoholo i kēia manaʻoʻaʻoleʻoe e makemake nui, aʻae paha i ka wahine me ia wale nō no kona hāʻawiʻana iāʻoe, a no nā kumu'ē aʻe. - Mai hopohopoʻoe e pili ana i kahi moe,ʻaʻole hoʻi i ka mea kūponoʻole,ʻaʻole hoʻi iʻikeʻia nā mea iʻikeʻoleʻia. I ke aloha nuiʻole,ʻaʻole e hoʻolohe ke kanaka i kēia mau mea liʻiliʻi, heʻoi aku kaʻoi aku ka nui iā ia ke weheʻoe iā ia, e hāʻawiʻoe iā ia me ke kuko.
- A no ka mea,ʻaʻole mākou e hoʻopoina i nā kānaka e like me nā kiʻi nani, a inā e'alaʻolu ka "kiʻi", he maikaʻi loa. ʻO ka mea nui e koho ai i kaʻala e makemake ai a heleʻole i kahi ala me ka meaʻala, kahi āu e pono ai ka lālā māmā e hoʻomaha ai i kāu mea aloha. A no ka "paʻi", a laila e hele mai ke aloha i mea e kōkua ai, a e aho e koho aku me kāu kāne, e haʻiʻo ia i kāna e makemake eʻike iāʻoe.