ʻO ka lilo o ka mea i alohaʻia he manawa pōʻino ia, kahi e hele pū me nā waimaka a me ke kaumaha. ʻO nā moe me kekahiʻano likeʻole e waihoʻia ana i nāʻano manaʻoʻole. No kaʻike inā ponoʻoe e hoʻomākaukau no nā pilikia a iʻole, akā, heʻike kūpono kēia, pono e hoʻohana i nā ho'ākāka i manaʻoʻia.
No ke aha i moeʻuhane ai ka make a ka hoa?
Ua haʻiʻia nā moʻolelo moemoekala he hōʻailona maikaʻiʻole kēlā moeʻuhane. Akāʻo ka make he hōʻailona o ka loli a me ka hoʻololi hou. Ma hope o kou olaʻana, e hoʻololiʻia nā loli e pono aiʻoe eʻae. Ma muli o ka hopena, e loaʻa iāʻoe kahiʻike nui e hiki mai ana i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Hiki keʻikeʻia ka makeʻana o kekahi hoaaloha ma ka moeuhane no ka'ōlelo aʻo e pili ana i kahi kanaka kokoke iāʻoe nā pilikia a makemakeʻo ia i ke kōkua. Aia kekahi mauʻike e pili ana nā moeʻuhane i kēlā mau pō i ka hopena no ka mea e hana nei.
ʻO ka pepehi kanaka o ka hoaaloha he hōʻailona ia no ka liʻuliʻu eʻikeʻoe i ka hauʻoli nui e pili ana i kahi hanana kūpono a iʻole ka hanana. No ka moeʻuhane o ka hoaaloha a make, no laila, i lokoʻoe no ka hōʻeha nui, hiki i ke kaumaha . Ināʻoe e aʻo mai kahi mea'ē aʻe e pili ana i ka makeʻana o kekahi hoaaloha - eia ka'ōlelo aʻo e mai iā ia a ma kaʻoiaʻiʻo e pono ai ka mea e pono ai ka manaʻo maikaʻiʻole.
ʻO ka ho'ākākaʻana,ʻo ka makeʻana o kekahi hoaaloha ma ka moeʻuhane, ke kuhihewa nei i kaʻike. Eia kekahi laʻana, aia kaʻike e pili ana kēlā moeʻuhane i hōʻailona o kaʻikeʻana iāʻoe iho i kahi pilikia, aʻaʻoleʻoe eʻike pehea e puka ai. ʻOiai i kēlā hihiʻo pō e like me keʻano o ka hana hewaʻole e loaʻa ai nā hopena maikaʻi loa. No kaʻikeʻana i ka makeʻana o kekahi hoaaloha ma ka moeʻuhane,ʻo ia hoʻi, eʻike koke anaʻoe mai iā ia mai ka lono maikaʻiʻole mai iā ia. ʻO keʻanoʻano moe he moeʻuhane āu i lohe ai i ka leo o kekahi hoaaloha i make. ʻO ka makeʻana o kekahi hoaaloha e hōʻike i kahi ola lōʻihi a hauʻoli.