I kēia ao hou,ʻaʻole i manaʻoʻia he mau waiwai gula i nā mea kūʻai gula, no ka mea,ʻo nā wahine maikaʻi a pau, he mau apo pepeiao , he lei, a he kaulahao paha. ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona i hōʻikeʻia i nā pepeiao pepeiao gula hiki ke loaʻa i nāʻike kūpono maikaʻi a me kaʻikeʻole. Eia kekahi,ʻo ka nohoʻana o kekahi hoa e hōʻike mau ai i ke ola o kahi hui, no laila,ʻaʻole e pili wale nō kaʻike i ke ola o ka mea moeʻuhane, akā, no kāna mau pilina pū me nā poʻe e pili ana.
He aha kaʻu e mau pepeiao gula?
No kaʻikeʻana i ka hoʻonani i loko o kou lima, he hōʻailona maikaʻi ia, e kuhi ana i ka hoʻomaikaʻi houʻana i keʻano waiwai a me ka hōʻeaʻana mai o nā hōʻailona hoʻonani hou i kaʻoihana e kōkua i ka hoʻololiʻana i kāu kūlana waiwai no ka maikaʻi. ʻO ka moeʻuhane āu eʻike ai i nā apo pepeiao gula ma kekahi wahine'ē, he hōʻailonaʻino ia e haʻi iāʻoe he mea pono e makaʻala i ka'ōlelo hawanawana. ʻO kekahi puke moe ka mea makemake e nānāʻoe i kāu hoa,ʻoiai e noʻonoʻoʻo ia no ka kipi.
Inā hāʻawiʻiaʻoe i nā apo pepeiao gula ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia hoʻi,ʻaʻole e liʻuliʻu e loaʻa iāʻoe kahi hōʻailonaʻoihana hou ma muli o nā hana a kahi mea pili. ʻO ka pilikino me nā pōhaku e haʻi iāʻoe ua hoʻokuʻuʻiaʻoe i loko o nā hana o ka home,ʻaʻole ia e hoʻomaha iāʻoe a hoʻomaha. ʻO kekahi pōhaku nui i loko o nā apo pepeiao e wānana ana i ka loaʻaʻana o kahi hōʻike o ke aloha.
Inā kūʻai ka'ōpiopio ma ka moeʻuhane i nā apo pepeiao gula,ʻo ia hoʻi, hiki koke mai ke kanaka hoʻonāukiuki i kou ola, akā, e hoʻomanaʻo i kona manaʻoʻaʻole heʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka moeʻuhane i nā apo pepeiao gula a hoʻokomo iā lākou he mea maikaʻi loa no ka wahine hoʻokahi. ʻO ka mea nui loa, ke kali neiʻo ia i kahi lā me kahi kanaka e hāʻawi nui i ka hauʻoli a me ke aloha . Ināʻoe e manaʻo ua kūpono nā apo pepeiao iāʻoe, a laila, hiki ke hoʻopau i ka pilina hou me kaʻahaʻaina. No ka wahine i mareʻia e lilo i ke gula
No ke aha ka moeʻuhane e loaʻa ai nā apo pepeiao gula ma ka moeʻuhane?
ʻO ia mau'ōlelo hoʻohanohano e loaʻa iāʻoe ka pōmaikaʻi a me ka hauʻoli, hiki koke iāʻoe ke loaʻa ka maluhia o ka manaʻo. No ka wahine, he moeʻuhane kēiaʻano moeʻuhane i kaʻoihana i makemakeʻia.
No ke aha ka moeʻuhane e uhaʻi i ke pepeiao gula ma ka moeʻuhane?
ʻO kaʻoki pepeiao i hōʻailonaʻia he hōʻailona o ka nānāʻana o ka haʻalulu e hoʻopau i kou hilinaʻiʻia ma ka hana a ma kāu ola pilikino. ʻO kahi kīhakiʻia i nā mea hoʻonani, he hōʻailona hōʻailona ia e hōʻike ana i nā pilikia i hāpaiʻoleʻia ma ka hana, e like paha, hiki ke kamaʻilio me ke poʻo e pili ana i ka wehe.